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About ReformedHedonist
So the submissive part of me has been active for almost a decade, and probably hasnt had as much exercise as I would like... If I had to explain why I enjoy being degraded, humiliated and ified I would really struggle. I am a pretty confident and assertive person generally and i guess when we explore more extreme sex we are always looking to be taken out of our comfort zone. I very much want to lose all control in a situation.Some of the things I enjoy
Electro-play - Love E-stim, both in a masochistic way, and for pleasure.
Degradation - Make me feel low and worthless
Humiliation and Exhibitionism - These are scary to me, because i fear public humiliation, yet find it incredibly hot. I get off being seen naked or vulnerable, but im still somewhat shy. Complex stuff...
Chastity - Probably needs little explanation, losing access means its all I can think about and keeps me focused on whats important, whoever holds the key...
Masochism - Im certainly not a hardcore masochist, but if carefully guided, and balanced with my arousal, I find I can go to some dark places. I love nipple torture, CBT, needle play, sounding, estim, impact play and other torments.
Anal play - Love feeling filled, enjoy bigger toys and fisting.
There are lots more interests, but the above will always be greeted with an enthusiasticyes!
What im looking for
Ultimately Im looking for an FLR. That is one based on parity, mutual respect and intimacy like any other, but with a complete understanding that YOU own me and that i am your loyal servant outside of my personal time and my work time. I admire independent and assertive women with ambition and am equally ambitious and outgoing. Im not outwardly submissive and no one would ever guess meeting me that this is a part of my life. That would be a side that only you would see.
I may be open to being shared, i am open to public play and i would serve in any way you desire at private parties of your peers. All I ask is that you respect my freedom outside of these closed circles and encourage my desire to be the best person I can be.
Outside Kink
So I adore a cocktail and I love to cook.I like to indulge my palate, be it a creative drink or a fine meal, and you will find my home vast stocked and my fridge full of good things.Im a geek, enjoying board games, pc games, anything technical and a love for craftsmanship.
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