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RefinedandDirty

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RefinedandDirty - Male Switch, Sacramento California | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About RefinedandDirty

I am a professional, educated, responsible, and accomplished white male in Sacramento with a kinky streak running deep, needing an outlet--you. I have years and years of experience in creative sexual situations, though I am by no means a lifestyle dom. I enjoy a woman who gives herself over to my pleasure, who enjoys being used but also cherished, and who can follow orders. I'm not looking to "own" someone, nor am I looking for anything more than a playpartner--for anything outside of our getting together discreetly; that said, I don't mind romance within our sessions.
By nature I am quite gentle and polite, a liberal progressive intellectual, with friends and family and a balanced life. It's a fun vacation for me to delve into our darker tastes. I prefer sane by day/insane by night partners and do not tolerate alcoholics or drug addicts.

I also would love to serve the right mistress, but no one has yet tamed me. Pain is of no interest to me, and I don't care to be belittled and emasculated--though dressing up however a woman likes is fun. In short, I'm get off on obeying and pleasuring a woman physically--not on being ridiculed and hurt.



I have a true fetish for women in tight clothes, shinier the better. I'd be happy to provide such gear to a partner. I love lots of foreplay and am VERY oral (when dom or sub). I love watersports, though it's hardly a necessity for a scene, and I have yet to meet a woman truly into it. The first woman I find who IS into it will get my full, full attention!


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