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Male Switch, 31, ottawa ontario
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Female Switch, 22, New York City, New York
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Female Switch, 22
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About redxxi
tldr - Caring dom looking for caring sub
27M Asian looking for a 19-26F Asian sub who could be a great life partner
My desired lifestyle
* Full-time entrepreneurship
* Lots of bonding time with my partner
My core beliefs
* Happiness comes when you stop listening to what others tell you about how life should be and instead live how you want
* Fulfillment comes as you increasingly gain autonomy to pursue whats important to you, mastery over the skills you care about, and progress towards your purpose
* Few things in life truly matter and all the things that do dont require large sums of money its worthwhile to figure out how to make more time for those things
* The right team could achieve substantially more together than apart
Pieces of My dom philosophy
* Im content in my life as is, and I dont need anything from you but if were a good fit for one another and you wish to provide your obedient submission, I will honor it by trying to best to bring the best out in you
* Trust is a relationship is the most important thing -- I will never take the trust you place in me lightly
* The best relationships happen when we are both fully honest fully loving with each other
* The doms role is to
* Prioritize their subs wellbeing
* Lovingly provide for her needs, protect her from physical and mental threats, and prioritize her personal development
* That said, I cant directly give you happiness or fulfillment, but I believe I can provide the guidance opportunity to pursue it
* Your needs first, then ours, then mine, then my wants, then our wants, and then your wants
* Emotional connection is absolutely necessary for the rest of the relationship to function well
* I am not personally interested in the B, S, or M in BDSM
My goals in life
* I want, to the extent that I can, change the world for the better
* Provide better opportunities thru my businesses for people around the globe
* Get the business world to be more authentic and self-aware (as opposed to rigid prejudiced)
* Help others live a more joy purpose-filled life thru my writing videos
* Getting to know and be known by my partner
* Work hard and work smart in the domains of entrepreneurship investing to achieve financial freedom in as little time as possible (I dont think its crazy to have around 10M by the time Im 35) to focus on my more on my life mission
A little bit about me
* Id say the most defining characteristic trait about me is my ambition - I graduated from Berkeley, work as a senior software engineer at a large company, and run a private equity firm on the side
* I am generally a homebody where I spend my time reading non-fiction to further my knowledge, play video games watch anime to decompress, and write to share my ideas with the world
* I work out more than most and my goal for 2020 is to reach visible abs
What Im looking for in a partner
* In general, I push myself very hard to be the best I can be, and want someone who can help me relax (both in a sexual and non-sexual context)
* My goals are more important to me than any person (including myself) and I need someone who respects that and encourages me along that journey
* Although I plan to have a lot of future wealth, Im not looking for a sugar baby, but someone who can operate beside me thru thick and thin
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