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redvelvetlass

REDVELVETDOMINA
Female Dominant, 35
Female Dominant, 40, nepa, Pennsylvania
Male Submissive, 28, West coast
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About redvelvetlass

i am a submissive who has been out of the lifestyle for the last 2 years. ?i am looking to explore and enjoy my submissive side once again. ?
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Please understand, i am not new to this lifestyle and have no time for messages that contain phrases such as:
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?"you will call Me Master". ?i will not call anyone Master right off the bat. ?That is a term which is earned thru trust, understanding and respect.
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"send Me pictures of your.......". ?There will be no pictures sent other than a face picture when B/both parties are comfortable.
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If You wish to know what i look like, please feel free to ask and i will describe myself to You to the best of my ability.
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If You find the above statements too bossy or bold for You then we are obviously not a good fit. ?If You agree and understand, please feel free to message.
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The more time that i spend on here the more discouraged i become. It seems so many of those on here who say they are Doms may be in their own minds but i am not sure where else. While finding out each others likes and dislikes is important, i believe that opening up conversation is more important to see if there is a connection. For lack of a tasteful way to put this, i am not going to drop my drawers for just anyone but if that is what You are looking for, keep right on moving.
One of my favorite quotes: "A submissive is not weak because a Dominant controls her. A submissive is strong because she surrenders her power to Him willingly."
One thing i will add is that i cannot stand to be lied to. If You cannot or should i say will not tell the truth and be honest, i am not the sub for You. Any relationship begins with trust and honesty. Without that why bother. If You have a significant other who does not know that You are here. Just say so. It is not for me to judge. .i would rather have honesty than deceit.
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