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Female Dominant, 35
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Female Dominant, 40, nepa, Pennsylvania
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Male Submissive, 28, West coast
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About redvelvet2009
**I am neither interested in sex nor a romantic relationship. My partner provides all the love I need. I am looking for a sub for My entertainment (with respect for the basis of your humanity, of course). I have returned to Collarspace for a week after an extended absence, and I'm rather disappointed. I will be deleting this profile and moving to Fetlife soon.
I've been gone a while due to life's demands. I will update my profile soon.
If you're married and your partner either does not know or does not accept your activities, DO NOT contact Me and waste My time. I have no tolerance for dishonesty and/or drama.
I've never been the type of Domme who felt the need to put on leather and/or stilettos to fulfill My role as a Goddess. I've been in the scene since I was 16, and I've been exploring financial manipulation for only two years. However, that is not the only form of dominance I practice, it's just the form I'm exploring now. I am ultimately looking for r/t servants, but given My requirements/expectations, it's wise for Me to expand My reach.
This is NOT an exchange of services, for those of you who are too daft to know the difference between a prostitute/porn star, findom and/or sugar baby, do not bother Me. An exchange of services would imply that W.we are equal. you will never objectify Me. Those of you familiar with Greek mythology know what happens when a man dares to look on a Goddess naked....
Reasons for Interest: If Woman is Biblically "cursed" by God to serve man, then claiming My role as Goddess, thus usurping the role of God (a man), is the ultimate act of perversion. I enjoy inversion just as much as I enjoy perversion, so I also find pleasure in using kink to subvert the application/hierarchies of social constructs. Capitalism thrives on the exploitation of gendered and racialized bodies, hence the reason social stratification is both gendered and racial. As a Black Woman, the thrill of subverting external social construct via kink is exhilarating (e.g. reversing/attaching those constructs to white male bodies). Just as male doms recognize the power of sexuality when seeking control/ownership over female subs, just as they feel -entitled- to not only make sexual demands, but to use their patriarchal claim to sex/power when seeking to control their Female subs, I recognize the power/importance of money over men, and I have no shame in my tactics. Also, I'm suspicious of men who use kink to seek more power/dominance than the world already gives them, and I know that about seventy percent of male doms are on too much of a power trip to be intentional about their tactics. While I have My rules etc., I'm not foolish enough to negate that you come to Me as a person first, and that any arrangement must be mutually beneficial in order for it to succeed. I do not treat all of My subs alike, giving no regard to their individual personalities/ticks etc. Consent is the foundation of any good interaction, and I will only treat you as badly as you agree to be treated ;)
Limits: Incest, scat, animals, snuff, needles, knives, blood, underage play
Vanilla Activities I enjoy: Collecting Vinyl Records, Hiking, Coding, Writing, Volunteering, Brazilian Jiujitsu, Red Wine, Intellectual Discourse
I am a Black Feminist, well-educated Goddess. I mention this to emphasize a few points:
-I appreciate discretion on account of My own sense of potential risk, so I am considerate of subs with social positions that require discretion and prudence.
-I value intelligence.
-I am not arrogant enough to imagine Myself a "self-made Woman", since every bit of success is achieved thru both assistance and a bit of relative privilege (even when it's not apparent). Although I've defied more odds than most people can genuinely fathom, I would like to think that I balance My confidence with humility. That being said, I take great pride in My accomplishments, so I have no intention of conflating My personal success with yours.
If you are interested in applying to become one of My main subs, be warned that the application process is intense, and most of you will fail. Do not message Me to ask if/when you may apply. I will discern which of you are loyal and consistent enough to have the honor of beginning the application process, although none of you deserve it. If I think it's a poor match, I'll let you know immediately.
While I may be demanding, I promise I do not bite--not unless you ask :) I recognize that submission is earned, it is not given, and I recognize that an unchecked ego is a fool's/man's reaction to fear. Although I have very little tolerance for nonsense, I do respect boundaries, and I'll respect you when discussing your limits.
If you become My sub/slave, I will be both your ruler in spiritual and earthly matters. Instead of going to church you will come to Me.
Send Me a message using lower-case "i" so I know you read this. Also, do not forget to request permission to speak. |
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