redstasia

Looking for a relationship to grow into.

Moved to Victoria last year and hoping to meet folks.

I love to surrender, to play and fight back, to learn new things.
Lots of boundaries still to explore. The psychological dimension of
power and control fascinate me, the the primal kicks in while the brain
sleeps.

I list myself as Switch as that is what i believe my basic nature to
be although I have no experience in topping and am mostly drawn to
bottoming right now.

Spirituality is very important to me and this is a spiritual game -
doesn't matter if we are playing by the same rules there or not. I like
to live healthfully and naturally. I have always been a part of one
fringe culture or another, love those edges. I'm open to all sorts of
possibilites.

But NO ATTACHED MEN who are keeping thier loved ones in the dark about this. Not interested. I'm NOT DISCREET!

My Ideal Person:
I'm looking for caring, experienced, intellegent, kinky friends. I'm
looking for someone to get to know and trust. I'm not interested in
random exchanges with strangers. I'm curious about where this all can
go and interested in the community as well. Not interested in NSA - if
you have a partner who doesn't know, no go. I'm open to poly situations
but looking right now for a primary relationship, local.

I want people who know what they are doing and know what they want.

I'm curious about a lot of things. I tend to be rebellious and cheeky (smartypants), like to talk and discuss issues.

Send me a line, I won't bite unless you ask nice like.