Previous profile, posted here for posterity:
May 2012: I've updated this profile to reflect my current (and on-going) search for a service based relationship. Service is new territory for me, especially outside of some sort of other romantic entanglement. I'll continue to provide updates as I figure out the specifics, but here's what I know so far.
Who I'm looking to serve:
This is one I'm still trying to figure out, but what it boils down to right now is not just anybody. Just because you're female and dominant, doesn't mean I'm interested. The current criteria is as follows: If you're interested in receiving my service and I think you're awesome, then I'm interested in exploring an arrangement with you.
What I'm looking to get out of it:
Obviously service is it's own reward. Experience tells me though, that fulfillment from service alone only comes only when it's a situation involving the right task at the right time for the right person/group/event/etc. For a service based relationship to flourish, there needs to be some sort of reciprocity from the person receiving the service. As for the specifics-- stay tuned, it's not something I've been able to hash out yet.
What I'm not looking for:
Service as a means of finding a play partner: I'm currently searching for play partner(s). I consider this a separate search. I would not preclude play within a service relationship, but it's not a requirement.
Service as a means of finding a romantic partner: Same as play-- I'm not going to preclude it but there is no expectation of romantic involvement.
How I can serve:
Physical Labor- I'm physically fit and certainly not afraid to get my hands dirty.
Skilled Labor- I've got 10+ years experience in carpentry and the building trades and am generally good with tools.
Cleaning- Though not my favorite thing to do, my attention to detail and slight anal retentiveness mean that I'm thorough and complete.
...Now back to your regularly scheduled profile:
25 year old mostly straight sado-masochistic single male bottom seeking a relationship with a dominant female partner.
I'm out and active in the Toronto kink community.
I have been known to switch, but am not looking to necessarily switch with my partner. I find I function better in relationships where the roles aren't fluctuating and am consequently better able to meet my partner's needs and desires.
Outside of kink, I enjoy good food (as well as cooking it), strong coffee, craft beer, cycling, most outdoor pursuits and working with my hands.
Personality Wise: (i.e. Reasons You and I may or may not get along):
I strive to be direct. This applies to all aspects of my life but is most present in interpersonal interactions and relationships. That makes me big on openness and communication, but also means that I'm unlikely to pussy-foot around issues if or when they arise. Whenever possible, unnecessary drama gets checked at the door.
I can be intense, but try to do it in an easy going manner
I've been described as a geek. Not in the traditional computers - world of warcraft - comic book sense, but rather just in the sense that I allow myself to be interested in and passionate about stuff that your average Joe isn't likely to find cool.
Kinkwise
What I look for in a partner:
A personal connection beyond just a commonality in our fetish checklists.
Intelligent, grounded with a sense of humor...
The ability to communicate and articulate their needs and desires.
Strength and confidence in the absence of arrogance.
Activities I enjoy:
Ass play, strap-ons, butt plugs and other toys
Spanking, caning, whipping, flogging and other impact play
Bondage, restraints, immobilization
Oral Stimulation, gags, dildos, cunnilingus
Grappling and struggle play
Sensory deprivation, vacbeds, hoods, blindfolds
Clips, clamps, clothespins, zippers
Activities I'm curious about and/or would enjoy within a relationship or more established play partnership:
Service, serving, chores, housework
Chastity, orgasm control, orgasm denial
Discipline,punishment, corporal punishment, behavior modification
Fisting, figging
Long term bondage/restraint
Medical play, sounding, water-sports
Breath-play, choking
Protocol, honorifics, rituals, training
Negotiated power exchange
"Lines, lines, everywhere there's lines"
"Everywhere there's lines"
"Fucking up the scenery, Breaking my mind"
"Do this, don't do that"
"Can't you type the line"
