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Those who know me on the surface would say I have a shy, quiet personality, and that is true. However once I'm comfortable with someone, you do get to see a more outgoing side of me. For the most part, the quietness is always there but has more to do with my observing all that is going on around me rather than my simply not having anything to say.
Those who take the time to get to know me beyond the surface would say I am open-minded and accepting of others. Trustworthy and loyal, I am a caring and compassionate person; also creative, spiritual, and frustratingly stubborn at times. Health, nutrition and physical fitness are the foundation of the balanced life I strive for. I love to laugh, and tease, and touch, and value family and friends above all else.
Those who don't know me at all would say the reason for that is because I'm very hard to get to know, and that would be true as well. I am rarely the one who reaches out first, but I always try to reach back -- at least to the point that I'm comfortable. It takes time but as I grow more comfortable I will push myself to be the one reaching out, especially if I feel a connection there.
My Ideal Person: He is . . . many things. Intelligent, articulate, self-confident without being arrogant, he is a strong, independent man who possesses a deep sense of self and masculinity, but also has a gentler, romantic side. He must have integrity, and a sense of humor. He is looking for a relationship that is loving, long-term, and monogamous.
As a Dominant He must, ultimately, be experienced because it will be to Him that I look to for guidance, and a safe haven in which to fully explore my submissive side. He is demanding, firm, patient, and fair. He appreciates a strong, intelligent woman with a mind of her own, never uses His position to bully or manipulate, and knows that respect is not only earned, it's a two-way street. He understands that in order to be able to claim ownership of my body, He must win over my mind first, and like me, He will be looking for the deepest level of trust, intimacy and passion. Learning, growing and bringing out the best in each other will always be a priority.
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