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rednova

Female Submissive, 26, joliet, Illinois
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About rednova

No longer seeking, barely even conversing. Unfortunately there are too many people here, who make contact but are far from real.

I am not saying everyone is like those, just some that try and contact others.


Thank You for the memories, but now it is time to leave.



Previously:

Due to circumstances within my control, I will no longer be seeking anything in BDSM. Thank You to people that have conversed with me in the past, including those in the past few weeks.

To the person who verbally abused me for being honest with them, you need to look at yourself a lot and do some inner searching. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, and a very respected value in people is honesty. Without honesty there is deception. It is not healthy to have a friendship or a relationship based on dishonesty. The fact you would not realise that is your own problem and not mine.

Thank You for the experiences, however, I must now say goodbye.

Just because I am submissive that does not mean that you can automatically assume I will submit to you.  There needs to be a chemistry between two people, and there needs to be trust.  In case you do not already know this, trust takes time.  I will not drop my life for you, as I have family, work and friends that are important to me.

 

I am not fake, however a large number of profiles on this site tend to be.

 

Do not make any assumptions about me.

People need to understand that I have responsibilities in my life, that ensure that I do not have 24 hours each day in which I can be here in this site online and waiting for You to appear.

 

Furthermore. I am not a game player.

Be warned men, being dominant does not give Y/you the right to be a bully and to not be considerate of the life that we live in a vanilla world.

 

People's responsibilities including family and work need to be considered carefully and respectfully. 

 

If you are not willing to display respect, then how can You command it?

 

Please do not contact me if you cannot display the vanilla value of respect.

 

Thank Y/you for reading this entry.

It has been made clear to me by someone i consider to be a friend, that i am not thinking rationally.

Thank You for pointing that out to me.  :-)

 

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