RedMestreX

Every single message Ive received today were ALL fakes or time wasters. Real people with serious intentions ONLY.

No cell phone, doesnt use any type of instant messenger and easily agitated when questioned about either...yeah, Im sure youre very real.

The people on this site...this is crazy. Im at a loss for words with this site. I have never whitnessed soo many confused and false people in My life. As long as Ive been a member of this site I have yet to actually meet My match...or My match willing and ready to begin a relationship...thats just insane. If a subs profile describes what she seeks and a dom who fits those descriptions perfectly contacts her, she reads but doesnt respond...whats the meaning? never talked to, never finding out if this person was right or not but complains in journals about not being able to find the right Dom. Pure insanity.

*Individuals of a taboo lifestyle being criticized by a taboo community...seriously?*

  Many members on this site are just pompous self absorbed assholes on display. If you are over the age of twenty-five its really expected of you to behave like an adult, set examples for the younger members by showing what a respectable Dominant or Master is and how they should carry themselves.

This is BDSM...the lifestyle...taboo accepted...so when you criticize, down talk, or from what I see throw dirt on other lifestyle choices in attempts to enhance your chances how can you call yourself a respectable Dominant?

Into animals, digesting human waste, being punctured by needles, poly, spanking, torture, Tgirls, being a human puppy, pony, cow or any of the other fetishes...this is the lifestyle where the taboo is accepted...even if its not agreed upon by everyone, all is respected. If you are criticizing anyones fetishes you are no better than the wannabes, posers, trolls and weekend experimenters here and most certainly not worthy of being respected in this lifestyle.

Collarme is a BDSM community for all in the lifestyle...respect that.

and stop putting your stupidity on display

I have to get something off of My chest to this certain person and others who Ive come in contact with of similar thoughts.....If a Dom wants 100 "sister slaves" for you, your obligation is the happiness of him and making sure you are the best at that task, in return you are rewarded with unconditional love by this man, accept that because unconditional love is whats being worked for. Has nothing to do with you not being enough or him wanting "new pussy", its about a Dom expanding his dominance to a bigger picture...a family,in which you should support and show loyalty. So, to those who whine about a monogamous D/s M/s relationship I suggest you get yourself a boyfriend who enjoys kinky sex because to enter this lifestyle is to enter the extreme, and those little vanilla rules that you attempt to apply to this lifestyle DO NOT APPLY regardless to how cute you are able to word your thoughts and comments. Its a shame that many of these girls will miss out on truly being loved and cherished by a true Dominant or Master because of watered down overrated vanilla beliefs, only to be slapped by the reality that most vanilla men cheat on their girlfriends on a regular basis, so, in a nutshell the one with the sisters has loving sisters and a loving Dom who truly cares for her while youre on the verge of catching your boyfriend at some hotel banging your cousin.

I see there are quite a few on collarme who dont know what submission is. They can throw out googled quotes and wikipedias definition but have no grasped understanding of what it is...and I seem to be a magnet for these very people.

6:02...are We dead yet?

not interested in owned slaves, why would i be??? Thanks for the invitations but I prefer My own. some of you should really try reading profiles, keeps you from looking stupid.

Been in conversations with this young lady, very time consuming but wonderful conversations. Seeming to be very interested in Me and what I offer everything seemed positive for a possible relationship when, as rudely as many women on collarme are...she disappears. No explanation of reason, the day after the last conversation all communication came to a sudden unexpected halt. three weeks later while browsing the evermore entertaining journal postings I come across this young lady...and shes quite angry. Ranting with extreme profanity she goes on and on about some guy who posed as a Dom but was far from it, how he mistreated her and being with him was the worst three weeks of her life...she hates him, posts the guys name for all to see, warns every woman on CM to avoid him them caps it off with a go fuck himself. Hmm, wrong choice?

Seems that I frighten quite a few of you. Its a real shame...the walls you build to keep out danger often become the walls of your own imprisonment. Youll never find Mr. Wonderful person being Ms. simple minded.

I...DONT...do...cyber ok ladies? if thats your milieu enjoy, Im not judging. I however prefer the real thing...24/7...TPE...RT, and settling for anything less is something I will NOT do...ever.

Why are male and female Dominants viewing My profile? Some multiple times, you know who you are...its creepy.

Im sure you cam girls dont bother reading profiles but, hopefully a few of you will at least check out the journals in search of your next potential and end up crossing this... I HAVE NO DESIRE TO SEE YOU ON CAM AND FOR DAMN SURE NO DESIRE TO PAY...you little irritants leave Me be.

Not all, but a good percentage of women on collarme Im noticing have serious misunderstandings about what they "claim" to be searching for, and lifestyle relationships in general so, heres a little bit of advice... If your ego dwarfs your desires dont expect to find happiness.

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion but honestly, if you have no real experience in what you criticize dont do so with such conviction. The subject of poly has somehow became the real taboo on CM...and from reading about everything from bestiality to licking toilet seats it leaves Me in aw. I have been poly for years and YES, I meet the needs of everyone in My household with no problem, thats speaking for mentally, emotionally and of course physically. Actually, My household is far more functional, humble and happier than the average monogamous relationships that I know of personally and read through in complaining journals. If you cant see how this could be possible think of this...you might not understand rocket science either but NASA still manages to put people in space so obviously there is someone who understands aerospace engineering just fine. If you argue that you do have experience fine, maybe poly was something you couldnt successfully manage...its not right to condemn poly because it didnt work for you. Some opinions, even though are in the right to be said shouldnt always be said.

My laptop is much too sensitive, I cant do a simple scroll down without accidentally viewing people I have no intent on viewing...I hate that.

Why request someone to send or show pics in the opening line of your very first message, or demand in your profile when you yourself have no pics up? Anime pics, porn stars and pics of nature dont count as having your pic posted...you do know this correct?

If you view My profile and would like to say something feel free to do so...I promise you it will be ok, you will not be eaten.

this site has con artists, scammers, men pretending to be women, picture collectors, admitted prostitutes, racists, time wasters, fakes, frauds, non serious, scary, egotistical narcissistic assholes, jackasses and asses...........everything EXCEPT what this site was originally created for...damn.

If you view My profile more than twice I would only assume you had some sort of interest. If you have viewed My profile three or more times, sending some sort of message would be the courteous thing to do...otherwise its just stalker creepy. I dont want to be "that guy" complaining in every journal entry but some things that take place on this site befuddle Me beyond confusion.

the scammers on CM are getting a little more skillful with their craft in attempting to seem more convincing...now, if they would only learn how to spell and get the american lingo of how to deliver what they say lol.

I read a profile today that really disturbed Me. it was the most disturbing of a few profiles Ive read with similar content. these girls freely promoting prostitution by asking others to "submit" to their pimp. what was soo disturbing was the "get with my black pimp"..."BLACK" pimp. each one of these profiles places emphasis on the word black. maybe these are real profiles maybe they are fake...dont know, what I do know is they are very insulting and embarrassing to strong black men such as Myself and the BDSM community. personally, these people disgust me to My gut with this garbage. I understand being whored out is one of many BDSM fetishes which is fine, but attempting to recruit girls into prostitution for some pimp in the name of BDSM while making sure everyone knows the pimp is black...collarme does not need this BS, and Us Black men definately dont. each city has a local "ho strip", take your trash there.

***PROFILE UPDATE***

I know to judge a book by its cover is not a very intelligent thing to do but just this once you can exempt that rule...honestly, from My profile do I look or even sound like someone who would pay to see some girl on cam??? Stop it, no seriously...just stop it, this has gone beyond pathetic.

Pro slave??? this site never ceases to amaze Me lol.

Amazing...simply astonishing, I received the most befuddling message yet. How does a girl create a profile, label each of her fetishes and what type of Dominant she desires, then drops an A-bomb with shes a virgin and emphasizes how she is not some human fuck toy or pain slut and never will be...and expect to be taken seriously. Why would she write Me? Browsing photos and not reading profiles Im sure. Even better question what is she doing in BDSM? Who would actually accept a sub or slave who refuses to sexually satisfy them? There may very well be Dominants who accept this but I am certainly not one lol. These are the type of people I attract on this site...lucky Me.

I am a very cool person with a great deal of self control  but really, the "not so serious" girls who keep contacting Me are starting to annoy Me just a tad. I dont enjoy conversating, explaining, chatting, getting to know and in other words extreme time wasting just for the sake of time wasting. Read My profile, read My journals, if I scare you or you dont feel I am the one for you dont contact Me...what My profile is, is who I am. I am a genuine Dominant by nature, I will not change to cater to you and your "needs", you cant coach Me into being someone I am not and you WILL bow down in total soul breaking submission if you plan on earning My collar. Whatever these CM dominants have been preaching to you erase from your misguided mind when you contact Me...this is, I am real Dominance, respect it.

Well, seems that I have ran off yet another counterfeit prospect lol...bring on the next loser.

If W/we were once in negotiations for possible ownership and things took a turn for the worst just accept that and move on, or come to Me as you are in all honesty and request a second chance at a trial period...everyone deserves a second chance but, dont create some faux profile and attempt to toy with Me and play these little pointless games, after a few short messages I will infact have you figured out as phony. Being that I do consider Myself intelligent I can have the situation fingered rather quickly, however,  For some I do find it somewhat entertaining so instead of calling you out I prefer to play along just to see how far you think you can get...sometimes stupidity is amusing.

You guys posing as women, sending and responding to messages from unsuspecting men...what could possibly be your reasons for such time wasting nonsense? You conversate and exchange numerous messages as long as you can until your cover is blown then its off to the next person to cast your "character" on. The creativity and time you invest in building this imaginary person, personality and the false everyday life stories could be directed at actually finding yourself someone on CM instead of wasting your already nothing of a life with games custom fitted for premium grade assholes. You are free to do as you please with your time and life but stop playing your loser games with Me. I am a man...a REAL man, try striving at being one yourself.

I see more people are stepping up an exposing these fakes by amusing re-created profiles or posting names in journals. Keep up the good work people and maybe W/we can eventually make this site just a little less disappointing.

Once again I will state for those who dont seem to get it...I DO NOT ACCEPT THE MALE GENDER...NO WAY...NO HOW. Ladies, I am a GROWN MAN, dont contact Me with childish nonsense or with pre-judged assumptions that I am desperate and willing to accept garbage of any sort, I know there are plenty here that are desperate and will tolerate your crap...I however am NOT one of these men. Be serious and sincere of your desires and intentions when contacting Me, and before you decide to do so read My journals, this would save U/us both time and effort.

Reading journals today I came across a submissive who states clearly in the profile that its a fake...purposely created, one of a dozen intentionally created fake profiles Ive ran across so far. The creators are attempting to show a particular section of pathetic male CM members just how pathetic they really are. These profiles, although admitted fakes still get pages of messages...how pathetic is this? This is why, or one of the key reasons why Doms and Masters have such a difficult time finding what they seek on CM, there seems to be a 50 to 1 ratio...to every one real Dom or Master there are fifty posing wannabes. I havent given up on this site yet because of the genuine people Ive met here but its obvious what this site is becoming.

Had eight messages waiting for Me when I logged in, two were copy/paste and the other six were just plain out fake with everything from simple words mispelled and misplaced to very poor english in general. Eight messages all BS..WTF???

Why do people send chat requests? Isnt it, or rather shouldnt it be universally known that CM chat causes problems to your computer so no one uses it? Stop sending Me chat requests people, message Me first. If all goes well then the conversation can move to the much easier YIM.

Im seeing more and more submissives and slaves state "no men" in their profiles and all men go strait to bulk. This is becoming more frequent, to the point where its somewhat staggering...whats really going on here? ***no OFFENSE to anyone intended*** it seems to be the more physically attractive ones...to the hot girls here, are men becoming obsolete? I have absolutely no problem with bi or lesbian women, this situation just puzzles Me a little. Is it due to the large percentage of fakes, creeps and wannabe Doms on this site? from what Im seeing, a strait Dominant man will eventually have no reason for an active profile on CM unless he himself is bi, gay or has a fetish for being targeted by scammers.

If you fakes insist on trying your luck with Me at least try to be a little more convincing. You have a beautiful glamour shot (one single photo) dressed in Victorias Secret lingerie...sexy but, you should probably make an attempt at covering the fact that its clearly adriana lima. If you ?imbeciles are anything besides a royal pain in the ass its entertaining.

Do I scare you?

Im not judging anyone but, because I have had more than a few messages about taking ownership of someone online I feel the need to vent a touch. I cant grasp what would be truly fulfilling about cyber, simple and to the point its not real. How can a command deliver the full effect of authority better than in person? If you are not prepared to give yourself to Me in real life you are not ready for Me. Dont message Me unless you are looking for RT, Im real...why would I want any less from a relationship?

I see that this comes as a bit of a shock to many I have conversated with but no, I DONT want play sessions with random women and I DONT see the need or necessity to use a sub/slave just for some "weekend" fun. What I seek is collaring, 24/7 ownership, longterm commitment and dedication, this I am ADAMANT.

I've noticed that My profile is often viewed by Doms and Dommes...odd.