I’m seeking a woman that enjoys being bound and pleasured. Note that this does not include torture, real pain or humiliation. Your trust and the pleasure I give you are what turns me on. There is just something very sexy about rendering a woman helpless, and having complete control over her pleasure. There will not be any physical or mental abuse, just me and some toys making you cum (repeatedly). I enjoy administering pleasure. By your definition, not mine, and I am very interested in playing out your submissive fantasies. I’m very open minded regarding sex and will consider making anything you want happen. I do have some boundaries though, and I will obviously respect yours.
Just so you clearly understand, I’m not a sadistic freak, and I do not enjoy hurting people. A light spanking is one thing, but if you are looking for someone to tie you up and beat you with a cane until it leaves marks, then I’m not your man.
I completely understand the resistance and danger in intentionally letting a complete stranger render you helpless. I’m willing to invest the time necessary to gain your trust. This isn’t something for a one-night stand. I’m currently single and not afraid of a creating a significant LTR out of this.
Initial encounters would involve just very simple bondage. I have a nice set of padded leather wrist and ankle cuffs and some clasps that hold firmly, but allow you to free yourself. Imaging your hands and feet bound together while lying on the floor. I then pull down your pants just far enough for me to use a dildo and a vibrator on you.
Once we get more familiar with each other’s boundaries and have established some trust, then the encounters can get a lot more interesting. Even the process of restraining you might take 20 minutes, with my hands and arms grazing and even groping intimate parts of your body while I tighten the rope. I could build various furniture or apparatus to bind you to, rendering you completely exposed and helpless. Then work you over with various vibrators and dildos--perhaps even strap you to a sex machine for hours on end. The goal is for you to lose count of the number of orgasms you have. The positions and possibilities are endless.
Okay, so that’s what I’m looking for, now for a little about me. I’m single with no relationship attachments, professional, educated, patient and thoughtful. I’m very hands on and in my spare time and I enjoy building and fixing things around the house. I’m even building some bondage apparatus (chairs, etc). Not as torture devises, but as simple means of creative restraint.
I also own mechanical a fucking machine (linear motion, motor driven dildo). The women that have tried it really enjoyed it. Restrained women getting a mechanical fuck (while I work on other areas) for some reason is just really sexy. If that sounds interesting to anyone, just let me know.
Physically, I prefer tall slender women, but often find shorter, fit, curvy women attractive. I don’t have specific preferences for race, skin complexion, hair/eye color etc. I find beauty in all colors/races, and I’m pretty open-minded about everything in life, not just sex. I do have a soft spot for intelligent women that communicate well.
Also, I don’t need to be discrete, but can understand and respect your need for discretion.
This in not a personal ad for a quick one night stand this evening. I understand that is may take a couple weeks of communication before you are ready to actually meet in person. And even then, there would be no expectations on my behalf. I can fully recognize your concern and caution with something like this.