Firstly - What I'm After

I'm on here to date, meet new people and possibly lead to a relationship with the right person. Connection and chemistry are important. I'd like to meet a man 27 - 39 years of age who identifies as a sub / slave for a normal and D/S relationship. So that includes dating, friendship and connecting on a range of levels and in the bedroom. I don't expect you to live it 24/7 - I don't and I enjoy all the other aspects of life too. Someone interesting, with personality, a do - er, proactive, someone I can have a laugh with, a little adventurous in life, work, holidays, travel.

Non smoker, 26 - 39 years of age. No children (I don't want any either).

I've used this site before and found there are plenty of time wasters and I can't remember how many times in the past I've been stood up for coffee by men that claim they're into kink but obviously prefer the fantasy. So if you do contact me, I will give you a few challenges to see if you're up to the task. I also don't want to live my life online so I prefer a few emails, then to chat on the phone and meet in person.

Also when you do send me email - be polite and courteous and tell me a little about yourself! Any emails that don't follow this WILL BE DELETED.

About me

I work in the arts / community / media sectors. I love getting out to see and do new things and I could definitely do with a kick along now that winter is on it's way and the easy thing to do is keep warm.
I'm originally a country girl. I think my get up and do it attitude with less talk more action really shows.
I love cooking for friends, dinner, movies, art house, festivals, travel, adventure, stories, photography, fitness and so much more. I like people to be honest and straight up with me and I'd do the same for you. I identify as a Domme / Mistress and I don't live it 24/7. I enjoy giving discipline, cbt, nipple torture, queening, golden showers, anal and strap ons, whips, crops, canes etc.

I do have photos and I'm happy to send them to you after we've made contact and I expect the same.