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RedHeelsPam

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RedHeelsPam - Female Switch, New York New York | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About RedHeelsPam

Hi everyone :)

I'm Pamela. I am a happily married switch, but it was quite a journey getting here.
I have been part of the BDSM community since college.

At first it was kinky fun as I was getting to know the lifestyle and exploring what I truly needed.

It would have been helpful if I knew exactly what that was back then...lol.
After a lot of fun came the frustration, disappointment, and too much time with men who just wanted a toy.

It was then that I realized I wanted something more, and something real. I couldn't help but wonder if there were other people out there feeling the same way about our lifestyle.

There had to be!

I remember what it was like to meet a whole bunch of men who were dishonest about what they really wanted and in some cases dishonest about who they actually were!

Six years ago I found the red heels society and my eventual husband.

Today, I am a director in the red heels society and I absolutely love helping women just like me!

In my spare time, I enjoy hitting the gym and crossfit and just hanging out at home with my husband.

I love our lifestyle and all the different kind of people we meet in the community.
I still learn something new from every person I meet.

With that said, it's time to mingle!

See you out there :)

Yes, I am 100% real...so stop asking!
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