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redheadedcat

~ NOT SEEKING ~ sometimes life's disappointments silence us. don'tcha hate when that happens.... I AM REALLY NOT SEEKING ANYTHING OR ANYONE RIGHT NOW ~


*** this is my profile from when i joined. i leave it here to show who i am and what i sought and what i offered so you can have a glimpse of me.
not exactly a novice but not totally experienced ~ redheaded slave who loves to laugh...

looking for my equal who is as Masterful as i am submissive. i am looking for ltr, not merely a romp in the hay.

honesty and trust are my absolute requirements... and i offer the same. i prefer to find One with intelligence, honor, a love of life, a responsible nature, respectful demeanor and the heart of a true goofball.

usual preferences and non-preferences...

looking to explore.. to learn.. to serve.. and to have fun thru it all.

please.. d&d free.. and i prefer breathing clean air... no 'attached' even if you have permission.

i am not a stick figure. i have a brain and know how to use it. i have a heart and want to use it. i have a soul and can't help but to use it. and i have a dream.. of One who wants to use all of that and more.
*** not seeking poly. not seeking Sadists. not seeking cyber or phone or to be a place for you to stay when you pass through my town. not seeking fido. not seeking group events. not seeking a cage to live in or a wallet full of $$ or a box of toys or a list of activities. not seeking the loss of limb or life. not seeking a critique of what i seek and don't seek. :) and please please don't ask me to pretend to be your momma or your Domme or anything. i prefer reality not roleplay.

NO PROFILE = NO INTEREST IN TALKING.

2/27/2012 9:46:52 AM

the first two words of my profile are "NOT SEEKING".  so why oh why do so many of you get so irate and spit venom at me when i reiterate that i am not seeking when you approach me with your own expectations and wishes?  trust me, i'm not seeking.  i.  am.  not.  seeking.

9/28/2011 8:06:53 AM

please don't presume to know what i need.  please don't assume your way is THE way.  please don't tell me i'm wrong in living my life.  please get back on that horse yourself.  please accept i know me more than you do.  please stand down when i ask you to.  please don't belittle the place i'm in right now.  it happens to the best of us.  please.

9/22/2011 11:51:59 AM

  

'deleted unread'.  two of the most uncivilized words here in CM.