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Male Submissive, 19, Sault Ste. Marie, Michigan
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Male Dominant, 43, Winter Park, Florida
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About RedEarthAdam
I am a pansexual, genderfluid, polyamorous submissive. Some things to bear in mind so that everything is clear: I have a penis, I have a beard, I keep my beard neat and groomed (though the style and length changes) I maintain or remove my body hair as much as I am able, but sometimes it's not feasible to wholly remove (especially when I'm traveling). The length of my hair varies from short and boyish to halfway down my back; it is currently shaggy and brushing my shoulders. I have a Jack Nicholson hairline. I accept "he", "she", and "they" as pronouns, and probably wouldn't mind any others. Whatever you feel I am in the moment, call me that and you'll be fine.
I am a person, as complex and contradictory as any person is. I am a shy slut. I am an extrovert with social anxiety. I love and NEED to be around people as much as I am terrified and anxious around people. I am submissive, but what that means can vary: sometimes I follow orders, sometimes I'm a brat. Mostly, I need to be helped and pushed past my boundaries. I have strong inhibitions that I work desperately to overcome, but sometimes I can't without the assistance of an outside source (be that source a person, an activity, a substance, or whatever else).
I absolutely love being bound; I used to tie myself up, before I'd been with anyone sexually, and it's the most amazing sensation. I also love the freeing feeling of being pushed into doing something for someone else's pleasure. I love being held down, thrown up against the wall, and generally treated like the slut that I am.
I may require patience. There are a lot of things I want to do that I have little experience in. I've also had some bad experiences; establishing trust is key. Once you have my trust, you have me. As much of me as you want -- body, mind, heart, and soul.
This doesn't mean you have to be gentle with me, necessarily, nor beat around the bush. I enjoy rough treatment, and I prefer that people be as blunt and unambiguous with me as possible. I will do my best to do the same in return.
It's taken me until recently in life to come to terms with my gender identity and sexuality. I'm still learning to accept myself in these regards. I'm open, and out, but still shy, and may require a combination of patience and prodding to get me past certain barriers that I want very much to cross. I'm also just beginning to build the feminine side of my wardrobe, and there are other aspects to expressing my feminine side that still have a long way to go before I am where I want to be.
I travel a lot, bopping up and down the West Coast most frequently, and sporadically wandering the rest of the country as well. I'll try to keep my location updated here for any prolonged stays.
I am also on FL: http://tinyurl.com/d56znkp
I have a porn blog on Tumblr, which I use to share things that I'm interested in trying (and possibly very soon pictures of myself, as well...my inner exhibitionist is awakening): http://pornprobe.tumblr.com/ (The three most important tags to note: "do this to me", "treat me like this", and "dress me like this")
What I am NOT seeking:
I am not seeking financial domination. I'm self-employed, and most of my very modest income goes into my business expenses, travel (whether business or pleasure), and basic necessities. I cannot afford to make monetary tributes.
I mentioned I am polyamorous; I currently have one partner (plus far too many crushes to count, but that's another matter), and I am unwilling to leave them. I just want to be clear that anyone seeking to have me completely and to themselves is barking up the wrong tree.
I am not, at this time, seeking any kind of permanent 24/7 lifestyle power exchange. Aside from having a partner (and potentially more, in the future) who I will not leave for you, I have a very active life that I am unwilling to leave. I have a career I'm passionate about, a very active social life, and a large extended family that I love dearly. I will not cut out any of these things from my life.
(I am, however, open to shorter stints of 24/7...a week here, maybe a month there. It all depends on the level of trust we've established, how well we click, and how accepting you are of the other obligations I have in life...especially obligations to people very dear to me.)
Please feel free to message me even if it seems like we might not fit 100%. You never know what might work out, and you never know what kind of connection we might make (even if if no sexy times happen). |
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I'm in Michigan at the moment, freshly returned to the Internet after two weeks. I came to the state for my very first Rainbow gathering, and now I'm seeing if I can travel around on this side of the country without a plan for a bit, as long as I'm already on this strange and foreign side of the Mississippi. I'll update my location as I'm able, but I may not always have Internet access. |
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