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I am 61 years old and am approaching retirement in a few years. I am a successful and well respected professional in my field. I am often sought out for advice under stressful conditions. I am 5'9", 160, with a medium build, including decent legs and a nice, spankable ass. I am in excellent health, D/D free, and jog several times per week. My personality is reserved, but I am strong underneath. I have been referred to as a "velvet hammer." My likes in the vanilla world include sports, fishing, reading, and photography, and scuba diving. I have also recently developed an interest in reading about WWII in Europe after watching "Band of Brothers" a number of times. My friends outside the scene and my family would be in shock if they knew of some of my other interests. Ever since childhood, there has been something about a woman taking me over her knee and spanking me that is very tremendously thrilling. My interest started out only with liking and wanting to be spanked. Over the years, my favorite activites in this scene have evolved. By far my favorite interest still is being spanked, but now I also enjoy bondage, anal play, role playing, and occasional crossdressing for mutual fun. I have had one singletail scene and liked it. I have an interesting collection of equipment and toys, as well and photos, drawings, and video clips of the kinds of kinky fun that I enjoy. I like to play both privately and in the company of others in the scene. My attitude has also changed. At first, it was purely for sexual thrill. Now, though the sexual thrill is still just as great, I also want this fun to be a large part of strong intimacy with a significant other.
My Ideal Person:
I am looking for a woman to be a partner in life. Until I meet her, I am happy to play with friends. The woman I am seeking has excellent character. She is reasonably attractive, intelligent, and endowed with a sense of humor. She is a well balanced, normal person with an attitude of "don't sweat the small stuff." I would be proud having her in the company of my family and friends. She has strong sexuality, and she is comfortable with enjoying the same kinds of fun I enjoy outside the vanilla world.
The foundation of our relationship will be that we are loving partners in life. Most of our time together is vanilla. We are comfortable with open, frank discussion of any subject, and we freely confide in each other. Through discussion we find the kinds of kinky fun that turn us both on. We talk about limits, safe words, and creative ideas for experimenting. I am looking for it to include spanking.
As I visualize it, suppose that one of us asks the other if there is an interest in playing right then. If I ask you and if you say no, I would respect that. If you add that you would still like to have me strip naked and just stay that way, then I would do so. Similarly, if you ask me about playing and if I say no, you would respect that. Still, if you asked me to strip naked and stay that way, I would do that. If we both want to play, then from that time on, I submit to you and you are in complete control. I do not make suggestions. I only obey.
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