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After a few years away from this site, I am back on CM to find a female submissive. I don't like pigeonholing a dynamic between two people into cliches or coined terms, although I suppose they have some usefulness. I am usually attracted to a submissive who is secure in her normal life, who is educated, independent and who has a sense of humor. With those characteristics, her gift of submission seems very special. I am interested in a D/s relationship built with trust and fostered by a mutual need for an ever deepening bond. I am respectful of hard limits but skillful at expanding boundaries. I like the true nature of the relationship to be a private matter, with vanilla activities and 'normal' interaction in public settings.
I am single, fit, educated, intelligent, clean, stable, compassionate, fair, experienced, D & D free, non-smoker. A ltr would be my ideal although I don't really expect it, and I realize there are different degrees of commitment that are workable between Dom and sub. In any case, it would be quite a while into any relationship before I would consider a 24/7 arrangement. Someone in the southern tier of NY (Albany south), or in the Western Connecticut area would be wonderful, but I won't rule out somewhat longer distances. A cyber-only relationship is not my goal, however I appreciate the need for some initial online discussion to build a comfort level before meeting. I value open communication as to expectations, desires, etc. I take the responsibilities of Dom seriously. My sub will be cherished. Particulars, including experience, can wait for private discussion. Photo will be sent with a message.
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