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	About realtime62 Buddha walks up to a hot dog stand, says "Make me one with everything". Hi, my name is Zak. I'm looking for a girlfriend, a partner, a best friend. Someone simply awesome to rock through life with. But beneath all that, I'm looking for a sub. Someone who can call me on my crap when I'm full of it, but still get down on all fours on command. I can do my own laundry, just looking for someone smart and fun who gets the same thrill out of dom/sub roles that I do, and can take commands without taking disrespect. How deep that dynamic goes depends on our natural chemistry. Together we will conquer the world, laugh our asses off, and have a generally fantastic time (and the occasional throwdown). Aside from all that, I live in Hollywood in a 1 bedroom apartment, I like to laugh as much as humanly possible, I'm basically ridiculous and I like everyone to be happy. I'm a low level geek and I'm always up for an old movie. In most of my life I'm the nice guy, but when I'm with my girl my aggression comes out and I like to be more severe. Sound good? Let me know.

Ah, just moved into a 1 bedroom apartment in Hollywood. Thick walls, no noise from the neighbors, and a closet perfect for locking guests in. Very happy.

Something I wrote a month or so back, touches on some of what I like about the bdsm world.

-Many a shy, lonely man can be heard to whine that women are attracted to jerks, bad boys who treat them like crap. 'Why can't she see that I'd be so much nicer to her' they say while watching from the sidelines.

Of course, the truth is that jerks who get women don't succeed because they are jerks, they succeed because they are confident, aggressive, and can handle being rejected. They are willing to intrude on a woman's privacy, be persistent, and make their intentions clear. A cheesy pickup line might make a woman roll her eyes, but it also clearly states that a man is interested and brave enough to put himself out there.

Nice guys understand that women are equals, and don't deserve to be constantly pestered and treated as sex objects. They accept that no means no, respect the circle of private space that they themselves crave in public, and fear rejection. This makes for very pleasant and progressive men who put out the sexual vibe of a harmless puppy.
Eventually every lonely nice guy gives a bitter little curse and thinks to himself that if he wants to get with women, then maybe the answer is to become a jerk himself.
And that is the moment when the BDSM world can save the day.
I was attracted to BDSM by the sexual turn ons that comes from dominance and sadism, but the thing I love the most has to be the balance it offers between the nice guy world of respect and the bad boy world of aggression.
I enjoy being clear about my desires, taking what I want from a partner, and doing things that make a girl feel embarrassed, vulnerable, and horny. But I hate hate hate doing this to someone who doesn't enjoy it, and in the vanilla world one has to bother 10 uninterested women to find the one diamond who responds.
While I am establishing a sexual connection with a woman in the vanilla world, I'm often destroying any chance of relating to her genuinely. I can just be the nice guy that I naturally]y am and wait for the women who see and appreciates this. They're out there and make great partners who understand that it can take more bravery to be kind than to be rude, but the relationship often lacks that edge of excitement that comes with aggression.
The up front discussions that come with most BDSM relationships establish a context of mutual respect and shared desires, within which I can happily express that aggressive side knowing full well that it?s not trampling over someone who isn?t receptive. I can confidently take without asking permission, invade my prey's privacy and treat an intelligent, strong woman deserving of respect like my private fucktoy, all without demeaning either of us.
In essence, I get to be a bad boy while staying a nice guy. And that's a fantastic thing.

At the age of 29 I've had relationships with bondage and d/s play, but certainly never anything approaching life style.

Last year through an online experience I realized that a relationship with a heavier d/s component is something I desire.?

What began as master/slave roleplaying? grew over the course of months into something in between roleplaying and real life.? I came to care greatly for the person who called them self my slave, began structuring more and more components of their every day life, and found a very fulfilling nurturing dynamic in which we both came to take care of each other and had vested interests in helping each other grow into more confident, fulfilled d/s roles.

Having this taste of controlling and being responsible for an intelligent, strong human being has taught me that I want to experience the real thing.

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