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Dominant Couple, 51, Up and Left, New Jersey
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Female Switch, 52, Brisbane
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Male Dominant, 52
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About RealNYCDOM
TakenInHand Relationship SoughtWhat I am looking for If you are familiar with a TakenInHand relationship then you know exactly of the type of relationship I seek--if you havent heard of this type of relationship just do a search on google for takeninhand. I am for real about this lifestyle and I am looking for that elusive woman whom I can call my submissive, my
slave, lover and friend all in one. I dont need any play partners, nor am I looking for online or cyber--just the real thing thank you. If you are someone who wants to be owned, loved, corsetted, spanked, slapped, treasured I encourage you to reply.
A few of my favorite things
Corsets Absolutely love them on my slave and if there were an Olympic Corset lacing team Id be our captain! With the right partner I would enjoy having her corset trained on a full time basis. I know all the good shops in New York that have the best corsets and it would be piece of heaven on earth to find someone who would enjoy being laced in one daily.
Monogamy Firm believer in it. The only thing I will share is my life with my slave.
Punishment I see punishment as a means to an end--I love giving a spanking to correct behavior that we both feel needs and wants to be corrected.
Single Tails Love to use them. Unlike punishment , being able to take my single tail would be a sign of the love and devotion you would have for me and I wont take that lightly. Its a strong symbol and the rewards of receiving the single tail or a spanking would be after care and nurturing like you can only dream about.
About youWhile chemistry and attraction are important they are not the end all and with two like minded people who want the same thing youd be surprised how rapidly a relationship can grow . I like women who can wear a corset well ..someone with curves and a figure that would be accentuated by a tight laced corset would be ideal--so depending on your height, somewhere between a size 8-18 womens dress size. Age is of little importance though ideally someone within 12-15 years of my age plus or minus. Emotionally you are looking for someone to be head of the household and you appreciate someone whos Dominant without being domineering. You love corsets and leather and lingerie and would not only enjoy, but youd honestly cherish someone who cares enough about you to choose your clothes and the food you eat. Cages are great and I enjoy them but at night my slave would of course be at my side in bed and ready to be taken at my whim and desire and shed welcome every opportunity we have to show our love for one another. Shed feel whole and complete each time she would be taken.
Working I am a bit open on this as I think its important to meld in with society. My slave would not need to work and Id love for her to keep up our home on a full time basis. If she wanted to work part time Id have no problem with that as long as it left plenty of time for our relationship to each other and for her to make herself into what we both want her to be. Even better she she could volunteer a few days a week for a worthy cause--I think that would not only be a noble thing to do--but would be grounding and also allow time for us.
Relocation Its a challenge enough to find like minded people in this lifestyle and to think we might find the one around the corner from us is a bit unrealistic. My life is here in New York City so please be open to relocating at some point in the future. I have both the time and means to travel and would be open to being the first to visit though its something we will discuss when the time is right. Will I ask you to relocate right off the bat? Of course not..but after a few meetings (weekends, weeks etc) I am confident we would know if its the right thing to do.
If you have made it through this profile and have been found your head nodding and maybe your heart pounding a bit then thats a good sign. If you have a filled out profile with a photo all the better and if you havent, please take the time as I have to tell me a bit about yourself and attach a photo or be able to have one soon.
Heres to the future--lets make it the best.
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