Read entire profile before contacting me. I'll know if you didn't bother, and you won't get a response.
Now that that is out of the way... Welcome! I'm an in shape and good looking Dom with many years of experience with BDSM. I wouldn't call it my "lifestyle"... more of who I am and how I act. I believe I embody many of the good aspects of the word DOMINANT (calm, assertive, leading) without many of the negative connotations (domineering, angry, brutal, mean).
I exert my control through mental/psychological means, by creating an atmosphere of desire and wanting. I can draw a sub into me, and leave her panting and wanting more. I enjoy physical activities too, of course, but use them as tools to reinforce that mental bond, not as isolated events.
I'm looking for one submissive female for a BDSM relationship--emphasis on *relationship.* What does that mean? It means that I'm the Dom, you're the sub, and we maintain those roles always--not because we're playing a game, but because that is who we are. No, it doesn't mean that there will be BDSM activities 24/7 , but it does mean that I'm always in charge. This isn't vanilla dating with some role-playing kink on a Saturday night.
You should be around my age and desire a REAL TIME relationship. I'm not interested in online, cam, phone, or anything else that isn't real life. It's ok if you are a novice, but I will expect that you have given some thought to what you are looking for, and can articulate those needs. And of course, you have to be willing to meet after a reasonable amount of time.
I've been on these sites before, and know how it works. I'll be swamped with emails, 95% of which will be utter nonsense. I refuse to put up with that. If you expect my time and attention, you will have to be willing to prove you are a real up front by either a picture taken on the spot for me or clothed cam by the end of the second chat. If that is "against your principles," I understand. Simply do not contact me, and life is grand. I can ask for anything I want; no one is twisting your arm and making you do it.
If you do write to me, please include the following things in your letter:
-A simple explanation of your prior experience, if any. Please, I do not want to hear about everything that was ever done to you--just give the highlights without being graphic.
