realitysucks

this lifestyle has taught me much, life is filled with twists and turns, true Domme's know how to best utilize this in a submissive so that the "balance" between them is properly maintained, without that a submissive wanders aimlessly through a series of unfullfilling relationships, guidance is what its all about , obedience is not an choice but a way of life to a true submissive, just as leading is the only way for a true Domme'.
after that is established all else is what is meant to be.