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About Realitybites9

So, I am going to try a novel approach. Complete honesty.

Facts: I am a 61 year old plus sized woman with grey/white hair and green eyes. I am in a long term marriage of over 40 years which I do not plan on leaving. My marriage such as it was ended about 20 years ago and moved into a roommates situation for reasons that can be discussed when and if necessary. When I say roommates I want to be clear that we share space, friendship and family. However, in over 20,years there has been no intimate contact of any kind. No touching, hugging, kissing and absolutely no sexual intimacy. It is a lonely relationship.

I am the dominant partner in this dynamic, again for reasons discussed when appropriate. The need for this dynamic was one of the reasons the marriage devolved. Obviously there were other reasons. I am a pleaser, submissive to others needs, wants and desires. The lack of emotional engagement has started to destroy some parts of who I am.

Pluses: I have a skewed sense of humor, love to learn, a voracious reader, enjoy gardening, baking and needlework. I am loyal (see above) and responsibility. With respect to the life, I am more about the psychological connection rather than the sexual kink.

I am not sure what I am seeking, but will know it when I find it or it finds me.

You: Please be age appropriate, understand that this what we do is about more than kink and have a kindness to you. If you think you might be interested please write.
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