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Female Dominant, 63
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Female Dominant, 38, Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
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Male Dominant, 39, Puyallup, Washington
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About RealistiControl
I really have a passion for this lifestyle and take it very serious!" I'm naturally dominant and have always had to be in control over every aspect of my life since I can remember. It's not something I have chosen it's whom I am!
I live it 24/7 but not the way most would think? It's integrated into my daily life. It's a perfect healthy mixture of vanilla and lifestyle. It's just set up with more structure, rules and we know each others expectations.
Everything is set up before hand so as not to disappoint, confuse or bring drama!" Confusion, Drama and Disappointment are apart of life though and no way to really avoid it all together. It just happens without thought sometimes.
My style is Confident, Sadistic and Intense. Because of my sadistic side it sometimes involves a little mind fucking and humiliation at times but never to the point that it turns into physical or mental abusive. I'm not into harming anyone to the point where a trip to the hospital is needed.
I'm very much into the mental aspect of things and believe that true power is evident and best expressed through a knowing glance or a whispered directive. I love to teach, I love to inspire, I love to mold, I love to guide and enhance that which I see within my sub/slave.
My style is often very subtle, planting a little idea and nurturing it so that it transforms from an experience she is hesitant about to one she craves and begs for. I love taking parts of her body that she was uncomfortable with and make them new sources of erotic wonder, turn her limits into passions, and make my every want her greatest need.
I love providing control and discipline. The intensity it brings, the release, the feel, the sounds it can make and the affirmation of the dynamic between myself and those in service. I do not use discipline as "punishment" ever, and those that have served me in the past know that. Knowledge of My disappointment is the cruelest possible punishment.
Deep down to my core I am a highly sexual person, both mentally and physically. My mind and my cock always ready to fuck my sub/slave at any spontaneous moment. I am erotically adventurous, thoroughly enjoying the exploration of the taboo and finding great pleasure in the primal dance where all inhibitions are removed. I get tremendous satisfaction out of turning sexual taboos into craven desires, transforming one into my whore, and sending my sub/slave into uncontrollable orgasmic waves. All of my actions are laced with sexual overtones and energy.
Most don't understand that aftercare is a very important part of the lifestyle. I'm looking to get to know someone, hangout, have fun and see where things go? Eventually I'm hoping this someone ends up being my best friend, confidant, partner in crime, lover, girl friend and someday my wife.
I like to call her my everything girl. That to me makes her very special and I take extremely good care of all my special things. Especially those things that are closest to my heart. I have set up my life so that I can always have time for my girl. She can call me, text me, hug me, kiss me or come over and cuddle when needed.
It's very important to me to be there after a very intense training session no matter it be physically or mentally. I like to have at least a minimum of a few hours if need be. To hold her, cuddle her, talk to her, reassure her or whatever she needs to help her come down/up and back to me safe.
I'm extremely real! I know what I want and who I am as a person. I don't try to hide whom I am but I also don't go offering information about it either. If someone sees something or hears something then I deal with it at that particular time. I don't force my lifestyle on anyone and if grandma can't handle knowing about it then I'm for sure going to make it a priority that she doesn't have a heart attack from finding out by me.
This might sound very strange, But I need someone that has control and makes decisions over their life right now but chooses and wants to give it up. You will always be in control from the very beginning and beyond. It will be your choice to choose me as your master. Help me choose the structure, the wants and the things we both need to stay happy and healthy. It will always be your choice whether you choose to follow the rules and the structure set forth or except the consequences just as we have in society right now.
Does all that mean I'm the right Dominant/Daddy for you? No, but I do feel like I can provide you with the knowledge, the skills, the structure, confidence and give you the type of relationship that you are looking for. |
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