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A few people have said to me that my profile tends to portray a lot of negativity and anger. I want to clarify that, and I respect those people for pointing it out. I can see how they came up with it. I am not a negative person, nor am I angry. I am trying to be direct and up front to HOPEFULLY stop or minimize the "players" that have infested the website, like locusts. :-)
MOST of us are here to meet another who complements our particular lifestyle, whether you be a Dominant or submissive. I assure you the games are played by both. I do not mean to come across like a scorned or angry person. I am not. It is frustration of where a lifestyle has been tarnished by posers. Then again such is life. I just wanted to clarify my position.
I DO understand that there must be TRUST built, and get to know someone. BUT, if you already know, you have NO intention of EVER meeting anyone, then say so up front. If this is a fantasy of yours, and you are happy with your masturbatory fantasies, that is fine. BUT, be HONEST and sincere up front. Dont play online games, interlaced with cyber, creating a lie. What is the motivation and purpose? I am up front. and expect you to be also.
Saying that, a bit of background. I will not go into extreme details, if you are interested, then contact me and we can go into more details.
I am a TRUE Dominant, born this way, NATURAL. I am not a wannabe, was not mentored, read books, went to seminars. Just because you add Master or Sir in front of your name does NOT make you a Dominant. It would be like adding a Ferrari emblem to a Chevy. Get the picture? Unfortunately, the lifestyle has been made a mockery of by the wannabes and posers. A pity. It has made it more difficult for the sincere ones to meet.
I am sincere, looking for LTR, potential 24/7. Too much effort, time , resources go into a relationship for it to be short term. There are a lot more details I can go into but a profile is like speaking into an answering machine. Only so much you can say, and if the person wants more, they will respond. The key word and foundation of any relationship but ESPECIALLY a D/s relationship is ...TRUST. Without it, the whole thing will come apart
There are 3 components to a D/s relationship. The physical, the cerebral, both resting upon the foundation of trust. Yes, you need all three. When you can be in opposite sides of a room in a crowd of people, and you glance at your Dom, and all he has to do is look at you, and you know what he means. You will be able to say at that point..you have arrived. D/s is a never ending journey. There is constant expansion of experience and knowledge if you will. It never ends. This is what it means to me. I have a great sense of humor. Imagine that! You dont have to act like a neanderthal to get your point across. Those that need to do that, have issues. Its called, self esteem, and lack of confidence.
Here is some more food for thought for those that can grasp what I am trying to say. No longer does mere brawn win any battles or anything, for that matter. The most powerful men in the world TODAY, use their intellect to rise to power. Survival of the fittest is cerebral, not muscular in TODAYS world. Welcome to the 21st Century.
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