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Male Dominant, 38, shreveport, Louisiana
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About Realdom4play
**This profile is not meant to offend. But to remove many really, really misguided people from contacting me, I must be as specific as possible**
Please continue reading if you are:
- Residing in or near the Bradenton/Sarasota area.
- Single.
- Without children.
- Between the ages of 40-50.
- A GENUINE woman-NO TS.
- Free of felony convictions, drug addiction, alcoholism, or civil suits of a ‘questionable’ nature.
- College educated and have professional responsibilities in the vanilla world. (I do, and need to keep these lives separate from one another.)
- EXPERIENCED in the D/s & S/m lifestyle and desire to be collared property at home.
- A woman who values honesty, integrity, and monogamy.
- SERIOUS about continuing your adventure within this exciting way of life.
If we meet, there are no expectations. To be safe, sane, and responsible, we agree to a no sex policy for thirty days. This might be tough, but it is in our best interests just to go slow and get to know each other.
Our relationship must consistently maintain high levels of respect, patience, and flexibility in order for something meaningful to surpass the ‘norm’. Without those fundamentals (among others) in place, a shared life becomes a job; and two once-happy people eventually become joyless, discouraged, hurt, and upset. The woman who takes the time to read this profile in its entirety and contacts me can always have confidence that the above statement is dear to my heart. Regardless of the intended nature of this site, you are, and will always be in control of your own life. If you choose to one day be “mine”, and actively participate in ‘our’ private life of Risk Associated Consensual Kink (R.A.C.K), you are doing so on your own. It is, and always will be, my intention to have something special with you for the long term. I am monogamous and work through hurdles with respectful communication. No yelling. No screaming. No ultimatums.
In the vanilla world, I know that your family and friends love you, and you love them. You have a wonderful and fulfilling life that allows you great experiences of fun, laughs, and smiles. Professionally, you, like me, have earned at least a Bachelor’s degree if not more, from an ‘actual’ University-(sorry; graduates from the University of Phoenix will not be considered.) You have a successful career which you excel in and have demonstrated ‘real world’ evidence that you are making positive progress as an adult. When you look in the mirror, you are confident that despite a few imperfections, you still are beautiful. The years have been good to you because you know how to take care of yourself. Everyone is a work in progress in one way or another. You could ‘pick and choose’ in the vanilla scene, but instinctively desire and require a dark side to intimacy.
You feel incomplete when you cannot be collared property in the safety of “home.” When your busy workday ends and your personal life resumes, you have always been the type to return home, disrobe, shower, put on fresh makeup, and buckle a leather collar around your neck before kicking back on the couch, reading, or surfing the web. This practice is something you have always done; and it is a needed component of your individual female existence.
Solid communication is going to be essential to our success. You will always be encouraged to speak about your thoughts which encompass many topics. You know when to speak and you know when to actively listen. You hold respectful communicators in high regard and are conscientious of gender roles when differences in opinions arise. You have an equal voice and deserve a Man who actually ‘listens’ openly. You can’t tolerate people who “Bark”, and only increase your level of service when communication is consistently balanced with softness, humor, kindness, directness, and moderate assertiveness. Communication between us will not be a chore because you will have a responsible Master and I will have a responsible sub/slave. Outside the home, we are a team that must work together in order to achieve our goals-whatever they are. Inside the home, you want to humbly know your place and adhere to a “Taken in Hand” protocol. Because of your past experiences in life and in a successful M/s relationship, you already know that it is not your place to challenge daily decision making-unless of course the decision is dangerous, harmful, malicious, or plain irresponsible. Your education and experience is valued, so speak up!
The ideal M/s/S/m relationship for you requires a healthy balance between both the vanilla and a consensual private lifestyle at home. At work, you might be the Owner, Boss, or Manager. At home, you require the opposite. This does not mean that you’re a doormat without well-deserved consideration about your feelings or thoughts; it means you identify your body as ‘property’ which aches to be used, guided, satisfied, and valued in a healthy existence. You expect vanilla treatment professionally and publicly, but also require and (expect) treatment that satisfies your instinctual desires of domestic & sexual servitude. Under collar, you want to be called by your first name most of the time, but also desire to respond to the name of “cunt”, "dumb cunt', "whore", or a degrading name which satisfies your nature. The role and title of someday being a “collared cunt” for a good man has always been a goal for you as well as a term of endearment, not an insult. Responding to the name Cunt is just something you do.
When under collar in our bedroom, your desire to be punished must be vocalized explicitly. Under R.A.C.K., and in the midst of our fun, safety words from you will be taken very seriously. “No” seems to be the best in uncomfortable situations. But, you rarely would use it if a clear understanding is reached in the beginning. You enjoy the sting of a whip on your ass and breasts. You position yourself on your knees with your hands on your head, ready to serve. You sexually enjoy safe, sane, and consensual servitude. Though you consider yourself “straight”, your fantasy is to one day express your sexual dominance over another submissive female on rare occasions. Your man desires no sexual contact upon him but would gladly use her to satisfy you. You are not a swinger, swapper, or bisexual.
If you have agreed with most of these thoughts and ideas, please send me a note or direct me to your profile. I have pictures, and have a good physical appearance complete with smile, blue eyes, athletic physique, and gentle spirit. This lifestyle has treated me well, and the people who I’ve met in person have been remarkably ‘normal’; which is great. Due to the nature of the internet and employers, I must be careful about photos. I will gladly email photos to those of you who make a sincere and honest effort.
I will only respond to women who take self pictures. Face shots and a fully clothed body shot will get my attention.
Until then…… |
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