12/21/2012 10:56:29 PM: Ok the thought of the day   what is America coming to? where is our family values and pride at?  we bitch and whine about the Mexican and others that come here and 'take' our jobs, and move in to our neighborhoods. they 'are taking over our country'  yet they are doing all the things that we will not.  we will not do the jobs they will, we wont work for the pay they will we wont work as hard as they do, we wont live as humble as they will.  all of these things are so bad.  we as a people have went soft, the government will let you 'US' sit ad do nothing ad send us all the entitlements and grants and food stamps so we don't have to work. we wont do hard labor now, because we are better then that.  well  I am here to say that yes me and my wife want to find our sub girl, but we are no longer looking at American girls as much, they have no values, not pride, no drive, don't know how to treat a family nor to raise one right.  we are not limited to Latin descent, but do lean that way, as they stand for family and hard work and quality of life instead of the typical American demands to give me more and let me do less.   well the thought is look and learn, stop crying and get a job, get off the government tip and earn your own way, stop letting the government take care of you and take care of yourselves and your family. they say the unemployment is 7% plus well that's because we don't want a job, we want to be lazy and do nothing. well get over yourselves and stop being pansies and support and raise your family and lets try to bring back this once great country to what it could and should be, but if not then don't complain that's its like it is, because you are the cause.

11/13/2012 7:52:35 PM: A Veteran is someone who at one point in their life wrote a blank check payable to the United States of America for an amount up to and including, their life. That is beyond honor and there are way too many people in this country who no longer remember that fact. Copy and paste this as your journal if you are a Veteran,... know a Veteran, Love a Veteran, or Support the Troops! May God Bless Them All

The Good Daddy by DarkLord50   Firstly, I want dispel any notions or misconceptions about the relationship between daddy dominants and their special subs. It has nothing to do with incest, age play, or any closeted desires or fetish for, or with children. It is not even about a father-daughter relations, in fact, there is nothing about this type of relationship that resembles anything about their father for these subs, whatsoever. In this dominant's opinion, a daddy dominant is the most tender of all dominants. He loves and adores his submissive with a true, eternal passion. A daddy dominant has his sub's best interest in mind, even when it conflicts with his own personal desires. This does not mean that he surrenders to her every demand. There can be significant differences between the submissive's desires and her real needs. A daddy dominant has to be prepared to sacrifice for her, if needed, and yes, at times he does punish his submissive when needed, which generally hurts him just as much, if not more, than her. He will always do what is best for his submissive charge. He always helps his submissive to set and attain goals in life. He will strive diligently to help her improve herself to be the best she can be, not for himself, but for her. A daddy dominant is not only looking to make her a better submissive, but a better person overall. He has many roles in her life. He is a mentor, a teacher, a protector, a guide, and most of all, a lover. A daddy dominant offers to his submissive what she needs most of all, which is unconditional love and acceptance. He must maintain consistency in his actions towards his sub, so that she always knows what to expect from him, and having the confident knowledge she can always depend upon him. He desires nothing more than to pull his dear submissive close and protect her from a world that seems to be bent on cruelty, however, knowing all along that he cannot. So it is up to the tender dominant to prepare his sub for whatever life may throw her direction, and to always be there for her when things go wrong, knowing that she will run to him when she becomes frightened or overwhelmed by the stresses of life. He will always listen to all his submissive's fears and concerns, and will help her face them down, thus slaying her dragons, if you please. A tender dominant will cuddle his special submissive and show her great tenderness when it is needed. When she is unsure or uncertain of herself, he will whisper words of encouragement to her. When she feels ugly or unwanted, her dominant reinforces and reassures she is beautiful. When she feels scared or nervous, he is her safety net. For the tender dom, his submissive is the pride, joy, and main comfort of his life. There are really no large differences between daddy dominants, as opposed to their regular or sadistic counterparts. His sub may be the twinkle of his eye, but she is definitely all woman! And he may be a daddy, but he is still, first and foremost, a dominant! He has to be able to punish and discipline his submissive when she needs it, and let his consistent actions prove that she cannot wrap her dominant around her little finger, or she will lose respect for him, thus his control over her is severely diminished or hampered. This could be pending doom for the daddy dominant/submissive relationship, or any D/s relationship. We all realize that you cannot have the love without the respect. In that, and other ways, I may or may not have mentioned, a daddy dominant is not different from a regular or sadistic one. The only true contrast I see is how the love is given and reciprocated in this particular relationship I have discussed. I hope I have been able to bring some clarity to the notions about daddy dominants and their dear submissive relationships, and provided some insight and knowledge on the relationship itself. I am fully aware that this essay has been posted previously under the title, 'The Tender Dom.' I thought I would post this thread again to give some folks the change to read or re-read it. Play hard! Be consensual and safe! So long for now!