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readywhenyouare

Dominant Couple, 40, south Fl, Florida
Male Submissive, 54, Sacramento, California
Male Submissive, 37, sacramento, California
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I became a Dominant person when I tied a girl's hands behind her back, when I was four years old. I didn't understand what it was that gave me so much pleasure then, but forty years later I do. I recently have tried to see if this was my true nature by trying to become a submissive, to feel what it would be like to be a slave and found myself instead almost always having to kowtow to a person interested more in her 'tribute' than in anything about what else I might have to offer. Not very inspiring--except that it certainly made me wake up and understand who I am.

There are people who talk about the 'lifestyle' as if to know your acronyms, your safe words, your variety of toys is somehow a point of pride. Believe me, if you are truly who you say who you are, then there is no need for the accessories--no need whatsoever.
Only a fool thinks you need the special one-of-a-kind thing-a-ma-bob to satisfy your...whatever...there is no need for the dungeon, the contraption. Whatever is at hand--a stocking, a belt, a rope will do just fine. But then again, to even list things as I have suggests I want to just tie someone up again. And sure, it may be enjoyable, and maybe I might do that to you, among any number of other things....but there will be nothing as enjoyable as observing your transition, as the days go by, how not by so much of anything I do (though, naturally, I will do plenty) but it will be by your own desire, your idea of your self, your ability to make a decision, to do anything independently, slipping imperceptively into a netherworld of knowing however much you may control some daily aspects of your life, you will be owned.

If this appeals to you, if you are ready, if you feel the need to give in to what has perhaps been a need eating away at you as well, maybe for as long as iit has for me, then, by all means, do not hesitate, write to me--and then, if you are suitable, we can begin.
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