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Hetero Female Submissive, 40,  San Jose, California
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This lady is blond, blue/green eyes, fair skin, great curves, educated and professional by day.  I am submissive & married in an open marriage. Hubby knows everything - no hiding.

I'm open to many ideas and activities within BDSM. It's been the better part of 10 years that BDSM has been an interest. Part of my interest in posting this ad is to seek some specific encounters however; I'm not one to hop around and truly desire long-lasting friendly and close sexual relationship with someone that understands my primary marriage to hubby takes center stage. He's dominant too - and is not shy to play with others.

You should be practiced or, have a definite interest in sensory deprivation, interrogation, mind play, mind control, be a bit sadistic, have a sense of humor, have a full personal life - be educated and professional as well (blue collar is fine!). Deviant mind, play hard and live well and smile - a lot.  I have a little bit of a "inner tree-hugger" if that pisses you off, please don't inquire.

Deal-breakers - smoker of cigarettes, poor attitude, and poor personal hygiene.

Also, face-pictures sent fairly quickly would be necessary for me to engage in any ongoing communication. Yes, looks matter. I'm also a realist and not looking for a movie star. I have very good instincts and pictures tell me a lot. Note:  I can do without genital pictures, seriously. (That's a turn off gentlemen.)












 Submissive Female

 San Jose 


 5' 6"

 160 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

Submissive Female

Switch Men

 Lives For:





 Fine Dining





 Comedy Shows

 Intellectual Discourse



 Blue Grass


 Folk Music

 Rock Music



 Coffee Shops


 Garage Sales

 Going to the Opera




 Scuba Diving





 Country Music



 Curious About:

 Horseback Riding


 Antique Shows

 Bird Watching




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