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I want to be the sub at home... But reality gifted me as a divorced mom... I need a Dom to help even out the crazy that goes with so much responsibility....
At my core I am a submissive... and when i get home and can turn off the 'work mode and Mom mode' i want to serve and take care of someone who cares about me...
I'm looking for a relationship. I am not a Sub who will go down on you just because we've met and had coffee. I've been in the lifestyle for a while and being "used for a great blowjob or a quick fuck" is not the person I am. My submission is a gift I give.
I enjoy little things like: hiking in the park, playing softball with my co-workers and grilling out with friends. Personal Motto: "LIFE is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside totally worn out and proclaiming, WOW what a Ride!!!!!"
I enjoy good company, conversation, a cup of coffee or a glass of wine, or watching a SEC football game (maybe not... I get a litte loud at those)
I want to be cared for and feel safe. I want a Dom who makes decicisions and sets boundaries and provides discipline if those boundaries are crossed... And on the flip side offers praise when I do a good job.
I want it all...a partnership with a loving dominant who supports me emotionally, physically, a Dom who helps me stay grounded and will hold me when I get scared or sad. Who will beat me when I need the relief, play with me and teese me because it's fun and hold my hand while we are walking together. A Dom who will tie me down and torcher the devil out if me and force me to cum for as long as I can, who will let me service him as he wants and praise me if I do it well. A Dom who will talk to me about their day so we can share the excitement or disappointment together. A Dom who sees any time as a good time to flip me over and fuck me hard or spank my ass just because. A Dom who knows how to laugh and love and does both often.... I want a forever relationship.
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I read this on a profile and agreed completely:
"Being a slave is a whole way of life, involving a total modality of existence. There is a great deal more to it than simply serving a master in bed." ~Players of Gor, page 379. (i did not know where this quote was from, however a very kind sir provided me with the information)
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
99% Submissive
98% Rope bunny
96% Exhibitionist
95% Pet
94% Primal (Prey)
88% Voyeur
83% Experimentalist
79% Masochist
74% Brat
63% Slave
56% Girl/Boy
22% Ageplayer
12% Degradee
8% Vanilla
6% Rigger
5% Daddy/Mommy
4% Primal (Hunter)
4% Sadist
2% Owner
2% Switch
2% Dominant
1% Master/Mistress
1% Brat tamer
0% Degrader |
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Who has the power in a D/s relationship? If you think it's the Dom you'd be WRONG!!!
The only power a Dom has is the power the submissive gives them. A good Dom knows and appreciates the fact of how precious the gift of submission is. They also cherish and protect their sub because that's the commitment a Dom makes when they accept the submissive's gift.
If this confuses you, please don't contact me.
I am looking for a real Dom who understands the Dynamics, vulnerability and communication needed to build a successful D/s relationship.
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