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The BDSM lifestyle. it has always intrigued me. Though it tends to bring up conflicting thoughts within. Dom or Sub. which one am i? i don't see one becoming a Dom simply because one WANTS TO BE a Dom, but rather one simply IS a Dom. same goes for Submissives, i would guess. I would like to be Dominant, but where does one begin? and how? Wouldn't a Sub want an experienced Dom, one who can be trusted? a skill i would like to develop, but with no one to begin with.
I know someone who wants to be Dominated, we've been friends for many years. We have an unbreakable bond, a non-traditional love i might say. I don't care who she is with as long as she is happy. I've had to watch her over the years seeking and failing. Observing her melancholy, I have done everything i can to make her happy in my own way. its not enough though. the only thing i haven't done is attempt to be Dominant myself. so can one be taught to be Dominant or is it a natural state from an individual? if i had that, our relationship would be near perfect.
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