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raventoos

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Strong woman looking for a stronger man.

Looking for a strong man that is comfortable with a strong woman in career and life. My strengths lie in my positivity in life in general. I have a very good career and will keep it at all costs. In this career, I am extremely assertive and in charge. I am good at what I do. I am a submissive at heart. That leaves a huge void, as the only men that I seem to meet, see the strong woman and either run the other way or want a "mother". I have absolutely NO aspirations to be the strong one in a relationship. I simply want a man who can hold the reins and be good at taking charge of me. I'm in no hurry, but I would like to find someone who can fulfill this void in my life. I am extremely open and honest with little shyness about what I need or want. I am also vigilant about caring for my man as any lady should. I have a child at home and his needs are a priority over mine. I would only consider a relationship with someone who always had his needs in mind as well. If you are strong, confident, intelligent and open to challenges I would be happy to meet you. I am extremely giving and truly enjoy spoiling my man. I must note here that there must be a physical attraction on both our parts.This may seem shallow, but why waste time? If you have an interest in getting to know me, I encourage you to drop me a line. I will try to reply, if even to decline politely.
YES! I have met the politician from my area and YES I like her on a personal level. Please do not email me and ask if I know her. It just makes you look silly.
raven


** Note** I am only interested in straight, single, dominant men. I am not interested in married men or couples. I also am not interested in Cybersex of any kind. As I own my own business, I would not be interested in relocating.
2/10/2013 12:17:05 AM

Wow! I haven't been on CM in a very long time. I had a lot of messages from some very nice folks. There is no way I can respond to all of them properly and it clearly is far past the time to respond at any rate. So I thought I would at least throw a line on my journal to let people know I was not ignoring them. I simply have had an incredibly busy winter thus far. Hopefully soon I will be able to get out an enjoy life again. Hope everyone is doing great!

8/3/2012 11:37:19 PM

I wonder how people do the long distance thing. I can't figure out how they could begin conversing with someone so far away and developing a good rapport and NOT want to meet them.....I mean like soon! How do people do it?

8/2/2012 6:28:27 PM

I have enjoyed learning from many folks what not only brings them to this site, but what their take on this lifestyle really means to them. I just wanted to say thank you to all of those who have written to have an intelligent conversation. I sure wish there were more in my neck of the woods! Smiles!

7/22/2012 9:12:41 PM

Returning after being gone for quite some time. Just wanted to remind folks that I am not interested in long distance, or cyber. I would prefer to speak to those within my age range.  Other than that I am very pleased to be back in the swing of things. The last two years have been a positive influence on meand have strengthened my resolve to stay true to myself. Hope this finds the community at large well. Take care!

10/5/2009 10:32:02 PM
I have decided that for those people who have not even bothered to read my profile and have not realized that I .....will not relocate.....have no interest in cybersex.....and really am not interested in men under the age of 40.....I will have a standard reply of "no thanks!" If they have intentions of moving here....fabulous! Let me know when!!! I'm not putting my life on hold for years while I wait. Wow! I sound angry. I'm not, just frustrated with the amount of replies that seem to be repeating. 20 somethings from all over the world. UGH! I need real time!!!!!! And someone who is not young enough to be my child!
10/1/2009 11:46:43 PM
Finally coming back to the land of the living. I have been out of touch recently but am feeling much better these days. Hope all out there are healthy and do not catch the blasted bug hitting Alaska.
9/23/2009 9:26:41 PM
Just a friendly way to say I am not being impolite by not answering in a timely manner. I have been feeling quite under the weather these days and it takes some time to get back on my feet. Darn Headcold! At any rate, I usually respond even to those oneliner guys if even to decline any more correspondence, but I haven't the energy at this time to do so. So please be patient and understanding and if you're not a oneliner, then I will try to find time to respond. Thanks.
9/7/2009 1:01:31 AM
New life has come to my family today. It serves to  remind me how precious and miraculous life is. I'm grateful to be on this earth and even more grateful that I have experienced the things I have. Even the bad ones.
3/30/2008 10:46:40 PM
While I am thrilled to be back on, it truly frustrates me when I receive messages from gentlemen who have CLEARLY not even read my bio. I will NEVER relocate so unless you have intentions to come to Alaska, there really is no reason to ask me to serve you.
2/13/2006 12:33:47 AM
Sleep......it eludes me. To find the one that would place me in a spot and hold me there....it is a dream....a fantasy......a desire.....an ache.......a longing. You are out there....I know it.....I long for you to come into my bed and wrap your wings around me and place me in that dream state.
2/11/2006 11:16:54 AM
Alaska.....it is the land I call home. It is the ONLY land I will ever call home. I appreciate all the wonderful people who send me notes to say such sweet things........alas......you must know though that I have no intention of ever leaving this place of beauty. Of course, if one were to travel here and I know there is a connection and a certainty that they would be coming this way, I will of course enjoy continuing to talk to you. I will leave my light on for you, in the hopes that I will soon see you and be at your beckon call.
kalinka
 
 Age: 19
 Chicago, Illinois