another entry for all the men, esp long distance men contacting men.  please read this list and address all aspects of it if you contact me.


1 I am only looking for real life.  this means anything would be contingent upon the idea that you would relocate as soon as compatibility was established, after a fair number of visits.  


2 I am poly, you would have to be able to live in a poly household as a secondary.

3 girly boy would be a perminant life change.  Not necessarily hormones or anything, but I would expect long hair as quickly as possible and a general girly or goth look most of the time.

4 I'm a geek and intellectual.  I also expect someone who can keep up with me on both those levels and enjoy it.  I already have one boy I have to pry philosophy out of and who pisses and moans at Renn Faire, don't need another.

5 actual moving in to the household would not happen till quite some time after an initial move, and only after you've proven you can get along with boy #1.

In response to a man interested in Female Supermacy on why I don't care for that dynamic...

"Ms.Sutton seems to be of the opinion that all men inherently desire to be submissive to women and that women are inherently dominate over men.  I find this thinking as much misguided as it's inverse.

I don't think that the physical bits we are born with detriment anything about us beyond our physical role in reproduction.  Some women are dominate.  Some women are submissive.  Some men are dominate, some submissive.  And then there are trannies and other folks for whom the very terms "man" and "woman" don't really work.

What I was trying to say in my profile is that I want to find someone who is submissive, and finds female bodies attractive, and therefore would enjoy being sexually submissive to a female. What I do not want is someone who feels that they should be submissive to a women because thier gender is inherently submissive because that accepts as a reality that there are such things as appropriate gender roles, which I reject."