rapierwittt

Hello and welcome,

I am retired military, a certified massage therapist, have deep blue eyes and soft strong hands.

I am into the sensual side of bondage and domination, that does not mean that I do not enjoy flogging, spanking or many other aspects of BDSM, but it does apply to how I enjoy them. A leather flogger can be used in many more ways than just for striking, the anticipation of where and when is just as important as the actual contact. I make my own toys, test them for effect and safety before I use them. The smell of the leather, the sound they make whistling through the air or as they strike are all part of the art I enjoy. Using one to slowly drag up your leg or back, before or after a strike or series of strikes, spinning one just for the sound or so the air coming off it is the only contact and many other uses.

Sensuality is exciting the mind, your entire body is part of your sensory net along with scent, hearing, sight and the other senses that scientists refuse to believe in. Exploring the mind, creating a fantasy, the scent of candles and the wavering light they provide are part, how and where I touch is another, ropes and toys may also be part but dominating comes from within.