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About RapierFugue
About me:
About time I re-wrote this, so ...
The more time that passes, the more difficult it becomes for me to label myself X or Y or whatever ... most labels don’t seem to fit me very well, and those that do sometimes feel too narrow in their scope. Yes I'm dominant, and never switch ... I don’t have a submissive bone in my body, and dominant isn't so much something I *do* as something I *am*. And yes, I have upon occasion “played” to some quite extreme levels, but that doesn't mean I need or want extreme with every girl that crosses my path, every time ... I think that, for me, it’s more about the connection I feel with another when in a session, and the experiences and memories we build together.
When I try to define things about me there don’t seem to be many hard and fast absolutes ... yes I'm strict when playing, but I'm not overbearing, nor am I a bully, and I cheerfully respect hard limits, while being perfectly content to push any soft ones a girl might wish to pursue *if the moment is right*. I don’t allow girls to mess me about, but then I'm also patient and (I'm told) an excellent teacher/trainer. I delight in showing girls sexual experiences they might never have had, or experienced as strongly (like programmed orgasms and orgasm control and the like), but I also love the mental side of M/s or D/s ... the connection that comes with someone special. Without that connection play (I don’t much like the word “play” as, for me, it’s a tad too trite, but what the hell it’ll have to do) seems somehow slightly hollow, and yet with it it’s like taking part in building something special and unique with another girl. Something that will hopefully last in our memories for a lifetime.
It's always difficult to describe yourself without sounding either daft or arrogant ... and I detest false modesty almost as much as I do arrogance. Hmmmm ... well, starting with the basics; I'm smart, sane, experienced, very skilled (I'm going by what I've been told, and the reactions I observe in those I've played with) and generally happy and full of life – I'm a positive person with more energy than most folk, and I'm generally a calm and patient individual, though intense and energy-filled. I can be a bit of a sadistic bastard at times, and what’s “worse” (hee-hee) is that I'm rather good at getting girls who don’t consider themselves all that keen on pain or being controlled or slavery ... into all of those things. So they begin to crave it, and need it. But beyond that kind of play I have a inventive and occasionally evil imagination, and with the right girl this mind of mine seems to enjoy being let loose as much as the physical side of things – the mind and body go hand in hand with me.
I really enjoy introducing inexperienced girls to new things, or even showing girls completely new to BDSM to the wonders it can hold, but then I also enjoy rekindling more experienced girls’ enjoyment of the simplest fetishes or events. I'm not falsely modest about my skills because I've spent half a lifetime developing them as I started all this at an early age (my late teens), but to me it’s more than a simple set of skills, it’s about setting free my passion for life and merging that with whoever chooses to submit and effectively give themselves to me.
Things I like: bondage & restraint (one of my fave things), forced and denied orgasms, programming of orgasms, impact play of most kinds (canes, crops, floggers, etc), pretty much anything Master/slave related, electro play (don’t knock it til you've tried it), toys, some humiliation (usually though only as part of a M/s dynamic) and ... well I suppose you can read my fetish list and see for yourself. Oh and the dominant-yet-nurturing balance behind the "Daddy-Dom" thing is rather me too, with the right girl.
And what I “like” varies from girl to girl ... I'm not a “check-list” Master/Dom – you know the type; they've got a series of things they're looking to “tick off” from a list ... that's not my style. I’d rather get into a girl’s mind and see what works best for me with her – what reality we create for each other, together. Just because I've been doing this a long time, over decades, doesn't mean I think I know it all (indeed the more I learn the more I think I still have to learn), and I'm always looking to try new things, or sharpen old skills ... to me this is all a journey, and I've been lucky enough to have some wonderful girls join me for parts of that journey. Ultimately I’d love to find a LTR but I'm experienced enough to know good LTRs don’t grow on trees, so in the meantime I'm content to play with carefully chosen girls – I'm fussy, and I'm happy enough in my own company, so I’d rather be alone for the right reasons than with someone for the wrong ones.
About you:
You might be a submissive, or maybe a slave. You should understand your need for submission, or be open-minded enough to want to explore it. You don't have to be experienced, and I really enjoy developing inexperienced girls' interests, but you should be attractive, submissive and eager to both please and learn. I'm not interested in fakes, or girls who are merely playing at this – your submission should be something that matters to you as much as you’ll hope it will matter to me.
Outside of BDSM my interests are many and varied, and include anything with an internal combustion engine (fast bikes and cars, of which I have both), cooking (I'm a skilled cook in many different cuisines), reading (of anything and everything, fiction or non-fiction), history, travel (especially to France & Italy, where I go regularly), film/movies, some art, and photography. Above all I have a lust for life – a drive and passion for the good things and experiences that an exciting life brings; I don't want a life that's easy, or “safe”, or dull - I want a life that's fun, exciting and as passionate as I am.
If in doubt, come chat and we’ll see how we get on.
UPDATE: I've never been particularly interested in rope before, preferring to use chains and restraints, but of late I've decided I'd like to become more proficient at rope as I've seen some rope demos and they can be very intense and personal moments, so if there are any willing rope bunnies who would like to get in touch, either for practice tie in private, or to come along with me to events like Peer Rope London, then do please get in touch.
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