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Male Submissive, 26, Boston, Massachusetts
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Submissive Couple, 25, Dallas, Alabama
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About rakat
I am returning to this lifestyle after being away for a few yrs. Vanilla isnt enough. I enjoy reading, surfing the net, gaming, binge watching shows (like Orange is the New Black), learning new things, cooking, baking, walking, good food, good times, and an occasional shot of whiskey. Im also expanding my fetish explorations. Ive come across the BBWfeedee community. It has intrigued me a bit. While I am not sure gaining weight is a fetish for me, there are a few other aspects I might enjoy.
Im a romantic at heart, but also a submissive slut at heart as well. When I submit to Someone, He has complete control over my sexuality, as it should be. I have few limits. Not a lot, but a few. In the past, I enjoyed the swinging lifestyle. However, I do not play with strangers. I like to get to know you a bit at first. My days of Hi. How are ya? Lets fuck are over. To clarify, that does not mean 10 minutes of chatting. I need to have somewhat of an emotional connection. By that I mean, while we dont have to love each other, liking each other is kinda necessary.
I have a heart of gold, am compassionate, understanding, nonjudgmental, and open minded. I try not to judge anyone. To each their own is something I believe in. I am a bit shy, in person at least. I am trying to be more outgoing. I am direct, but in a tactful and compassionate way.
I am patient, understanding, and softhearted. I can be a bit sassy, but am submissive, especially sexually. The more of a connection that develops between me and Someone, the more submissive i become.
Who or What Im looking for I am looking for friends (and perhaps a Mentor andor an online Ds relationship to ease myself back into the lifestyle) while I begin a new chapter in my life. If friendship leads into something more, though, I wouldnt be against it.
When Wwe are both ready, I would love to belong to Someone who i can share my deepest, darkest secrets with, laugh with, and also who can make me shiver with just a touch of His hand, be it a gentle or a rough touch. Someone with a powerful Dominant personality, but will allow me to make certain small decisions, for example, getting a drink, or reading a book. However, being somewhat softhearted would be welcome. Especially after an intense session.
Who or What Im not looking for I am not seeking one night stands or a poly relationship. If you are married (and its not an open relationship), we will not proceed any further than chatting.
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I miss belonging to someone. Even in a vanilla relationship, if you are committed to each other, you belong to each other. I miss that feeling and all that comes with it. I'm not going to settle for just Anyone, though. There has to be that connection, that spark. In the mean time, friendship is it. Sometimes, that is the best way to find someone. |
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