As a Christmas present to ralph, I have taken the pic off my profile.  If he does not behave he knows that a facial pic will be posted after Xmas!!  He has paid me what he owed me.  He is away at his relatives – so need to arrange a meeting asap!!

I ask ralph to keep in touch and when things change (unexpectedly) to update me on a regular basis, not much to ask! 

So, today he went to Nottingham for his meeting,  after that he was scheduled to come over and see me.  Things changed and after his meeting he had to go back home to meet a drummer, which would not have been a problem.  (He is also a musician, has played in bands and is looking to put together a new band at the moment.) 

What is a problem is not updating me, and that caused me to have to cancel a meeting today, along with screwing my whole day’s arrangements up -   not happy, he needs a lesson and depending what happens tomorrow he will get it.

Ralph has been in touch today, didn't have to be prompted for a change.  Can't get online though - net down where he is, he says, hmmm - will see later.   He has a meeting near me on Monday so he should be able to get here!!

Well, Ralph has sorted out his work problems, is on his way home and I have had some of the cash he owes me, so an improvement there!  Not good enough though - will see what he has to say for himself later this evening.   

Well, it seems that Ralph has been ill, and to add insult to injury he has not had his salary - its late being paid.  So I am having to wait for the money he owes me - he will suffer for this both physically and financially!!  He wants me to take the photo down I put on my profile of him, but I wont - unless he pays me to take it down, and I may yet post a facial pic.

Slave Ralph not behaving again - threat to expose him is still ongoing till tomorrow.  Failure to comply will result in consquences he does not want!   Being generous will give him the benfoit of the doubt this time. 

Expecting a visit tomorrow from my long term slave - who I post pics of as part of his humilation.  If he doesnt arrive tomorrow or makes excuses will post a facial pic of him - complete with his sad little cock on here.  Just a shame I cant put it on this journal and that it has to go on profile, never mind: works the same!!  watch this space

Putting a pic on journal didn't work.  So as part of an ongoing scenario with a slave I will have to post his photo on my profile.  After today, do not contact me until after the 27th October I will be away! 

Been a long time since I wrote on here. 

 Am going to put up a pic of a slave, who has not been doing as he is told! if this continues I will be posting another complete with face!!   You know who you are!!

Seems you cant put a pic in the journal- shame - will have to put it in profile.

Talking to ralph today, normality seems to have returned at last!  He has been very useful for me today, did some organising/ logistics and I am pleased with the result.  He will be coming over in 2 weeks, which I am looking forward to.  I shall take him shopping for some fetish gear.He is now working properly again so is solvent!!

Also, sometime this week I will update my profile and reply to messages.  However I am tired of dealing with wannabees and fools who do not realise what D/s is about, and are not genuine.  I have better things to do with my time, and "proper" genuine subs/slaves like ralph!!

Well,  ralph will soon be solvent again, he went to see his old employer at VS and will earning money as normal soon - good!!     he hasnt kept in contact as I would have liked, but it seems that he had problems due to being down south and the bad weather - so benefit of the doubt on this one!!  I think that I will get him over in a couple of weeks, it will suit me then.    We can go shopping, I need a new strap on - he can buy it - and have some fun!

After my holiday my computer had to be formatted, and now the long Bank Holiday is almost over so finally getting back to normal again.

ralph has moved, and is now living in B.  he says he is ill at the moment and off to the Drs tomorrow.  he also has a work meeting tomorrow with a firm he used to do work for in the recent past.  he has been naughty not keeping in contact over the past few days, will have to punish him for that!!  If he doesnt behave details of a personal nature may be posted here.

Since I came back from holiday have had a two sessions both very good. 

Back from an excellent holiday!!  However I returned to a problem with my computer and so have had to format the hard drive!!  Consequently I lost all my emails, which includes any notifications of messages from here.  So, if you sent me a message and have not had a reply I apologise. ( Being Domme does not mean that politeness forgotten!!)  Now I have access to this site again I shall be updating my profile over the next few days, and will reply to any messages.    As for ralph,  have only spoken to him briefly, he is away till the weekend, and we will pick things up then. 

Quick-ish update.  ralph has moved, spent the whole weekend shunting back and forwards, so didnt have time to get over to visit, never mind - have fined him!  So he is settled in a place for 6 months which gives him time to get himself sorted.  Plus he is within and hour (or so) of me now, so he can visit me when I wish.  He will be working on a consultation basis, so still has money coming in, and will be able to keep himself - just!!  Now, later today I am away for a week on holiday (thank you ralph!!)   On my return I will decide when he is coming to visit and am looking forward to playing with him again at last!!  FOR INFO:  I have a lot of messages to go through, but have not been able, or had the time to reply to them for various reasons.  After my holiday I will be available for sessions again, and times and dates are very flexible now.  Plus I will be updating my profile on my return. So be patient!!

So its a Bank Holiday weekend again.  ralph is at his brothers for a family wedding, and I am going away later today to the coast, till Monday.  ralph has been almost good! a task I set him has been successfully completed, although the item in question was not the size I specified.  However since this is the first time we have tried this "task" and I am pleased with the item, I will let it go this time.  ralph is due to come and see me on Wednesday next week, and I am looking forward to taking him shopping,  I need a new strap on and a couple of other items!!  Also really looking forward to getting my hands on his poor little cock too.  Plus, he is organising to come back up to the midlands to live sometime later this month so he (and his wallet) will be at my beck and call as I want him. Information for any other subs/slaves out there reading this: ralph and I have been playing for years and his desire for financial Domination has built up over the years and is entirely his choice.  It is not part of my usual Domination, this is very much a one-off relationship!!

Had a long chat with ralph tonight.  He is giving up his current job and moving back to be near me which I am pleased about.  I also demanded that he come to see me before I go on holiday so he will be here in 2 weeks.  I am looking forward to his visit, has been too long since I got my hands on him!!!  We will also go shopping while he is here, what goodies can I get him to buy I wonder??  Tonight he was very very subby - lovely!!

Time for an update I think.  ralph has been ill with the flu and didnt keep in contact every day.  he has a task to do for me as punishment for this, SUITCASE- ASAP ralph!!

Also I am going on holiday in 4 weeks, so to satisfy some of his slave needs he has to fund some of the holiday for me.  He does love it when I am demanding, it makes him very crawly, and I love it!!

Before I go away I am also demanding that he get himself to see me, I shall enjoy that!!  Shame that he has such as small cock, not much to play with!!  Never mind, he can make it up to me in other ways - PLASTIC!!

Things are moving on nicely!!  ralph has become very sub, and needy which I love!  he is thinking about his move, so he will be back near me and at my beck and call.  He is keeping in contact every day, (with one exception) which is very obedient.  Currently I am thinking about and working out, exactly what I want from him.  I do have some idea's, and am enjoying very much deciding what to do with him, probably by the weekend it will all be planned.  I also need to decide when he is coming to see me next, sometime in the next two weeks I think.

ralph is back in Salisbury, and we had a long talk today.  We spoke about his employment and where he is living at the moment.  Today he had his meeting with his boss at 2.00pm, and after discussing things, he was going to give notice to leave his employment.

I did expect him to contact me this evening to tell me the outcome of this meeting, however he has not.   Have you bottled out ralph, and not given your notice in?  You are very weak so I wouldn't be surprised if you hadn't done it.  You are not behaving, you know if you don't keep in contact you will be penalised!!  I am NOT happy!!  Next post will be of a very personal nature if you do not behave and contact me.

Ralph is back here in the UK again.  The obligation I put on him has been fulfilled, although it took a long while!!  Have given him another task since he has been back, and am waiting to see how long it takes for him to fulfil this one.  Have been talking to him about his future.  He has a work meeting next Tuesday, so will know if he has to keep trotting off to Brussels any more or not.  I do not like online Domination, I want ralph to be living near enough where he is at my beck and call.  Currently he is living in the south which is too far away!!    Very soon like a “Phoenix” rising from the ashes, I will have him near enough to suit me.  He will of course have to change his job, but that’s his problem.  Isn’t it ralph??

I am back from my holiday.  Have spoken to ralph, he is behaving, but not to my satisfaction.  He did not do as instructed properly while I was away, so I shall deal with this.  He is back in Brussels again with work.  This makes it difficult to talk to him when and as I wish, so I will change it!!   Thinking about my next holiday, so get ready for my demands ralph!!

Spoke to ralph last night, he has his instructions!!  Later today I am away for 5 days, so we will see if he is obedient or not.  If not, it will cost him severely.  I am talking hammering the plastic here ralph!!  He is due to go back to Brussels later this week for work, I will not be able to be online while I am away, so it will be 5 days and knights till I can log on again!  Dont forget the texts ralph, or else.

Ralph is not behaving properly and I am not happy with him.  Still waiting to see if he has fulfilled the task I gave him correctly.  He has to check in with me every day, which he does, but it is not satisfactory.  Over the weekend his work has interfered with his submission, and I will change this.  He needs to learn that his sub side must come first!!  Although with his lack of cock size he should be grateful that any female bothers with him either as a sub or in vanilla life!!

Also, for anyone who has written to me: I am away from Tuesday for a week, and will reply to you when I return and have the time.

Ralph is back here in the UK.  He has done as he was told, a task I gave him and I am waiting to see if he has completed this properly.  However he is not keeping in contact as instructed.  This is very naughty, therefore he will be penalised again.  He has a complex about his cock, and the size or rather lack of it!!  Are you reading this ralph????

Ralph was very disobedient over the weekend, so he has been penalised for it!  He has been craving his submission today, almost in a drugged state - I enjoyed this! 

He has not contacted me as directed tonight, so more punishment will be coming his way!!

Ralph has actually done what he was told too!!  He is back from Brussels today, and we will be talking about his employment over the weekend.  It is good that he was financially obedient - he needs to be, due to the lack of certain other physical attributes!!  He has to be useful to me in some way!!

It appears that Ralph has done as he has been told, but it will take a couple of days for me to be certain.  I am thinking about his employment, it will have to change to suit me after the end of the month!!

Ralph seems to be behaving himself - but we will see.  So a severe punishment is on hold at the moment.  However I may still punish him anyway because I can!!

Ralph has been doing as he is told for the last few days, but is slipping back again!  Being disobedient, not following instructions.  Thinking about what would be a suitably severe punishment for him this time.  Watch this space!!!

So,  Ralph has been very disobedient, he went off to Brussels for work, neglected to tell me, did not contact me until he returned, and has not fulfilled the conditions I placed on him.  

 He will be fined for this.  His work is becoming a problem so I shall look into making him change his job, for one that suits me.  His second "job" is as a musician, he plays in a band.  If he continues to disobey I shall post the details of the bands webpage!!

 Also, for anyone who has written to me I will be replying to my messages next week, when I have the time, at the moment I am very busy.

So, its 10 to midnight and a sub of mine has not done as he is told.  He had a deadline today and has not met it.  As I promised if he failed to meet the deadline, I shall now post about him, his name is Ralph, he works in finance and lives in the south. 

Ralph, if you do not contact me tomorrow and do as you were told, there will be more details here, as you know!!

If this snow and freezing keeps going may have to cancel and rearrange playing, shame but better safe!

Have recently updated my profile, so please read it all the way through.   If you just want to chat and be silly, dont bother me, I have better things to do.

  Have had puter problems, had to reformat - no bugs!  just decided not to play nice - will catch up later.