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About me: I'm comfortable in almost any situation, from the top box at the opera in my best gown to sitting in front of a campfire in jeans and a leather jacket. While I appear at first glance to be very open and friendly and outgoing, I'm actually very reserved and private until people get close to me, which I don't let happen very often.
I'm a submissive and active in my local community. I'm skilled in many service-related things, including how to make a proper pot of tea, how to build a Guinness, and how to cook a gourmet meal. But I am also a lady, among other things, and insist on being treated like one. Contacting me with "bitch/whore/slut/girl/pet/slave" or similar words will cause me to delete your message and avoid you. I am a submissive, not a doormat, and am just as deserving of respect as anyone else, and until/unless we have a relationship in which those kinds of things are appropriate, you don't have the right to speak to me in such a manner. I can spot a 'wanna-be Dom' from a mile off, and though I would be courteous and polite if I met you in public, I would never entertain the idea of being with one, so if you ARE one, be assured that I will know, and contacting me would be wasting time for both of us.
I'm also a masochist, but it is not the bulk of my submission. In fact, the two have very little to do with one another for me. While I can take a free-standing bullwhipping (I know, because I have), hold still for knife-play, or writhe under a violet wand, that is the fun and games part for me. I am not looking for play partners. If you want to tie me up and beat me as a prelude to sex (which you also will not be getting, most likely), we are not well-matched.
I am an all-around submissive of the highest caliber; a submissive who respects herself as much as she respects others, who takes pride in who and what she is, and yet is still humble and knows her place. I love a Dominant who has the ability to hold an intelligent conversation and the ability to get inside my mind. Submission is very mental/emotional for me, so simply coming at me with floggers might make me squeal with glee, but it isn't going to make me kneel or desire to bring you a drink. To dominate me, you must be able to get into my head, figure out what makes me tick, and be willing to use that to our advantage ... because my needs are as important as yours, and in any relationship, if one person's needs aren't being met, s/he will eventually leave to find a place where they will be.
Right now, I am in a relationship with a man, so I am seeking friends ONLY. Romantic interest (while flattering) is unwelcome, and this includes offers or requests of a sexual nature. I would really like to meet people from all walks of life, from all levels of the scene, and any gender or orientation just to get to know and make friends with.
While I can be very reserved about some things, I'm also surprisingly open, and always completely honest. So if you'd like to know more, or are curious, please feel free to ask any questions that you may have.
By the way, I put "submissive", the first time I used it, in very bold print to help weed out the men who like to contact submissives to see if they can be 'turned' Domme. I can't be, so don't waste your time asking.
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In order to make this easier on those of you who do not read entire profiles ... I'm owned. I like conversation and getting to know people, so if you message me, just keep in mind that I'm not seeking a relationship with a Dom, that I can't chat with Doms, and basically that I am not available. So please don't ask me to send you naked photos, chat with you on Yahoo, move to Kansas, leave my relationship, or cheat. On the other hand, if you also like conversation, feel free to ask me other things, and maybe we can exchange a few mails as friends. |
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