**Do NOT message me wanting me to be Yours.. i WILL NOT DO IT!** if Y/you think calling me names will get my attention it gets Y/you deleted i am NOT YOURS so dont call me like i am.. i am NOT looking for "play" nor am i looking for things to get paid in... if thats Y/you keep moving! Yes, i am a sub but i am very strong willed and wont take other peoples crap.. i do know when to keep my mouth shut Now.. with that being said i am very sweet and caring and just need the loving hands to guide and care for me. I have spent my entire life defining who i am... i have discovered this amazing part of myself & now have to learn what that means. i need to learn to be me all over again. i don't wake up one morning with a Dom & the happily ever after. Identifying as the sub doesn't remove your humanness. It doesn't remove that internal dialogue & struggle. I wish it did! I'd love to be that fairytale submissive that I keep reading about. I'd love to be someone who can obey without question. But I'm not! What I am is me. I'm one person who makes individual choices day in & day out. Some come easy & some don't.. A relationship is. Dom & Sub moving together in their lives to grow in each other.. We will be far from perfect we create & fix things everyday You can not expect to have a fairytale & leave it as that. Wouldn't that be rather boring? Be who you are - you do not need to be perfect & let your relationship grow. Let yourself grow into who you will become & accept that you can't take a fairytale & make it real. Fairytales are fairytales for a reason. If You have read this all the way Thank You! Hope You have a great day! Thats all for now :) Take care