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Freedom in Surrender - seek it ?

Have been here a while, running an edit - fresh thoughts on what I see possible, and what I am looking for.

Direct, Discreet, and Social - that would be the approach and engagement.
Be able to integrate into normal conversations, and understand that the D/s calling is deeper than the sex and 1 hour romp. Have the ability to converse, genuinely want to submit.. and extend that’s if we connect across other areas of life. Enjoy this surrender and be happy.

Open to a sub/slave/ slave cpl / cuck- sub, dynamics who seek, a seasoned, educated, well traveled well kept Dom & Master. There are no hard rules, except for genuine intent, and the open mind to shed beliefs, value systems that hold back the immersive experience this can be.

What’s in it for you -. A path to learning, train, may be molded and enjoy it ( may not be always ;)). This will be high trust dynamics, and getting it sooner than later is better, I am patient, not endlessly. Your actions should match what you say, be prepared to be led, sense, feel, and live experiencing domination and control in the right way. Reciprocate with enthusiasm and intensity. Explore the hidden needs, urges, desires, and kinks, and lets both enjoy it. The Trust dynamic should be complete, both ways and while accommodating living aspects.

The rest is when we talk openly and figure out what can and cannot work.
Your intent should be to explore life, keeping in mind practical considerations and the reality of the vanilla world.
Aim to eventually let go, and become what you can be.

I've been around a while and had my share of experiences.

If you are good on the vanilla work & professional front ( can be multiple disciplines), seek to combine this living to make a holistic D/s. See the possibilities of working with your Dom and Master and also be a sub/slave, that can be a possibility too. How, Where etc we can discuss. Being healthy and reasonable attention to how you present yourself is appreciated. I am fit, healthy, and stable ( on all fronts) .

***Way Forward*** A few messages, let's share thoughts, experiences and explore.

Be well - R

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2/5/2018 6:29:39 PM
What do you feel constitutes a consensual slave?

( this question was posed, to me - as i replied, i post it here for those who may be keen see a point of view) - to the one who posed it - good query !

the core.. in being a consensual slave .. is the willingness and focus to transform.

in this day and age- the option to be,  adopt and become a slave- is driven by the mind and the focus on end goal of what one can be.
this open uninhibited path, leads to multiple facets in which a consensual slave can flourish, harness her goals and also become completely imbibed in living this life.

of course it requires trust ( on both sides) and the willingness to go to edge knowing that her best interests are in her owner's hands.

once that mindset and ideology is clear,  the rest is a matter of living.

vanilla life, relationships or perceptions etc.. need to be managed - shed and the new you evolved to believe and become what you can be.

if you have that focus.. then yes there is way ahead.

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4/13/2015 11:17:06 PM
It's been while since my last journal post..

I was pleasantly surprised.. and also pleased to message from a sub/slave today..

She actually did read.. the profile/ journals.. and it struck a chord..in her

she seems to have woken up.. and not for any cause.. just her own..

i wish her the well in her pursuits..

9/8/2011 12:56:10 AM

Whats a sub to do when she doubts her own intent to serve?

take the leap or keep running in circles?

 

most do that keep running in circles.

 

only getting older, and not so wiser..


11/4/2007 1:51:08 AM
Its interesting to see how serious people actually are..
some are dead serious sub/slaves, and unfortunately have a streak of certain characteristics, or instinctive lack of trust that makes them see good , safe, and real serving options and just lose them away.

I have had some very interesting talks with potential subs, who claim total committment to the cause, and yet do not seem to find time, or engage in fruitful dicussion to take the next steps forward.. whats the reason..? unsure.. say so.. not ready .. say so.. just playing say so..

get a grip.. people..if you are really keen, can relocate,  be sure you are.. !

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domspet77
 
 Age: 39
 North of the city, Massachusetts