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About RagnarTampa
Hello and thank you for taking the time to read this profile, I know there are many here and I respect greatly the time you have kindly chosen to spend reading this. I am a Dominant male, residing in Gainesville Florida. I greatly enjoy the company of a pleasing and submissive woman. Like everyone, I would love the perfect relationship, yet, I also realize those must be developed, they don't just appear. Towards that end, I seek a submissive woman that wishes to either enjoy a casual play friends with benefits situation or seeks a more intensive relationship. If a woman seeks a monogamous relationship, she will need to prove to me she can be the one that fulfills my needs fully and brings me the complete happiness I seek just as I am sure I will need to demonstrate that I can be the One she seeks and that I hold her needs and safety to be sacred responsibilities. Understand that while I am not perfect and have no misconceptions as to such, I feel I am perfect for at least one submissive out there and that there is at least one that I am perfect for that is also perfect for me. Settling for less than that woman will inhibit my ability to attain that perfect relationship and will also hurt the submissive I am spending time with in the interim as she will feel a failure when I have to step away for what is the ideal that I seek. This honesty in approach is critical to me and such honesty is also something I require of those I deal with.
Personally, I also don't mind seeing two submissive women together, I find women making love to each other a bit erotic.
Until that level of bond can be achieved, I will consider my association with a woman as casual with the potential to become more.
Please understand as well that there are certain aspects of the popular consciousness with this lifestyle I don't fully concur with. What I mean is that there is an implicit relationship and sets of responsibilities that go with it in the D/s association between two individuals. That means I understand I have a very significant responsibility and commitment to a submissive that I take on full time. I am responsible for teaching, guiding, revealing the lifestyle and her mind to her. Her safety and mental well-being are relegated into my hands and are a sacred trust and responsibility as well. On the flip side, it is her duty and responsibility to please me and learn to do so better each day and to accept punishment for failure and to strive mightily to make me proud of her. A sub must also realize that her behavior reflects on her Dom and that, especially in lifestyle type clubs or gatherings, has a significant impact on the reputation of both her and her Dom, as does his as well.
Limits are understandable, expected and important. Many will be tested, pushed and/or expanded, others are chiseled in stone and will not be approached. That is as it should be. Limits are exceptable and help to define the course of a relationship and establish compatibility between two people. These do not displease me at all. I do find submissives that phrase things as a demand and with an attitude somewhat misguided. Expressing a limit is a good thing, demanding behaviors of a prospective Dom in an aggressive manner is not the role of a submissive, in my mind. Displaying intelligence, understanding and wisdom along with a hint of shyness or submissiveness will go a long way towards attracting a skilled, intelligent, capable and desirable Dom.
Bye...for now. Be happy, smart and safe!
PS...I am horrible at taking my own picture and somehow always fail to smile. Don't let that mislead you into thinking I lack humor or don't enjoy having fun...lol. |
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