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Ive been in the lifestyle for several years now. Before I began exploring, I was almost always the dominant partner in my relationships. Now, I am thoroughly enjoying my submissive side. I was surprised to discover that there is nothing quite like the pleasure felt when you realize that you have pleased your top. I am a Switch but took it off my profile because Im not looking for a submissive partner - unless its part of a poly family. Also, I dont switch with my Dom, its not possible for me. By the way, my main photo is not me dressed as a domme I was dressed in a corset and short skirt to please my Dom.
I am not a masochist.
I definitely have a little girl side and enjoy the daddy Dom style. I actually wasnt aware of my little side until recently I thought everyone was like this - sparkles, faeries, unicorns, rainbows, etc. this does not include age play. I consider age play to be role playing.
A little about my personality
In my professional life, Im fairly assertive and outspoken because it is required to succeed. In my personal life, I can be outgoing in the right company and shy around new people. In the bedroom, I can easily switch but enjoy someone else being in control. Im an independent, intelligent, strong-willed woman, but I would love to have one person with whom I could give total control. Well, maybe not TOTAL control, I have no desire for a slave relationship.
Thats right, Im not looking for a slave relationship. I have limits. Im also not looking for a 247 relationship. As the relationship develops, it could become 247, but it will depend on the person and their desires. At this point I tend to think that 247 would be impossible for me. Some aspects of a relationship have to be vanilla and recognize both people as equals - at least thats been my experience.
I am probably looking for a serious relationship that includes more than just kink. I do not want to chat online forever. I do not want to chat with random people from wherever. There are occasionally exceptions to this rule. If you dont like a few healthy curves, please continue on your journey. s in mirror may be larger than they appear. I havent posted a new photo in quite some time. Ill try to do that soon.
Interests outside of kink and fetish
Im a bit of a nerd - although I guess everyone is a nerd about something. Im an organizational nerd - not always, but when I get started Im a little obsessive and my perfectionist tendencies show themselves. (If Im completely honest, they dont just show themselves, they do cartwheels and well thought-out cheers, but Im learning to stomp them down when appropriate.) The nerd in me will organize anything from a pantry to a spreadsheet. I make fantastic spreadsheets. Seriously. Other things Im nerdy about books, literature (not the same thing), poetry, writing, some history (especially American Irish), and sociology human behaviour.
I also love to laugh I have a varied sense of humour. For example, movies that make me laugh most Monty Python, anything with Rebel Wilson, and The Hangover. I have eclectic taste in movies other favorites are The Princess Bride, anything with Audrey Hepburn or John Wayne, Full Metal Jacket, and Forrest Gump.
Music is pretty much the same - eclectic. My main rule is that if there is singing in English I must be able to understand the lyrics. Rock, classic rock, 80s music, alt, Celtic, Texas country, classic country, classical, and a little rap. I especially like music that tells stories.
I love to bake and am learning how to cook and sew.
Results from bdsmtest.org
88 Experimentalist
88 GirlBoy
79 Submissive
75 Switch
66 Bondage Receiver
66 Non-monogamist
59 Primal (Prey)
55 Exhibitionist
46 Primal (Predator)
45 Degradation Receiver
43 DaddyMommy
41 Masochist
34 Bondage Giver
34 Brat
30 Dominant
29 Sadist
29 Voyeur
25 Degradation Giver
19 All-Rounder
12 Slave
9 Vanilla
8 MasterMistress
8 Pervert
7 Brat Tamer
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