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Male Submissive, 42, west yorks
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Male Switch, 40
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Female Submissive, 47
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About puzzlenuzzle
UPDATE: I can host now and I'd love to find a service oriented sub who enjoys, among other things, cleaning and cooking as part of their service.
I am a curvy, queer-identified femme - not exactly high femme, more like chipped nail polish, run in my stockings, yesterday's makeup femme. I like boys, the boyish, and masculinity in whatever form it takes. I'm attracted to individuals who are submissive and want to serve, who take pleasure from my pleasure, who are dedicated and devoted to it, but who can also take the lead outside of explicitly bdsm contexts when instructed to do so. I like to be courted and pampered.
I'm still figuring out what being a domme means to me, what I want, and how I want to be served. Looking for people who want to play a part in exploring that with me and who can help me navigate this world. Although if you identified "massages (giving)" as one of your loves or likes, I'm already interested. I really love a massage! Especially one that seamlessly flows from therapeutic to sensual.
My style of dominance is more loving and nurturing than cruel and austere. I get off on trust, vulnerability, and openness. I am a feminist and am not into the framework of female supremacy or superiority, nor do I enjoy being characterized as a Goddess or any kind of royalty. My orientation towards life is pretty much "you're not the boss of me" and the only authority I enjoy is my own.
In other news, I am strongly committed to social justice, relationship and community building, and my school/work. I love laughing and being playful, but I can be serious about the things that are important to me. I am currently pursuing post graduate studies in relational psychotherapy. I also knit, read novels, play games, lift weights, do dance aerobics (much to the chagrin of the teenager I co-parent), and try to get to the bottom of things over a coffee with friends.
If you're wanting to understand how it is that I can identify as queer and still be interested in men, this article explains things usefully: http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2015/mar/14/queer-dating-spectrum-other-people-comfort. If you're wanting to understand more about what a femme identity means to me, this article has a good definition: http://www.damemagazine.com/2015/08/12/im-no-lady-im-femme
If you're sub or slave identified and live in or near Montreal, get in touch.
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