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Pan Male Submissive, 66,  Kansas
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Work forces me to be in command & control most of the time. I have found that taking a break once in a while and giving up control is a refreshing pause.
I will not do scat, blood or anything illegal but enjoy most everything else. I have been told I have a high threshold for pain. I recently got married to a woman who is very vanilla so have had to tone down the intensity of play to where there are no marks on my body that last more than a few hours.
I travel less than I used to for work. Primary area now is Kansas, North Texas (panhandle), Oklahoma panhandle, and eastern Colorado.
I will answer any questions you might have about myself if you ask.










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 Submissive Male


 5' 7"

 160 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Transgender

Dominant Female

Dominant Male

Domme/Dom Couples

Femdom Couples

Mascdom Couples

 Lives For:

 Bondage (Expert)

 Collars (Expert)

 Electrical Play

 Exhibitionism (Beginner)


 Outdoor Bondage (Beginner)

 Whips (Expert)


 Blindfolds (Expert)

 Canes and Crops (Expert)

 Genital Punishment

 Orgasm Denial


 Sensory Deprivation



 Strap-Ons (Beginner)

 Vacuum Stimulation


 Wax play


 Seventies Music



 Art Galleries (Beginner)

 Coffee Shops

 Fine Dining



 Renaissance Faires


 Travel (Expert)


 Camping (Expert)

 Hiking (Expert)

 Horseback Riding (Expert)



 Sailing (Beginner)

 Scuba Diving

 Anal Play

 Body Worship

 Cages (Beginner)


 Foot Worship (Beginner)


 Hair Pulling (Beginner)



 Masks (Wearing) (Beginner)

 Massage (Getting)

 Massage (Giving)

 Obedience Training

 Plastic Wrap (Beginner)

 Public Play  (Beginner)



 Card Games


 Chess (Beginner)

 Historical Shows

 Science Fiction



 Archaeology (Beginner)



 Libertarian Politics


 Female Supremacy (Beginner)

 Old Guard

 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 Nineties Music

 Opera Music


 Rock Music





 Bar Hopping


 Flea Markets (Beginner)

 Eye Contact Restrictions (Beginner)

 Needle Play (Beginner)


 TV Sports

 Conservative Politics




 Auto Racing


 Curious About:

 Going to the Opera (Beginner)


 Fire Play


 Knife Play

 Medical Play



 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Rubber Fetish

 Body Art



 Gorean Lifestyle




 Amusement Parks (Expert)


 Shopping (Expert)

 Corner Time


 Domestic Service

 Gas Masks

 Housework Service

 Serving as a Butler


 Arcade Games

 Horror Movies

 Online Chatrooms (Beginner)

 Online RPGs

 Role Playing Games

 Liberal Politics

 Goth Lifestyle



 Hip Hop Music

 Punk Rock Music


 Hard Limits:


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Journal Entries:
10/16/2015 10:22:01 PM
Work has me in Albany/Hudson area for a week or so.  Maybe some DOMINANTS in the area would like to meet

11/7/2014 3:54:52 PM
Lots of changes in last couple of years.  Got into a serious vanilla relationship and have contract with a new company that has me very busy.  Making better money than I have in years.  Don't have as much time to spend on here or in play and I do miss the play.  Still get rare chances now and then but not like I used to.
Hope to stay in touch with those I've established D/s relationship and possibly in the future, I'll find time to feedmy craving.

10/29/2012 10:05:27 AM

Had a call from my past last week and looks like it could develop into a serious relationship so won't be on here as much and will be off the play program.

5/18/2012 8:30:38 PM

Personal issue has taken priority over playtime.  I will be on here a little less for a while at least til situation settles down

1/18/2012 5:18:20 PM

Family issues in NY will probably be 1st and foremost on my mind for a while so if you haven't seen me on in a while, it's because I'm busy with that.  I'll still check in from time to time.

12/5/2011 9:47:19 AM

6 months without playtime.  I've been all over but not where I wanted to be and when I was, I didn't have time to stop for coffee.  Making $$$ but could use some downtime in the right place.

9/7/2011 8:33:51 PM

This site has been interesting at times. I've met a few real people from here and made some good friends along the way. 

9/30/2010 8:06:12 PM
I'm on here a little less frequently now because of businees and personal reasons. I have family in NY & Tx who need my attention more. I will check in when there is time in my schedule.

3/21/2010 1:44:46 PM
I'm back in service again as injuries are all healed. It was tough being out of the action for 6 months but stayed in touch with a few who I've played with and a few who are waiting til I get to their area.
Business is starting to pick up again so I'm getting around a little more and back to places I haven't been since the economy went in the toilet.

8/16/2009 8:57:02 PM
Will be out of commission for several weeks as I injured myself while at home. To those who know me, keep in touch. 

1/3/2009 5:59:45 PM
Had a fun evening with Miss Kim last night. I haven't been able to get to her dungeon since Oct so I obliged her by letting her domme me on line finishing up on the phone. Not my favorite way to play but, I wanted to please her. She's much better in real time and has had me doing things I never thought I'd do.

4/27/2008 7:24:41 PM
There seems to be more talk here than real people. I try to contact those in areas where I travel and at first they're all for it but when I tell them I'll be in town, they back away.

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