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PuddingTan

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PuddingTan - Female Submissive, Andover | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About PuddingTan

The bit about looking :
I'm not actively looking, but if the right person comes along...

I will be looking for a Daddy and/or Mummy for ageplay. Ideally, this would be very intimate but NOT sexual.

I'm try to be safety concious, for this reason, I won't respond to suggestion of play to people who are strangers, or are not active in the scene and can be met through people I already know.

I don't want a serious relationship but I would want something established. This means knowing where I stand, and where you stand.

Please no one who would do drugs around me, and no one with children floating around.



A little bit about me......thinker, learner, forensic science student at college, ever changing, loving, coffee addict, dependant, social, long sock admirer, too much information giver, slightly shameless, sexual, opinionated, open to others opinions, easily trusting, eternally banned from wine, shower singer, open and often forgets what it is to be common sensical.

I have no one's standards to live up to but my own. No labels, no boxes. This is me, not your expected version of me. And actually, I quite like to be an odd biscuit. I am being honest about how I function.

I have submissive tendancies. I'm a sub in my own way. I don't find cleaning your house the least bit arousing and rewarding. I find helping you out a bit and being nice, followed by appreciation and pride rewarding.

I won't suck your feet if I don't want to do it. I'm a submissive depending on the person and the situation. I find less people I'm willing to 'submit' to. I guess I am a lazy sub. Sexual submission, moreso.

Don't misunderstand me. I like to make others happy, but I won't fuck around stressing myself out to become a PERSON I am not for another's enjoyment. I am selfish in the respect that my life is mine, my choices are mine. It's too short to devote it to someone else.

I also like to please people. On my own terms. I will please someone out of gratitude, or unintentionally, but I doubt I'll make it top priority, I will make sure it's ok with myself before I strive to please another.

I suppose what I am trying to say is I want to make someone happy without trying to be someone else. I want to please another simply by being me, because if I cannot do that, surely I am wasting time?

I would naturally, happily be submitting to them. This is something I wish for in the future.
I have tried too hard to put myself under a label. It doesn't work, so I am allowing myself to discover me!


Ageplay for me is not a submission. I can be as bratty then as I am originally. Ageplay is a reconstruction, another part of me. Of course, I like to be nurtured, looked after.

What Kind of Little am I? (Online quiz)
Your Result: Pumpkin
You are Daddy's little Pumpkin!!!!! You are the one who can always make your Daddy smile and laugh a lot with your cute comments and your slop-sided grin!
In order -
Pumpkin
Schoolgirl
Princess
Brat
Angel
:)

You will see nothing non consensual, or harmful to anyone on here but you might not like what I like. Someone got very upset with me once because they didn't like the thought of me being slapped in the face and spat on.

I'll clarify that my darker kinks revolve around the thought of them being done to ME (a wholly consenting and quietly assertive party), not them being done to someone else.

I can be found in Bristol, Swindon, Andover, Southhampton, Basingstoke and various beachy areas in the south east.....or latching on to a teacher type person, who is evidently more intelligent than I, but doesn't make me feel inferior.
Someone who takes pride in teaching me and watching me learn. Even for a few minutes. It's incredibly sexy. It doesn't not make me submissive yawn Everyone learns.
Or a strong/broad/tall man. Nom Nom.

I appear to be an auditory person. Finding strange sounds incredible. The sound of a belt being removed, pencil crayons being moved in a pot, a whisper, a breath, the sound of a shower or tap.
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