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PsychoticSanity - Male Dominant,  Maryland | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About PsychoticSanity

I love music and spend a lot of time with it. I have an eclectic taste, but I really enjoy instrumentals like movie themes.



It's also pretty important to me to warn you that I'm an actual person who likes to laugh and enjoy life. I'm not going to be some lifeless robot forever stuck in some kind of online role where I feel I can't mess around because that's not "Dom-like." When I first write any of you ladies, it's always going to be respectfully worded. I don't know you and you don't know me. Don't expect me to be anything other than a friendly acquaintance who is interested in learning more about you for the time being. If things ever progress, then I'm sure we'll both discover more layers to our personalities. Until then, just enjoy the journey and see where it leads.



I don't mind getting to know someone online first. But, since I'd like to have a girl in "real life," actually meeting is inevitable. I don't mind taking things slow and talking awhile, but I'm not looking to chat over the internet for upwards of a year without meeting in person. Of course, safety is a priority, so it would be in public so there is no risk to anyone.



To be blunt, I'm looking for the housewife type of woman who wants to have a family. Someone who likes the traditional role of men and women and wants to be the Queen of the nest. Not someone who wants to pursue a career and leave her children to be raised by babysitters and daycare providers, or let them be fed by fast food restaurants and prepackaged food.


I am not a new-age man by any means. I'm a traditional person who considers himself an old soul and I seek a natural, male led relationship. I've wanted to settle down and start a family ever since I was 20 or so. It's just ingrained in me. When I go to take a girl, I want it to be for the rest of my life. I am looking to forge an unbreakable connection with a girl so we can complement our natural inclinations and traits.

I am not looking to crush someone or treat them as sub-human. Spanking, slapping and that kind of thing is fine, but any guy who actually physically beats and harms a woman needs to be taught a huge lesson.


I am not perfect and I know it. And I do not expect my future girl to be. Embrace your imperfections because they make you unique. Don't conform. When I finally do unite with my girl, my hope is that together, we will make a better life than what we would be able to achieve apart.


I am not a materialistically wealthy man, but I consider myself one of the wealthiest people on the planet because of my family, life and talents. To me, if a man and woman have a connection, it shouldn't matter their circumstances. The fact that you are together and able to share your lives should be fulfilling enough. Everything else is nice, but it's just padding really.


The rest of my profile will be random facts and beliefs I hold so everyone can see bits of the whole that is me.

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* I believe men are created men and women are created women. I don't buy into all that "third gender" junk or whatever. You're either born a man or a woman. That's life. Be thankful you get it. It's a beautiful gift.

* On that last note, I also believe in different roles for men and women. We have different strengths and weaknesses. The goal should be to use those strengths in tandem to cover for each others' shortcomings and create a more formidable whole.

* Family is the most important thing in my life and it will be forever. Nothing is worth more than family. Money, jobs, material possessions. They can all be dumped in a lake as long as family is together and well.


*If I'm fortunate enough to have kids, they will be homeschooled. It's not the state's job to educate my kids. My future wife and I will do that.

*I dislike and am completely against plastic surgery for vanity. If you dislike the way you look so much that you would pay to have your body altered, then I think there is something wrong with how you think and perceive yourself. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and it doesn't take "perfectly formed" bodies to qualify as beautiful.

* I do not have faith in this country's government. I pretty much hate all politicians. They are playing a massive chess game and the people are the pawns. Whether republican, democrat or whatever, they are all the same. They want the same end. The only difference is the route they take to get there.

* I'm an anti-feminist and it has nothing to do with keeping women down. I greatly respect women and I will respect my future wife. I feel feminism at its core does not help women and it was never put in place to help women like it pretends. The true reasons the feminist movement was introduced and funded were anything but noble. Anybody who thinks feminism "frees" women or is about "equality" of the sexes doesn't know what feminism is. Try looking up some of the quotes from the women who have founded it and continue to promote it.

* I believe in G-d. In order to have a relationship with me, you need to have faith in our Creator too. I can't see myself with an atheist at all. I do not fall under any "organized religion" though. I don't have a label.

* Pharmaceutical companies don't want you to get completely well. They want to keep you just sick enough so you need to keep buying their drugs. There's a reason they make as much money as they do every year. Look around you. How many people do you know who are taking something? Just about everyone I know is on something, for a variety of reasons. That stuff is bad for your body and brain.

* "Heresy is only another word for freedom of thought." - Graham Greene.

* If you are not willing to defend a belief to the death, then it isn't a true belief. Same thing applies to a loved one. If you won't take a bullet for someone you love, then in my opinion, you don't love them.

Time to pull myself from this computer, leave the piano and get some sleep. Late (early?) is the hour. Must rest. Eyes crossed. Ears tired.

Have good dreams.

I think the absolute ideal living situation is the multi-generational houses or villages like they used to do in the past. Some countries, specifically in Asia, still regularly have multi-generational homes. This entire idea of splitting up the family unit has never made any sense to me.

It doesn't make sense from a familial perspective, unless you absolutely hate your family, which I'd like to think most people probably don't. Most of us love being around our families and want to spend as much time with them as possible, right?

It doesn't make sense from an emotional/support perspective. When you need help or advice isn't it nice to have others who care about you to lean on? And wouldn't it be great to see and talk to them in person instead of having to call from several states away?

And it doesn't make sense from a financial perspective. What exactly is the point of splitting up resources and weakening the central core? When did this every man for himself attitude become the predominant status quo for this country?

Finally, and perhaps most importantly, it doesn't make sense from a child rearing perspective. What's the point of sending your young children to daycare or public school to be watched or educated by strangers when they can be guided and taught by a group of people who actually have a vested interest in their personal outcome and who actually love them? With multiple people there to help spread out the weight of responsibility, things may go a little smoother in certain parts. Also, a child would be exposed to many different views and skills from people of several different generations. The learning environment would be invaluable.

Human beings seem to love beating their heads against the wall. Hey, I do it myself from time to time. But what is the point really? Is it just to prove 'I can do this!'? Isn't the All For One and One For All mentality a more positive and strengthening framework than subdividing everything?

Everyone needs their own things. Everyone needs privacy. I think my ideal goal is to be able to buy a plot of land large enough where you could build several small houses on it. They don't even have to be in sight of each other depending on how much land I can get. But I think it's so important to keep that core intact. At least for those who wanted it.
Yet another young lady who has taken the time to write me, then deleted her profile several hours after so I am unable to respond. I've never understood this.

Ladies, one thing I value highly is patience. I am extremely patient myself. I always have been and have only grown more so in the last couple years. I also put thought into what I write/say, so it may take me a little time to get back to you. Please bear this in mind when writing me.


You can have anything you want in life, but you can't have everything. Such a simplistic statement that gets taken for granted far too often. How does this apply to my life? How does this affect those around me? What do you really want?

It's an interesting question. What you want out of life. The answer doesn't always come so easily. It takes time. Deliberation. Discernment. We only have so much time in this world. Here today, gone tomorrow. So how will you leave your mark? How will people remember you? What do you want?

It's taken me several years to come to my own conclusions, to finally realize some base facts about who I am and what I want out of life. One of the biggest things for me is unifying myself as best I can with the natural way. Nature operates under certain laws put forth by the Creator. There are certain absolutes that can not be escaped. Finding out what those are is a battle and in many ways mine has really just begun.

To align yourself with this world, this universe, you have to find out who you are. How you relate to everything around you. How you can partake and give back. We each play a part. A different part, but none more or less important than the other. It's completely up to us whether we choose to take the time to find out what that part is and what it entails, or if we simply let it pass us by.

Molded in the image of our Creator, we form a symbiotic relationship with nature and the forces around us. When we align ourselves with all this, we empower each other. When we stray from our true purpose (which it seems like mankind is doing at a rapid rate), we ultimately lead ourselves by the leash to our own destruction.

In your life, you can have whatever you want, but there are consequences. Just keep this in mind when you make everyday choices. When you make decisions concerning family or career. When you make choices requiring sacrifice, greed, love and hate. You can have anything you want, but you can't have everything.

Yeah, Johnny. Don't be a wuss, man!

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I can guarantee that most women who read this won't see the highest of value this article places on them. That's sad, but it's the truth.

Why "Hell Has No Wrath Like A Woman Scorned"
by: Henry Makow PH.D.

'And the earth was without form, and void; and darkness was upon the face of the deep. And the Spirit of God moved upon the face of the waters.' Genesis 1-2

Ideally, man represents G-d's Will ("form.") Women represent His Creation. Despite gender confusion, women are still looking for leaders, protectors and providers, so they can raise their children themselves. Traditional gender roles give our lives meaning. That's why they are under attack. 

In a deceptive article, "Infantriarchy," currently lauded as "brilliant" on the anti-feminist website 'A Voice For Men,' Gordon Wadsworth argues that 'equality and self actualization' will result from overcoming two basic "defects." He seems ignorant that these "defects" in fact define gender and are at the heart of heterosexuality. 

"The female defect is her desire to infantilize herself; to project a facade of weakness and victimhood. The female does this because part of her identity is contingent on compelling males to act on her behalf. This is a mechanism which allows the female to feel desirable, important, and powerful. ...Thus, the female defect keeps her from assuming personal responsibility, which presents a barrier to her self-actualization.

The male defect is his desire to compensate for the infantilized female. He does this because part of his identity is contingent on earning female validation. He thus demonstrates his ability to protect, provision and inform. This is a mechanism for feeling useful, powerful, knowledgeable, and important. The male defect leads him to compete with other males to demonstrate his primacy to females... This becomes his own barrier to self-actualization.

These defects mean that the female path of self-actualization is one of taking responsibility, and the male path of self-actualization is one of relinquishing responsibility."

Wadsworth thinks he is anti-feminist; but this is pure feminism - neutering the sexes by empowering women and enfeebling men. 

Wadsworth is providing a recipe for more gender neutering and confusion not "self actualization." Gender is based on an imbalance of worldly (physical, material) power between male and female. Just look at how much stronger males usually are. As I have said, heterosexuality requires the surrender of female material power to a select male (husband) in exchange for his power, expressed as his love. This exclusive contract is consecrated by exclusive sex, marriage and family. 

Men want power; women want love. Marriage is the exchange of the two; i.e. Male love in exchange for Female power. 

With "strong and independent" women, there is more temptation for men to evade their role, i.e. providing leadership. Instead, men need to return to the traditional model, where the male is the Captain of the ship, and the woman is the First Mate. This is what women still want: a man strong and worthy enough to earn her allegiance. No amount of feminist social engineering can overcome natural instincts, as long as Captains don't abandon ship. 

MARRIAGE IS MYSTICAL

Marriage and family is a G-d-given path that allows us to find love and grow inwardly. Today, millions of people are in a state of arrested development because they cannot form a permanent relationship. 

Man represents the G-d Principle. Woman represents the Creation Principle. There is no war. Man and woman are in love. G-d is in love with Creation and vice-versa.

"Making love" is a physical expression of this mystical alchemy. It illustrates how each Principle works. The Male Principle penetrates, possesses and plants the seed. The seed is the spirit, code and spark of creation. 

The female yields, opens and accepts the spirit. But, by being possessed, she also possesses. Look at the imagery. The penis is totally engulfed by the vagina. The man belongs to the woman who belongs to him.

Another metaphor is the relationship between a farmer and his land. The farmer cultivates the soil and plants the seed. The verb "husband" means to cultivate and manage prudently. The land gives birth to new life and nurtures it.

Femininity is by nature passive and instrumental. Woman is a bridge to the future. She is a medium. When she is fertilized, grows large, and gives birth, she transforms herself and her mate into their child. Through the child, they are recreating themselves and producing the future. Creation is in a constant process of transformation.

If a woman isn't chosen and used for a higher purpose, she never realizes herself and remains unfulfilled. If she is discarded after having sex, the sting is all the sharper. In her soul, the sex act is a living metaphor for the love of G-d. This may explain the elemental wrath of the scorned woman.

Love in a woman is synonymous with trust, openness and acceptance. Indeed, this is exactly what a man most craves from a woman. He needs someone to believe in him. Her belief makes anything possible for him. Her faith provides the space that the male expands into. She is Creation.

A woman wants to be nurtured, used and shaped by a man's love, which is a surrogate for the divine spirit. I'm not saying all or most men are surrogates for G-d, but this is the ideal. When a woman loves a man, she accepts his leadership. She is content to be consulted and considered.

Men forget that the position of wife is a status to which all women aspire. Dating is an interview. Courtship is probation. Marriage is a Sacred Covenant. Women find their bliss in being intensely needed by her husband. 

FIND A WOMAN WILLING TO BE YOUR FIRST MATE 

A single man should approach marriage with a clear sense of how he wants to live, where a woman fits, and what her job description is. This is what women actually want and what they respond to. They do not respond to men who are starved for sex and love, and don't have a plan for her. Nor are they satisfied with men who want them to remain independent, two parallel rails that never meet.

In conclusion, Marxists, having failed to create a class war between capital and labor, created one between men and women. The aim is the same: power. They are creating conflict where none exists. They are trying to portray as a disease something that is in fact mystical and divine. They are presenting sick behavior as healthy. They are standing between millions of people and G-d.

Men represent the G-d-principle. Women the Creation-principle. Man and woman, G-d and Creation are in love with each other. They need each other for completion and self-transformation. The way to stop the spread of Marxist feminism is for men to start acting like men, so that once again women may trust and yield to them.

Better to starve and be free than be a content slave. Thank you, Aesop.

 

People willing to trade their freedom for temporary security deserve neither and will lose both.

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