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Male Dominant, 36, kirkland, Washington
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Female Submissive, 37, Bowling Green, Kentucky
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Female Submissive, 26
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About Primaliron
Let's see.....
Physically I'm a large man. I'm not really tall but I have a broad thick build (and a few pounds around the middle I'd like to get rid of).
A few things I believe are necessary for a functioning relationship (at least for me):
1. Respect, not just for me by her, but both ways. I have little interest in someone I simply would not want to associate with in any other setting.
2. Trust, this one comes with time of course. It also comes from basic values. Perhaps we will not share the same exact religious or philosophical beliefs, but a good set of core principles is important.
3. Love, and I don't mean just romantic love. We have to be able to love others as well. No not in a Poly sort of way, I am talking about a basic love of people, be they friends or family, or even a small bit of love for strangers in need.
4. Compassion and Forgiveness, I think these two need to be bundled for they speak to the basic condition of being human. We all make mistakes. I don't think you can ever truly have a relationship without it.
5. Responsibility, This like all the others is a two way street. A Dom is responsible for their sub and vice versa. We have our roles and all the nuanced variations, but nobody is completely absolved of responsibility, it is merely shifted around in a way that serves the needs of both.
6. Loyalty, Obviously similar to trust. I expect to both earn it and give it. If we have a disagreement I need to know you have our best interests at heart, not just your own. I am held similarly responsible.
Things I enjoy....
I am a nerd at heart. I study all sorts of things from martial arts, to computers, to art, to history, to other cultures. I like to cook and experiment in the kitchen (most other people seem to enjoy it too). I'm a bit of a homebody but every now and then I like to go out to a movie, art show, museum, or festival. I love to explore or re-explore things I have seen before to find out new information. |
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I'm not looking for a sub anymore. Not because I've met someone but just because I don't think I care to bother anymore. Finding soemone who really wants to share their life with another human being seems to be an overwhelmingly complicated task for something so effectively simple. I am here to offer what counsel I can and that is all. |
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All of the superficial things I see about the lifestyle seem to indicate that Doms need to break girls..... I ask why?
Do you really need to break a girl to make her what you want?
Was there nothing of her that was good from before?
I personally see no need to break a girl, perhaps for some that works. I am more interested in taking what is there and working with her to make her better. Perhaps in the process I will improve as well. After making each others lives better is what a good relationship is all about. |
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