PrevailingMaster

I’m an independent, sensual, sincere, strong, loving, and compassionate Dominant Man who is seeking an equally sensual, sincere, strong, loving, and compassionate woman

with a need to explore her submissive nature. I am one that believes that the MIND is the most sensual – thus that woman craves to be mentally understood...release her inner core nature

...where she can feel free to fully submit and surrender her inner passions and please. That in TIME be motivated and delighted to be used for my pleasure, both passionately and intellectually.

Optimistically She is enamored by an experienced Dom who can take the time to know her and nurture her a bit gently, into that submissive bliss.
I’m seeking a woman who considers herself to be very focused and confident professionally, but shy and quietly reserved in social settings.

As she hopes to find a Dom who will earn her trust and respect, who she can be very relaxed being vulnerable with. Earning MY trust and respect with no judgements in return.
I am here to fine that sub who likes and wants to learn more about herself and the mental nuances required. I’m looking for friendships as well as guidance to a sub in understanding the rules, possible protocols and etiquette's involved in the layers of this very sensual and most rewarding persona. 
I am here to be mentally engaged. I will not send pics or videos or Skype with anyone who has not taken the time to understand this and or ME as a Dominant man.
MESSAGE ME FOR ADDITIONAL INFO...

Emotionally naked and afraid of what's to come...

And yet longing for what's in store...

You shiver with anticipation...deep within your mind

Shy Fear and desire...

Locked in a lovers embrace within your breast. 

You are mine (Servant Sub)...

As I am yours (Master Dom)...

I will draw out your inner pain...

Like drawn from a wound...

I want your complete inner surrender...

I demand your heart...

I require your consent...Because you gave them freely.

You are mine (Servant Sub)...

As I am yours (Master Dom)...

As I will unveil the beauty within you...I will show you what I see...

In the aftermath of the moment...We lay together...

Two souls lain bare...open....vulnerable
As you surrender as the nectar flows

I kiss away the tears of happiness and release NOT of suffering...

And joy...I hold you and cherish you from the others who wish to have you..BUT ( as you open your heart pet)

You are mine. 

And I am yours.

As i read all these posts...both from Subs and slaves.

I want that woman to understand that by giving over control to a dominant man..be it a sensual one like me.
Requires that you do certain things, not just sexually
you are now really 'free'. In other words, you may consider that you seek to be controlled but in reality what your truly seeking is freedom.

But it all begins with...your soul with my mind
My voice,
as you hear it
as you read it even thru this Entry
As you can visualize my hands and your body.
I'll enamor your lips with my kisses - caressing
as our tongues tango
your throat with my big dark Cuban cock
as you feel its girth fill you
as you kneel to worship
as you feel the weight of on top
as you look in the mirror
from behind ...seeing me lost in
your body
appropriating all its curves.
as i pull your hair, going deeper
the music of your sighs-pants-even dirty talk
and all that ....started with ......your soul with my mind.

you need someone to give up control too. you need someone to obey. you need someone who will be strict with you and teach you how to be that which you so deeply desire. you've read or seen things about BDSM which frighten you yet compel you to keep searching. you want to try them, you need to try them, but you are scared. you need a Dom. you Need Me.

Why as a DOM i love to feast at her pussy.

The invigorating scent, punching my nose as I hover my nose outside the bulge of her panties;

Pressing my tongue against the soft silk fabric, feeling the crevice of her vagina cradle my tongue between her labia;

Peeling the glossy material aside to finally reveal her glazed pink pouch, her perfect pussy;

It is breathtaking, that first sight of her beautifully exposed to me with nothing to hide;
As she knows she is wet due to my INNER DOMINANCE
The MIND FUCK
The MENTAL ASPECT now that bis REAL

Feeling her warm thighs wrap and envelop my shoulders and head, pulling me further into her;

My tongue slowly running from her moistened vagina, upwards across the silky length of her, until my tongue runs over the groove of her clit;

The sweet taste of her nectar melting into my mouth, like tasting a fine wine for the first time;

My palette awash with the deep aroma of her sexual perfume;

As I push my tongue deep inside her, I imagine myself bathing in a pool of her scent, diving deep into it, the milky juices blanketing my frame;

Coming to surface, my eager mouth and spongy tongue withdraw soaked with her;

as i tell her to kiss me...so she can taste what i taste

Laying there, exploring, discovering, and smothering myself in her sexual joy;

The small squeaks and moans she lets out tantalize me;

Drenching myself in her viscous squirt, an extract of pure female pleasure;

I don't want to stop...as i now say.
as i arise
NOW YOU
knell
and begin to worship what is truly MINE

~VM

You came dressed exactly as I requested. Black suit and skirt that covers your ass, offering the perfect view of your white lace panties whenever you bend over. I block you from coming in, standing at the doorway where everyone that passes by can get an eyeful of you. I told you: if anything was wrong I would deny you entry. You start fidgeting as I keep silent and stand still; You really should more in yourself. It seems an eternity before I finally move aside and let you in. You catch your breath as a sigh escapes your lips, looking at me if I noticed.

Come here for inspection

Standing at attention, arms in front against the wall, legs slightly apart, you await my inspection confident in your work. You let out a little smile

"Turn around and remove your panties my princess." I instruct you.

As soon as you hook your thumb on the waistband as you begin to sigh as you remove your lace. You freeze suddenly, mid rise, as I walk up to you, not sure if you should have risen up so fast.

Eyes tight shut, fearing a spanking on an already sensitive ass, you're surprised to feel the top loosen as I pull the string that kept it tight on you. As I back away, you feel confident to resume your rise. As you turn around and present your panties, the shutter on a picture perfect moment.

Your hair as I feel them between my fingers…

The bra holding precariously on your breasts.
The skirt fell back in place, hiding your treasure.
Your lace panties neatly folded, presented on outstretched hands.

You recite the line I taught you long ago, one you've been saying almost every day since:

"Take me daddy."

I take your offering and stash it in my pocket, one more piece of you in my possession. You stand at attention, trying not to breath too hard by fear of letting the corset fall.

"Shake it off."

As you rock your body left and right, obeying me, your breasts are finally free and exposed to me

"Lift up your skirt."
"Cup your breasts."
"Spread your legs."

You follow each direction to the letter. As I kneel to see, it's clear to see you are enjoying this as much as I am. Your moisture glistening down your thighs as day light floods the room, teasing my trapped hardness behind the prison of my Armani jeans and blue sports jacket

The teasing has to come to an end. Unbeknown to you, I stand back up, set my iphone to video and start recording.

"Turn around, bend over." I command you without looking up to you.

Hurt by the sudden lack of attention, you do as you're told, always fearing a speaking and a spanking. As you turn around, I set the camera to capture everything. I'll need both my hands for what I have planned.

As your hands slide down your legs, I startle you as I grab hold of your wrists at your knees. A gasp escapes your lips as my tongue plunges into your offering. One long, wet lick, from clit to ass. a slightly sweat aroma and a taste to shame the best of wines. I plunge in again and again. You stay frigid, panting lightly; I doubt you even need me holding you there. FUCK…it

"A taste is good, but I want a meal." I tease you.

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Light is just beginning to seep into my room
as i can see the glare of the morning sun.

It gives shape to furniture, Illuminates pictures on the walls, and faintly smears a trace of gold onto the brass of my bed.

Outside stirring birds are beginning to sing themselves awake with fluid voices.
Unlike most - i am very amorous in the morning

I glance at the time on my i phone. I do not check for mail although I desperately want to. But it is early. And anyway, messages will keep me awake.

I can see that you have written a text.

I feel my body stir and my heart yearn and I bury my head into the pillows with a sigh.

I begin to slide back into sleep. You are not there, but I feel my sweet pet next to me. The heat of you. The scent of you. Your skin soft against my mine. I feel your back against my chest. The perfect peach of your ass pressed against my increasing manhood as we spoon. Your breasts cupped in my hands.

You whisper something soft and beautiful but I hardly catch the words.

I feel you dissolving into me.

We are floating away,

My alarm sounds urgently.

My day begins.

"Every day, in every way, I am  perplexed in the lack of submissive women truly seeking to better themselves.

Not just on collarspace for instant ego gratification

Not just as a submissive but as a true vessel to be admired and used.

I seek a sub to mold her to getting better and better" -- as long as she has the honor and privilege of serving her Master,( namely me) that is true. My training and her adherence to her inner submission hones her skills and improves her understanding of herself, which provides a foundation for better and more empathetic understanding of others. As I too learn from her responses to me – as the teacher also gets TAUGHT.

To me the gifts of submission and service are many; there are many a submissive will have yet to achieve. But in my belief the greatest of these is self-awareness and the peace of knowing and loving and even liking the self She will know herself and that Master to be.

Can you be that woman I seek….?

Experienced and seasoned DOM
with the mental and emotions to match.

A Gentleman DOM,
not abusive, or looking to hurt.
Like to mix the romantic with the sensual.

The mind and the body as One

Looking for ONE submissive female, to mentor
To train - To need to be loved
who has an interest, a need, a special need,
that one Dom/Master or loving Daddy can and will provide.
Who understands, and knows how to satisfy those cravings inside you.

Is there one on CS - or all just ' wannabees' seeking for their egos to be stroked?

R V

Sometimes in life
You get a second chance to accept who you truly are.

A submissive Woman
By some miraculous sweep of sympathetic synchronicity,
Situations align
Shining a light into your world
Brilliant, ethereal, blinding in its raw intensity...
And you know...you seek ONE man to surrender to
Beyond a shadow of a doubt, that who you see as you read his prose and

Click onto his profile,
Is who you've known all along...in your mind;
You have searched,
Knowing that, within that deep space of longing and desire,
There lay an answer...your answer…I have finally found HIM;
That inside this dream
Was hidden a reality
Waiting to surface, to show itself...To have that MAN take you under his guidance
...for you, to you.
We all yearn for a beacon,
A loving, guiding, protective light
to manifest...outside ourselves;
Inside our world.

Inside HIS
As you hear him say …You are mine.

The arms that wrap so around you,
holding you oh-so-tight;
soothing you after ,lulling you through the night.

The eyes that seem to pierce you,
looking deep into your soul;
breaking you up into pieces,
helping to remake you whole.

My deep voice that makes you shiver,
Aroused with nervousness
causing your stomach to whirl;
commands or praises you as he,
tells you that You are a "good girl".

The hands that gently caress you,
or tie you and give you pleasure;
gag you and bind you,
then release you to me again.

The mouth that kisses you deep,
the tongue that licks and flicks;
the warm lips that softly suckle,
the sharp teeth that cruelly nip.

As you see my smile

The Man who claimed you as His,
the one to whom you now draw to;
molding you and owning you,
I await that women who will say...
my 'Master'.... my 'Sir'..... my 'One'.

My specific desires...not for those lacking passion or imagination...I desire to feel complete comfort with another human being. I long for intimacy, both physical and emotional. I want to feel close to someone on a certain plane of existence that only the two of us seem to understand. The greatest feeling in the world, to me, is when a man feels a woman over his knee, that's when beauty is made. My interests in a woman combine genuine romance plus the intense erotic aspects of BDSM.

I am particularly looking for a woman who feels shy-- but knows she has a great deal to give to the right man...

7/10

I wish to have that submissive speak directly to my soul. As I in turn whisper sweet, sensual words of adoration and possession, invoking love and surrender, on what I’ve taken and what I want.

I want my words inside her head, not just for now, but for always. I want to write myself onto her heart.

In the middle of my murmuring, To have her hear my voice, not as I intend it, but as it is — pleading, anxious, and unsure. NOT asserting ownership; Yet lusting willing her to be mine.

Hello ...as i wish to reintroduce myself to the submissive women on the new

" Collar Space"....I am a 40-something male who relishes the mental, sensual, emotional and sexual aspects of D/s relationships. To me not just as a dominant - but as a MAN , sensuality is first and foremost about the mind; once a mental and emotional bond is established, the body has no choice but to follow. Feel free to contact me share your thoughts and feelings with me, and generally engage in a dialogue on the topic.

As i am seeking that one SUB - to train. nurture.have her surrender to- in real Time

not by e mail not by cyber.

To me as that sensual man....yes a Dominant one.

this is very profound............

That true intimacy cannot be found between a woman's submissive legs but within her 

true giving spirit

Thoughts?

Its funny that as a Sensual man...who just happens to be dominant

I see and read the profiles here on Cm and i can only speak for myself that..

I have spent a lot of time thinking about my own motivations as a man, trying to understand what drives me to want to be dominant over a woman in a loving, intimate and warm relationship. I ponder these things frequently and write( as you can see here) in an effort to sort it all out. While I feel that I have come to a brief understanding of what I desire from a submissive and how I feel it should be conducted, those are NOT the way that i use a woman. At the end of the day I know little about why I have this craving to lead in a Dominant yet a lovingly assertive manner. I do know what drives me to want to be in control without being controlling, to dominate without being domineering. I do know what compels me to expand the boundaries of my sexual expression using my dominance as part of my artistic persona. When asked by a sub and others, “What compels you to want to be a Dom?” my answer probably sounds rather familiar.

"I do know, I DO know that I need this.”

Do you - are you in need to be a Muse - to a man like myself?

Give A Man All Your Heart

And he will make you happy beyond compare.

Give him half of your heart and you weaken him.

Surrender to him and he will lift you to heights unknown.

Love him passionately and he will guard you with his life.

Open your heart to him and he will be forever yours.
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I am a strong man with steady internal compass. I expect excellence from myself, but not perfection. I am drawn to women who enjoy their feminine nature and who desire a man with a steady compass. I believe strong relationships are built on the 4 pillars of intimacy, affection, communication/honesty, and deeply passionate sex. I seek a relationship where we support one another and where my role is to lead.

I seek a woman who believes in herself. I appreciate women who are submissive, self-aware and thoughtful. I seek a woman who is sensitive. She is not afraid to be expressive of her love and affection. Such a woman embodies an ideal balance for me.

Observations April 2014

As a Dom, I like to be needed and I desire very much the attention and devotion that a potential submissive has to offer. I feed on that inner energy and return it in kind by devoting my full and undivided attention to my submissive in the form of acceptance, structure and loving control, giving her precisely what she needs in return from me ...that ATTENTION.

It can be in a form of a phone message - an e mail or a discreet text.

Look, I can be just as needy as any submissive in my own way…I just simply express it differently.

To me one of the appealing aspects of being a submissive is the attention that a Dom showers on their sub. It is often said that submissives require more attention and can be needier than the average woman ( smiles). This has been true in my experience but it is not necessarily a bad thing in the context of the relationship i seek. Indeed, it could be argued that the dependence a submissive feels on their Dom dovetails perfectly with the fact that at the heart of Dominance is a desire to be needed and looked to for support, guidance and security. In essence, I as that DOM...needs to be needed.

How will you show your heart?

Will you as that submissive open your heart, mind and soul to ( look may NOT be me) but YOUR Dominant and hand them over in the belief that you will be controlled responsibly and treated gently and tenderly. As that Dom I may have full permission to beat on  my submissives’ ass but it is rightly expected that she will simultaneously hold her heart and emotions safely and tenderly.

Wile cruising the posts here on collar me...Take the time and make the effort to assess your needs and find someone who can best meet them and your D/s journey will be far more rewarding than it might otherwise be.

Belive me....

I wonder sometime the kindness of women on this site - well it never ceases to amaze me they exist.

one is sinfulharlot

I had asked for an opinion on my profile - both from a woman's perspective and more so from a submisive woman.

I am NOT one to be a wolf - to hit on another Dom's sub - for self gain.

Yes she is with her master - but nonetheless I accepted and took to heart her insights and comments.

A heartfelt thank you - from a Dominant and yet very sensual Master

Again...more thoughts

I have strong feelings about our unique dynamic and my role as a sensual Dominant.  I take the time to know my girl’s wants, needs, hopes, fears, hungers, and desires - and I do my best to reach deep within.  My goal is to peel back inhibitions, shyness, and/or protective layers of societal “do’s and dont’s” and to free her to her own erotic “core”.  If I am successful - the result is a beautiful merging of two hearts, two minds, and two souls into one incredible journey of exploration and bliss. 

I am highly selective in my choice of submissive even here on collar me....  She must be intelligent, talented( i am NOT into what society labels as the perfect size or shape- to me a size 12 is just as sexy as a 1x), and intriguing.  She must be successful in her own persona and have passions and pursuits beyond the more obvious pleasures of her body. In her sexuality, she must be naturally submissive (in private only to me). She must also be enthusiastic, talented, have that inner spirit to please,( look you can be the president of your company - and in yet YOU want someone ELSE to make the decisions) and willing to learn and develop as we step forward. 

I make it clear at the women who is reading this - I aspire to complete her.  I am her Dominant, mentor, teacher and trainer, partner, friend, and companion. I challenge her, use her completely for my pleasure, and instruct her.  But as I bring her forward - I give back.  I want to be the single most amazing erotic and positive influence in her life.  I strive to be her joy....as she is with mine.

This is the beauty of a journey i truly desire with a perfect submissive for me.  This is what it means to be my joy. 

Thoughts?

please feel free.

Just some thoughts...So often we fixate on the dark side of D/s relationships; the challenges, sexual predicaments, corrections and punishments. What is often lost is the almost addictive emotional connection that can be felt between a Dom and his submissive. Some have labeled this bond as almost codependent and indeed if not handled correctly or by healthy and mature adults it certainly can be....can you get a glimpse of that?

But what I want to share is the lighter side of a sensual and loving D/s relationship. Sure I appreciate and make a part of my D/s life the darker arts of BDSM, but there is so much more to it than that. If what most subs you hear D/s is a series of BDSM scenes of ever increasing intensity with random partners then I suppose that is alright for some...as i believe that is the MINORITY. But I am that SENSUAL DOM in need a deeper connection and that is at the heart of a sensual D/s relationship for me. This bond is deep and intensely connected, emotional, and yes, at its core, loving.One of the great joys I experience as a Dom is the ability to control the tempo and intensity with which my submissive’s imagination travels and at what point her anticipation overwhelms her, sending her spiraling into a mental and emotional orgasm long before the physical ones ever manifests themselves....read my profile for more insight

Bondage

Bound by my will
Sacrificed by my dream
Yet you kneel before me
Hoping some day you can repay
The bondage of desire I have kept you in
Freedom given by way of those deep desires within your mind
In guise of master and slave

Lover and soul-mate

Loving Dom

When you feel my inner energy your soul soars
Leaving behind all conventional wisdom

Pain of desire whipping at your breast
Dissipates at the stirring in your loins
The deep ebb and flow within of their freshness
Escaping drops of wetness like the form of morning dew
In your secret garden
Where thorns on roses be found

Experienced and seasoned DOM
with the mental and emotions to match.

Gentleman DOM,
not abusive, or looking to hurt.
Like to mix the romantic with the sensual.

The mind and the body as One

Looking for a submissive female,
who has an interest, a need, a special need,
that can be only be taken care by that right,
and special person. Who understands, and knows how
to satisfy those cravings inside you.

Hello..its a new year...some observations..please fell free to offer commentary

For a woman in today's world, being strong and accomplished is something of great pride. You juggle so many obligations and do so with amazing ability and grace. Career, home, family, friends, personal interests--they all compete loudly as they pull and tug and place demands on your talents and time. Without being constantly in control you feel as if everything would fall apart. As a result, you feel as if you are falling apart. Submissiveness is your outlet to sanity and has restorative, rejuvenating powers.

The majority of men /masters/pseduo doms here on collar me...seeking a discreet /rt/harem submissive miss the mark entirely. They write about what they will do to you. How they will bark orders. How they will use and degrade you. How they will stick their dicks in your mouth, spank your ass, and call you their whore as they fuck you good and hard. None of this is about you. It's all about him and focuses primarily on the physical...and fails to realize that submissiveness is a mental need you need satisfied to feel whole.

While being that juggler you need to be, it is easy to lose touch with that ultra feminine woman who shares a body with you. She's there. You see her ghostly reflection in the mirror with sad eyes that beg to be freed and celebrated and be allowed to become alive. She has gone into deep hiding from your present, sexual partner. You are reluctant to introduce her to him. He wouldn't understand, or it would be awkward to make the introduction. Your submissive is not part of this relationship at all. He sees and treats you as the "I have my shit together" " I am that UBER Dom" and you are that SUB woman I have to the everyday world. That is your history with him.

You secretly desire to nurture and explore this intense and extremely personal part of who you are as a woman. Perhaps this would be easiest to share with an as yet unknown and understanding man....Such as myself... With him you'd have no history or secrets, and if the connection feels right you could express yourself this way with him. If you find him, he could tap the pent energies and curiosity you would bring to a relationship. He is not a bully--just with the proper mixture of possessing both a firm and gentle nature. He would debauch you. Lead you. Grasp your hand as he takes you on that journey where under his guidance and trust you can surrender your control. You are his when together. Given freely. You need to see and feel and hear exactly how turned on he is by your MIND as well as your body. Pleasure given is pleasure received ten-fold. You will delight when you get an early morning text or e mail...you will want to feel his hot breath as he looks into your eyes before closing them to kiss, You will want to smell is cologne as he places his kisses upon your neck. You smile as you know it is YOU that is making him WANT to feel and act this way - as he wants to have his hands feel sliding beneath your skirt or roam without reservation across your blouse. You want to hear him tell you what to do, how to do it, where to do it...without thinking.

You don't need experience if you are willing, as there is something deliciously sexy about that shyness and innocence of a novice ... but if you've read this twice then you must reply. I am a sensual dominant- straight, intelligent, attractive, I do take women of intelligence and sincerity will immediately capture my attention

..I am NOT seeking an encounter or a sub with benefits...what i am seeking is for ONE woman to capture that which is foremost................My Mind.

Can you?

I am seeking a submissive who will keep thinking about her Dom at inopportune moments, and getting wet.  So when your body is doing something mundane like shopping at the grocery store for a present for a long-unseen relative this holiday  and your’re standing waiting patiently in line, your mind is off on flights of fancy, thinking about your sensual Dom, and you, and that date we have planned. What I’d see from the woman who is bold enough to capture my mine here on CM is the following.

I’d see you rifle through your purse for your credit card, simultaneously grab your two shopping and still, Mentally, it’s a different story. In your mind, i’m standing in front of you, as you hold me in your arms, and you kiss me, and i kiss you back, and you can feel MY large, thick cock with its magnificent hard-on pushing into your thigh, and you can feel my grinding your hips against mine, and my hand in the small of your back pulling you closer than close and you feel my palm on your cheek as my lips explore your own and my breath on your cheek as our lips almost part and I whisper your name and your hand runs over my well-defined shoulder, and up my neck pulling your head closer to me and my hand gravitates from your cheek to your nipple and pinches it, eliciting a sigh and a wail of arousal from you and we kiss and our bodies make love through our clothes, each feeling the passion of the other, as we lean against the wall, knowing that there is so much more to come.

Amazing how erotic the mental images are that can be conjured up while standing in the line at the grocery.

Is there a submissive who can revel in this thought process here on Collar me?

Don’t you think?

In my cool nights the rain tapping on the window sill, when you are in the quiet place ..your thoughts go directly immediately to me. I can think as you can imagine your Master sleeping in bed sprawled out in his sheets. I know you can feel your nipples pressing against the soft fabric of your Pj’s significantly swelled and hard. Your fingers fall to your thighs and you caress them and draw your legs up toward you. Yet your huge bed is so empty I know you would love to wake and find me there in a rhythmic snore. I know you would softly wake me in a special way.

I can imagine your thinking again it is these silent moments when you cannot hear a thing in the house and your senses are focused on rain drops or the wind or the telltale mockingbirds outside gathering and singing for the beginning of the day that you feel alive. I know you can lose yourself in day dreams that feel real it is a gift.

At times, which you love it when it occurs you can summon up my scent. Distinctively manly musty. In that moment you lie still. Close your eyes and let it happen focus concentrate not allowing your scented bed linens to interfere. It only lasts but a second but for that second you have brought me to you. How is it this  Man who you have allowed to surrender to brings me you to delicious places and you experience such delights ......... it is simple It is love and there is no more powerful emotion in the world.

Love is one of the most wonderful gifts humanity has ever received and every human of every walk of life can feel it and have it. It doesn't distinct whether you are rich or poor the only distinction is .................. when you open your heart and let it in…will you allow ME to come in?

I wish to embark on a journey with ONE SUBMISSIVE WOMAN

I am that MAN who above all else he cherishes his submissive, in the knowledge that the gift she gives him is the greatest of all. He can be demanding at times and may take full advantage of the power given to him, but knows how to share the pleasure and show the respect that comes from that precious gift.

He is in control of himself first and foremost, so that he may guide his sub to new areas of arousal and pleasure. As a firm Dom, he can cause his sub to shed real tears, not from pain but wanting to please him because she is always pleased and taken care of by him.. As the consummate lover, he will then kiss the tears away, without ever stepping out of character. His goal is never to hurt but to be able to control their emotional situations.

In times of trouble, a Dominant will leave the roles behind, to be a supportive friend and partner, never forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between two caring individuals. He is quick to understand the differences between fantasy and reality. He would never ask a submissive to put him before her career, or family, just to satisfy his own pleasure. He is kind and wise.

To win the mind of his submissive, body and soul, he knows he must first win her trust and heart. He will show his submissive humor, kindness, and warmth. He must also show her that his guidance and tutoring is knowledgeable and deserving of her attention, that this is a man she can learn from, trust his direction and respect.

When it comes time to teach his submissive her lessons of obedience, he is a strong and unyielding professor. Never talking down to her but always being careful with not only what is said but how it is said and what effect that will have on her. And any discipline is always followed by forgiveness and love and then we move on.

He is a careful guide, with safety always his main concern. He knows how to use the "outskirts" of pain to extend the bounds of pleasure. He is a mentor who can bring her to the edges of her envelope, and gently show her the inner courage to reach new heights.

He is always open to communication and discussion, always ready to hear her wants and needs. He is patient, taking the time to learn her limits, and knowing that as her trust of him grows, so will they.

He never has to demand ritual behavior by her. She responds to him out the want of pleasing him. Compliance comes from the wanting to please, not the fear of punishment. He understands the fragile nature of mind and body, and never violates the trust given to him.

He is secure enough to laugh at himself and the absurdities of life. Open minded enough to learn new things and strong enough to grow. His tools are mind, body, spirit and soul with a little help from rope, paddle and blindfold. He understands that each partner gains most from pleasuring the other. And both of them know that love is the only binding that truly holds.

Do you want the training of a caring Master..........read my profile........heed that call to action and reply?

Devotion in the …Little Things

There is beauty in sensual surrender, of course. That beauty is found in small things, in big gestures, in rituals, in protocol, perhaps. Each of us finds beauty in different things. Be it in a soft kiss while you feel my hands caressing your hair tugging at your neck,  as i look in envy at you kneeling or seeing my 'love' marks on your skin.

The greatest beauty of all surely has to be in the invisible, in the devotion, for each other. Not just a sub’s devotion to their Dom, a slave’s devotion to their Master. But his devotion to them too. Their combined devotion to keeping their relationship, the relationship i am seeking which is a dynamic healthy, alive, beautiful one.

If I give you my hand to kiss, i choose to reach out, as you hold it,  it is symbolic of that devotion, symbolic of the dynamic that rules our lives. Never an empty gesture, never a show of force. No need to emasculate myself - as I know that I am the MAN.

And as you inhale, so do I. As you breathe, so do I. As you feel, so do I.

A show of devotion, a small demonstration of what we know in our hearts, illustrating what needs not be said but is felt in every breath we take. Yes, that breath too.

Yes there are people out there..even here or collar me who live D/s, and yer I know from experience that it *can* be ‘as beautiful as this’./..even MORE SO!!

I personally hope that I can find one who is looking have a chance at finding and living the beauty of D/s.....and allow me to find it IN HER/YOU!

In my thoughts submission is not about being used, submission is about being of use. Submission is not about what is done to you, submission is about what you do not for others but for the ONE ” “Strong men simply need women. This will never be understood by weak men. A strong man needs a woman to support and a submissive to surrender - to be knelt being happy that she is truly his. Anything else is less than his fulfillment.

To that woman who will choose my guidence

I will hold that woman's' submission she will have entrusted to me

safely guiding her into the world we have chosen

I will lead - not my volume - but my spirit

fostering that thirst for Sensual Dominance

and yes love that feeds your inner soul.

The chance to feel my sensual vulnerability, this release of the mind and body .... Don't misunderstand me: As a Dominant I will always love my sub – as much as  a Daddy adores his lil girl... the torture for as long as his heart desired – the ultimate aim for both is to be lusted and wanted.

I am, if a label must be placed upon me, a sensual confident yet romantic Man

My main hobby in life has been the study of people, body, mind, heart, soul, and spirit. People are of many different interests, likes, dislikes, looks, diversities, opinions, fears, mindedness (open - closed) and much much more. They all intrigue me. Care to come explore with me? or Just need someone to talk to? Want to be friends and see what happens from there? Need someone to just sit and listen and then sit and cuddle with you and watch a movie? Looking for someone to take control of you and Mentor you?

Need someone to take charge and introduce you Tantric sensuality? Well, if you answered yes to any of these questions or I have caught your interest in any way, take the time to READ my profile and then ...feel free to drop me a line.

To me in my mind domination is not being able to order a woman to kneel, domination is being able to recognize and release someone’s desire to kneel. A woman's submission is not blindly obeying orders, it’s obeying a desire to serve another’s needs and pleasure.

Hello...as i begin to ponder my inner musings...on collar me ...there is one distinction..in my mind ( again it is up to interpretation)

There is more to being a Dominant than wearing a title, carrying a flogger, giving orders or mooding the part. While all of the former might have a role to play in presenting oneself as a possible Dominant – of looking the part, so to speak – they have little to do with what actually defines a Dominant. This is something that by-and-large comes from within; like any skill, the basics can be learned, and yes even discussed here on CM and other BDSM sites....and the ability grown and nurtured through immersion in the scene and developed by spending time with those well-versed. But just like any other skill or ability, how well one succeeds comes down to how willing and receptive one is to learning or being taught – to me it is about being MENTORED and how well one’s talent and temperament are suited to taking on a Dominant yet very romantic and sensual role.

Within the 'title' Dominant it is doubly easy to slap on a title and swagger around a bondage or role-play or as some seem to revel in barking orders, trying to subdue submissives and impress others – but even in the most uncomplicated of scenarios, there is no substitute for understanding the nuances of domination and exhibiting the traits that define a “good” and LOVING Dominant.

So, what are the characteristics that make up a “good and LOVING” Dominant? What should someone unfamiliar with his inner desires and who wishes to move beyond “simple” role-play look for in others or seek to aspire?

Well – simply put, a good and loving Dominant is someone( like myself) who possesses the very qualities he would ascribe to a “good person”: kindness, consideration, politeness, empathy, sympathy. A good Man, like a “good person” has a strong sense of ethics and honesty and is respectful of others regardless of their position in life.

It is these qualities, more than anything else, that define a person’s character and personality, and are the essential skills that determine how good a person is liable to be in anything – be it their career, their home life – or “being” a Dominant.

As I mentioned, to me that art of domination is very much a skill, and I do tend to show a willingness to learn, to grow and to understand the responses of my submissive; they are on a journey as much as any woman can be said to be on a journey. They do feel this deep desire to serve within....They have taken the time and effort to learn and grow; and there is no reason why they should be any different;to me as not just as a man BUT also as that Loving Mentor - i offer the  foundations of trust and communication – and at the end of the day( so to speak) a good and Loving Dominant is someone who can instil the former and actively encourages the latter deeply within his submissive.

Food for thought.

Requirements of you

Take my hand when my eyes weep.
Hold me gently in your arms.
  feel me as i caress your hair as you sleep.
Dazzle me with all your surrender.

Provide me time and space.
Listen closely when I speak.
Secure in your life my place.

Cherish our time together.
Dread any time we're apart.
Mean when you say that you will be my 

submissive forever.
Let my absence gnaw your heart as you desire my firm touch.

And let all my joys be yours.
Let my sorrows be as well.
And share your inner sensual desire for your Master.
Mind your ego, lest it swell.

Let us walk our time in peace.
With a kiss for every night,
Let our passions never cease.

But above all these my dove,
Swear always that you'll be true.
For's not you I ask these of - as your Master
They're my promises to you.

Have you ever seen your man dress
The way he looks - smells - acts
It's the energy so true and strong 
Its like your Master else knows how you feel
Someone that has been there, someone that is real
He loves it when your Breath quickens that make him feel this way
It's like he knows, like he has seen into your day
He shows a part of himself for the world to see
Just as I do when I write journals like this
Have you ever listened to a song
It's words so true and strong
Like someone else knows how you feel
Someone that has been there, someone that is real
A master that YOU can cling to - want, feel, desire.

You see me sitting in my chair reading. You know I don’t like being disturbed when i am reading reading, but you can’t help it. you have had such a terrible day. I see you as you drop to your knees in front of me. You see me as you look up at me and give you slight a nod of approval. With that, I see you climb onto my lap and into your Daddy’s loving embrace.  In Truth, this is the safest place in the world and i don’t ever want you to leave. As you see me continue reading, i smile as i hear you sigh as my pet can can feel her bad day melting away.

As you can feel my fingers against your flesh, my lips, my tongue, my breath….as you can feel your body comes to life with every sensation given from me.  Your breath hitched.  I can feel your heart race.  Your back arches, shoulders back as your hips undulate, pushing towards me, aching for more…..You know that i do own every inch of your body, every dark, naughty corner of your mind, and every fiber of your soul…You know that I have once made it clear that your submission was MY desire but it was up to YOU to offer it and request my dominance over you Pet...  Yes, it’s a gift YOU offer me, but it surely is MY dominance is always a welcome gift and your most prized reward.

I am seeking a submissive female who enjoys both the mental and physical aspects of Dominance and submission. While I do enjoy D/s, it is a pleasure but not a lifestyle for me. . . ..who wants a Master who shares her D/s interests as well as her vanilla interests and she shares mine. Perhaps the best way to express it is to say a D/s core in a very well-rounded relationship based on trust, love and sexual power exchange. I am not just looking for a play partner, casual sex or one-night stands. I am not looking for a sub for total slavery, but a relationship that balances her submission to her Master with a level of equal partnership in making life's decisions. I want that woman in due time to please and serve a Master who is patient and firm, controlling and we shall treat each other with great affection and care. For me, the physical and emotional aspects of D/s are intertwined. I truly love the power exchange with my sub in which she is allowed to submit her sexual power to her Master in return for feeling protected, cherished and cared for. I love the level of security and comfort that is exchanged in a trusting, communicative D/s relationship. Physically, I love to have her/you bound--helpless to resist, safe in Master's bonds, serene in your submission. Although I am not really into age play, IF there is a lot of the "little girl" in you who loves to be taken over your Master's knee and spanked. If have an essential need to please your Master in a number of ways--in service to him, in taking care of him, and to him sexually. . .That is simply WONDERFUL. . ..I am here. . . If you care to chat

Its funny that sometimes submissives ask how they can help their dominant (especially their *new* dominant) become more comfortable in her dominance.

Come here, and I will let you in on a secret…as a sensual dominant male seeking for himself

Ssshhhh…

Ready?

Here it is:

Seriously. Do that.

I know it sounds as if I am being cute or something, but I’m not.

Do you want to know what I probably needed most from a past submissive when I was finding my feet?

• A safe space in which to assert myself.
• To be certain that when I ask for something,s he will comply.
• To be confident that she is eager and willing to do it.
• For her to demonstrate that he thinks that I am that romantic for asking things of her( non sexually).
• To know that even if she *isn’t* eager, and doesn’t enjoy doing it that she is *still willing to do it for me anyway...to make me happy*.
• To feel that she is made happy by giving me what I want, even when it’s difficult.
• To have acknowledgement that my dominance is valuable to her.
• For the exchange to feel like sweetness and affection.

Do you know what I probably need most from my submissive now that I have found my feet? STILL ALL OF THE ABOVE.

In short, I need her to submit to me in a way that works for me.

So do some work to learn what your dominant needs to feel from you in terms of your submission, and give him that.

As for me I am still on my quest........

Intelligence..... The greatest aphrodisiac..How exciting it is to engage with a submissive woman, who stands out,who considers herself knowledgeable and keep a conversation going on any subject. I am that Dominant who can easily show affection with actions and words..who values self reflection...Wanting someone who is able to give some of their time and attention to the pleasure of physical and emotional connection.

Its funny how even on sites like here Alt and others

submissive women - still do not fully understand the sensuality of the DS Dynamic.

I yes - answered a profile with a well thought out reply...non sexual in content.

and this is what i received( the poster - is anonymous - out of privacy)

 Thank you for your lovely note. I'm of the belief that we are not well suited for each other. Your approach is too romantic, too sweet for me.

Really???

To me being a sensual Dominant man...the DS dynamic doesn't have to be super kinky, or extreme, or out there....to me in encapsulates EROTIC ROMANCE.

To to me i ask..... There aren't any dominant/submissive aspects in the romance...I say they're are!

I miss a WOMAN who herself is one that ...misses the super hot, sexy erotic romance, where the focus was on the DS dynamic and the steamy fantasies to make REAL...and to build on that friendship/relationship, instead of how “out there” and “kinky” the Dom could be? Or do you think the kinkier the better?

Call me ole'school...but I am that dominant who is wanting a woman who will allow herself to be swept away by MY charm, MY confidence, and the control which she so desperately seeks to surrender.

That woman also just so happends to be SUBMISSIVE in mind - spirit - body.

If you reside in the NYC- North Jersey i do welcome commentary..........

just when  you knew you were NOT looking.....yet you found me....

the man You have been searching for your whole life

the man you will love forever

you will be his

and yet how do you begin to describe??

he is everything you could ever hope for....

passionate

loving

caring

understanding

intellectual

assertive

patient

sexy

romantic

yet you know you will understand....

he will love you for who you are WITHIN

and understands your heart

and will not squash your most secret desires

the emails he will send...they are so full of passion ....for life....love...

for that woman that lil girl within....

to be that fantasy fulfilled.....he could just take you away forever....

he's  IS THE ONE!!

when we're together,  you feel so connected...safe...and protected

he makes you feel loved and appreciated....

and treats you as if you were the last woman on earth....

his princess...

and in time you will you choose him above all others

to be your Dominant.... your lover..... your very closest friend and confidant...

your Daddy..... your partner..... your soul mate

in time you will love him.....

every part of you aching

for his gentle touch

for his love

to be adrift at sea

alone together

where time stands still

where there is nothing left to prove

and nothing else matters

but the two of us

lingering in ecstasy

in truth …what we will have…there is no need for words....

Not the traditional collar will bind you to me in trust and in love, yet it need not be metal, for metal is only the decoration...it will me MENTAL...that inner surrender that i will place upon you to show that you DO belong all to me.

You will see as your eyes close the sensation of that MENTAL collar on you with MY mind and it will hold you to ME, fascinate you and bring you to your knees. i do not need a collar round your throat for this.

You feel me draw MY collar on you with MY love and it will bind Your heart to me for all eternity in a way no piece of leather ever could.

You feel me draw MY collar on you with trust, and by earning mine amd submitting to me That will open the way for you to give all that you are, things leather could never match.

You feel me draw that MENTAL collar on you with Your body in a way that will mark you as forever mine, with a passion that cannot be compared, that would melt the hardest steel.

To show you, like history an ANKLET

For when I place that  about your ankle for all to see

that you give you all that you are.  As you open up your soul and let ME come inside. For You will become a part of me and all that i will  be the most intense Master/Daddy/Dom can ever be.

To show an outward SIGN of an INWARD commitment

There are things that I crave in you 
The things that you crave

fragments of bliss that i bring out in you 
I remember how you came to me 

so open

so shy

yet 
subtle and delicious 
i loved your touch tenuous and exciting
sweet supple girl

now blossomed into a submissive woman
I live in you...
tortured and greedy
Yet your fullness is comforting
Your emptiness implores

my inner desires 
trust my diction fails but my actions delivers...
Your surrender is do forthcoming...
but I do...

I do welcome you

and suddenly I know she will be made whole again.

To me ...My true passion is being as deep inside a woman’s mind as I am inside her body.

You seek on Cm yet I am here….
You do not need to hide underneath a false shell of what is said by society to be acceptable…for a woman

I can feel you calling for me…
Timid and afraid, you hide within the shadows.
Willing you to find me…as that Man you have sought

Find me and allow me to bring you out of yourself and into the Light…
Let me show you that beauty is NOT based on opinions of what average people think is acceptable…. But rather, beauty IS acceptance of what YOU ARE….OPEN MY mind...seek me out.

Open this gift....

Being In manhattan with no power...and helping those who have LOST EVERYTHING

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The meaning of life is precious

Its funny how the true meaning of what friendship really is.

So being Dom/sub really does not matter – what matters is how WE show love and help

To those who have not.

So like me…give to the RED CROSS – SANDY FUND

10bucks does not seem a lot…but it IS a lot to those who have NOTHING.

Do you like that, my baby girl …. Me slipping down between your thighs … licking that naughty wet louts …feasting as what is my property.. My chin grazing those soft tender lips … My teeth grazing and gnawing at that helpless hard lil flower … My tongue probing ever so softly and with inner hunger … poking ...savoring… licking the inner walls …. laying there nursing at your breast… exposing them licking them …. pinching those hard nipples … gasping out of control as I slowly slid down your body …  now weak little ripples of pleasure have you losing control … yes my love orgasm...orgasm all that nectar deep into my mouth...let me drink and savor every drop..while your hands are tied with a silk black scarf above you... show Me your love....show me what is mine to have...own..possess...and love….. yes, yes, yes, …… yessssssssss

My Sub SIMPLY …. helpless to resist… My voice.. My kiss … My rugged yet firm hands on your body… My desire to get into your Mind… My strength to control your Body … My will to conform your spirit …  My ability to make you …. MINE to Cherish Admire and OWN

 An exchange of Power

the dynamic of it

The raw energy that it holds deep within

Not sexual

Rather

Emotional...

the Hunger to feed...to please...to know that YOU are loved because of what you do to

please my mind FIRST

As you surrender to my touch

Thinking of my deep voice

My firm caress

As you have my permission....you partake and enjoy

As you read my prose and masturbate - to my words- Enjoy my love

dedicate your nectar to me.

Is there anything more comforting than a firm grip and the word “Princess you are Mine” whispered in your ear? Is there anything you yearn for more than this simple touch my baby? Then you know, you are mine, body and soul.

To be BOUND by Sensual Surrender ....Is when I as the Master

Respect and admire the woman, lust after the inner slut and cherish the little girl deep within. Then i will have her mind to mold, the body to sculpt in submission and the soul to savor.

To me a Submissive is told
To display her submission
To show of her heart
And offer what she is
So she can be known
And wanted
For all what is in her mind, soul and yes body
So precious
And vulnerable
The only treasure she owns
Her dedication to me

not just what she can offer as service.

But what she can offer is the desires of her HEART

for me as her MAN ..not just her daddy can and will

FULFILL.

VM

Well?”

As of now my pet, there are no games.  We are ourselves, and this is what we desire.

As of now there are no secrets. You know my name, I know yours, and titles can only dilute what we will share.

As of now there is just one demand. You will simply give me what you want, what i crave,  and in return give you what you need. I will drink in your body's desire and feed it with my will.

As of now, there are no bindings. No chains hold you here. No cuffs keep you in position. You will stay there because you want to stay there.

I want to see your hunger given wings. When your inner thighs are covered with marks, and the crop rests upon your stomach, still slick with your sweat, I want to see you still erect, still craving my energy.

I want to hear you orgasm to rapture itself. I want to hear you screaming in pure pleasure, taking in the pain because you want it and not simply because I wish to give it.

I want to taste your passion on the very air. I want your yearning to overtake your body and fill the entire room.

I want to smell your thirst as it overpowers you. I want it given a life of its own, so that each attempt to sate it only feeds the frenzy.

I want to feel your hands, fevered with longing, on my body. I want to feel your devotion pouring out through even your fingertips as you worship my tool for all its glory.

I need to take you to the place where pain and pleasure melt into each other, leaving only sensation.

I need to use you, to give you more than you thought you could handle and watch you wanting only more to have me fulfilled

I need to know you want me as badly as I want you; that our need is so evenly matched as to be not only twinned, but one drive in two bodies.

To realize that YOU NEED ME. Now. Right where we are.

Your flesh against His, as you rest your head on His chest
Cloud filtered moonlight dimly lighting the room
Drizzling drops of rain
Continually tapping against the window
A perfect accompaniment to the beating of your Masters` heart.
Your musical lullaby, your retreat and source of calm
As you watch the shadows of
each hair against His skin
Starting out separate, the merging one into the other
Eventually becoming one
You envy the process of him choosing you ..His Pet
As you call him My Daddy
Something so simple, yet powerful in meaning
Two separate entities that become a whole
Almost instantaneously without forethought
you find myself wishing for that ability
To become part of Him..my Master...my Daddy
To melt, connect and be absorbed by Him
To become part of His soul
Tears fill your eyes at the very thought
Lying beside Him is never enough
You ache to be inside Him as He is inside you
Yet you wonder if even that, could ever be close enough as two
That of becoming one.
Yes my pet...yes !

To a loving submissive the arms of her Dom should be the safest and warmest place imaginable. For all that she gives, she desrves nothing less.

In my thoughts the case of a Dom male and submissive female, the relationship is often interpreted as sexist and/or anti-feminist; portraying women as objects to be subverted. On the contrary, To me a sexually submissive women who choose this path of different loving  are some of the strongest-willed and intelligent women to be found anywhere( from the boardroom to the bedroom). Ironically, a submissive in a consensual relationship shares much of the actual power because she only gives what she wants to her Man which is often quite a lot, but nothing more. And her Man does not take anything that is not willingly and freely given, though the sub may not be aware she was capable of giving so much until it actually occurs. To me as i train limits are set and respected, but boundaries are tested and at times expanded. It is a complex, empathic and beautiful dance between a Dom and a sub; in this instance, a man and a woman.....daddy to lil girl lover to soul mate - artist to muse.
To me in my eyes a good and successful Dom, in my opinion, is one who is highly intuitive in sensing the needs and feelings of others and has a very highly developed sense of empathy and strong communications skills.

To me a loving D/s relationship from courtship to commitment will hopefully entertain, educate, titillate, and perhaps even welcome a newbie i will train to the power, beauty, and at times darkness of the Loving D/s relationship.
That is what i want in a sub...

I want to have that submissive's heart for a life time
 As mine old you close to my heart,
Stop the hands of time
Make the world give us a little more time

To feel our bodies close swaying together
To the inner desire our minds can only hear,
Letting it sweep us into this Heaven Come my pet,
dance with me there

We'll dance forever;
never let go Hearts in tune hand to hand,
Building love between us
That we barely can stand

Candles low no bright lights
Our love will light the way,
Come hold me close as you kneel before;
dance with me

Til the night breaks to day
Feel our bodies pressed close
As close as skin to skin,
Open your heart to me baby
Allow yourself to surrender not just your body
but YOUR MIND

Come on, let me in
  Allow me to fill your senses with my rush
Let you taste my deep kiss, My rugged hands
My sting, lasting from pink to red
Hold me tightly to your heart as that Master you desire to have OWN

Never have you felt like this
Never will you feel it again

Dance with me little one
Until the night is done
Dance with me until the world is done
  You can't resist my charms,

Dance with me and hold me close
as i extend my hand to lift your chin
as you look up to me in Homage
Let me live within your mind, soul, heart
Don't ever let any other Dom take that place
Dancing with you in this inner bondage is so right,

I will never let you go as my Own -
as I Own you - freely show you off...
Come....dance with me my pet....make yourself Mine

Submission........Or to me INNER SURRENDER

How does this start? It begins with communication and your willingness to be open about your desires. Nothing happens physically until there is a basic understanding on each persons part.
When you look at yourself do you see a woman in need of control? Do you wish you could just have a strong man of mind and soul? Are you lost? The inner you, the dark you, the you that you only see in the reflection of the mirror of your dreams. I want you to think about this next question and be deeply deeply honest with yourself. Do you need a Dominant man in your life? Do you feel deep down something missing in your life.......that inner desire not just to please but to SEEK that pleasure that YOU HAVE PLEASED - NON SEXUALLY?
Think deeply about the inner you, the you that you may be hiding. I want you to look deeply inside yourself and decide what you really are? What you really are? Yes society may frown upon women surrendering to men to this degree on here, but if it your true nature can you do anything but accept who you really are? We all have our roles in life be they at work or in private. Real life is in no way easy so why pretend to be what your not? The Society we live in tends to force us to hide our true natures from others, our true selves even from our selves. Do you walk the path to submission or just walk your life in blindness to whom you truly are inside? Does the thought of someone in your life with authority over you interest you? Deep down do you crave to give up control? Are you feeling that you need someone to take charge, to have you obey? Is it who and what you are? If you answer yes message me. Explore your true nature with me if you dare. Yes this is a real thought in journal form... from a real Dominant and yer very sensual man. Before you reply think about what you feel and really need. Again only reply if you serious and not into playing mind games. D/s is an exploration of self, do not fear your true self. So not fear to explore. The more you fear the more you fail yourself.

I welcome comments....

I want a submssive, a lover, a best friend, and a companion... with a very intense and private sex life. Perhaps you want to create a friendship with someone who you can talk to as an adult, someone who will listen to your inner desires and not judge....maybe you like the idea of having a daddy figure around, or maybe you just like a man  who will nurture that inner YOU. I can promise you intelligence, fun, maturity and personality...Who can and will be willing to SURRENDER her all to one man.......................is this you?

I thought it was dominant passion that ignited my soul. But I've come to realize that passion is too driven, too urgently determined to get what it wants ... filled with expectations and the resentment that ultimately comes in them not being met. It's a set up for everyone. The word comes from the Latin, you know, meaning suffering. No thanks. Not interested in that. I'll pass on the all-exciting DS infatuation too. It looks great from the outset, but real life and real people can never live up to all those fantasies nor sustain the online allure.

But rapture when a submissive has the RIGHT DOM... now that's a different story -- it's defined as joyful ecstasy or delight. 

If that's got your attention and maybe I have your open mind, too.

I'm seeking a woman of deep inquiry, sweet tenderness and a wise, playful spirit reaching out for sensual Dom to MENTOR along this journey of servitude. I'm looking for partnership that invites us to be present, awake, engaged and committed. Intimacy based on kindness, integrity and sweet rapture in subspace orchestrated by myself.!

If you are so moved, please respond and share something about who you are and what you're looking for.

My profile will tell you more

MP

I am on CM to find pleasure, joy, and fulfillment from a woman being MY submissive
to me as her Master in a loving relationship.
i am not seeking one weak or stupid. i am seeking a strong woman,
with firm views and a clear concept of what she wants out of life.
  The woman who will seek me out does not serve out of shame or weakness, but out of pride and strength.
  She will look to her loving Master for guidance and protection, for never
will she be more complete than when she is with me.
i know that I will protect her body, mind, and her soul
with MY strength and wisdom.
  She will be everything to me, as i am everything to Her.
  My touch will awaken her and My thoughts free her.
Only in serving will she find complete freedom and joy…
  My punishments may be harsh, but she will accept them thankfully,
knowing that I will have her best interests always foremost in MY mind.

If I desire her body for pleasure, she shall joyfully give it to me
and take pleasure myself from knowing that she has brought me happiness.
However, the pleasure of the flesh is but one facet of O/our relationship.
The love, the trust and sharing, the words spoken and felt,
those are all parts of this relationship.

My Creedo is this unlike most Dom's on Collar me

  Her body is mine, and if I say she is beautiful, then she is ...in my eyes.
No matter what she may look like to others, My sub IS beautiful in MY eyes,
and because of that she will hold her head high.
If I say she is a precious jewel,
then she is that…a beautiful, sparkling gem.

To be admired - Treasured- Loved.

Is there one to SEEK ME OUT?