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	About PowerfulPADom I am a control-oriented, semi-retired Dominant who travels to consult for large financial firms. I love to travel (I've been to 26 countries on 6 continents and 45 of the US states) and enjoy the arts (play piano, sax, clarinet and guitar). My telecommuting to work allows relocating for the right person. I have tried most of what BDSM has to offer, but enjoy control, humiliation and intense sensuality the most. I can make you cum from pain but making you obey and serve satisfies me the most. I am comfortable in the vanilla world: BDSM is the spice of life to me. Ideally, regardless of our vanilla life, you will feel owned by me. With the right person, my stamina would embarrass a porn star. I work out daily, am in good shape, and need someone that can at least remotely keep up. I am also great at mentoring. I have an innate desire to help people whose lives need order and control. Most of my friends and acquaitances are under are under 25. Lastly, I am an avid gamer: I've played board games, and have loved role-playing. I am culturally Jewish. I travel a lot and have free traveling from one of my clients between VA, DC, Philadelphia, NYC and Boston - making it easy for me to spend time with you. I sometimes fly across the U.S. to simply spend time with friends gaming. Writing to me: I am interested a real submissive looking for a real dominant - not a penpal, not a fantasy novel and certainly not a Nigerian scammer. Write good, individualized emails.

Wow! The last 3 attractive women I have written to were all spammers! I suppose CollarMe is dead!

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

So my submissive friend writes:

I was so glad to see you finally yawn - "I thought you were always the Energizer Bunny."

Damn 2 hour movie sapping my energy ;)

I got my first "I'm an obvious scammer and emailing you cautiously due to scams" emill on collarme!

Whew....nothing quite like losing a few million to make you appreciate a well-earned vacation...

I was pondering CollarMe in the context of a newspaper feature on the editing of "Wikipedia". Have you ever noticed how quick people are to rant here: men about "fat chicks", women about "horny net geeks", etc? An interesting item from the story that probably should be applied on CollarMe is that not much gets accomplished or resolved when people talk in rhetoric, emotion, etc. The editors of Wikipedia can spend YEARS with a piece locked from editing because people become entrenched in their feelings, frustrations, etc. On CollarMe, the corralary is that people love to dwell on generalziations (I am guilty of this too, btw) - but let's all try to exhibit more thought and perspective in what we say!

In a moment of weakness, I allowed Ms Right Now, so for my young submissive friends here is a treat... This posting happened Friday. I may edit it when I have time. If you have any doubts, I'll see if Ms Right Now can share next Friday demonstrating this with you, in person, at a hotel.

I mean the hotel bar, of course! ;)

Party Girl called to apologize for not getting me on the guest list the previous Saturday, July 4th. I always enjoy hearing from Party Girl: 22, Asian, 85 pounds and parties like a rock star. The last time we met I abducted her off the street, bound her, and used her in a parking lot. We never get to coffee - just the cream - so I always like to kid her about owing her a drink.

I took a room and Party Girl called about where and when to meet up. I had her ask for me at the front desk, knowing she felt like a whore asking. She came up, I had her close her eyes, and handcuffed her in the hall. This was better than the abduction, since there were people 30 feet away.

"No, no, she's just getting a surprise." I love blindfolds, covering her eyes so she couldn't see.

I carried her inside and shook off her clothes. That's an advantage of 85 pounds: you can shake and shake until the clothes come off. I knew she loved to be spanked, so I gave her a little tease: spanking, 2 floggers, and a hairbrush before I got serious: nipple clamps, anal beads, a vibrator, a whip, and lots and lots of lube

Let's add some more later...if people want to see...this will be a long story.

And 85 pounds is not normal for a submissive....it also posed problems for the handcuffs, which I will share later if people care to learn more.

Tired! July 4th was shouting and dancing and eating and screaming and jumping up and down - and we need to do it all over again on the Jul 6th! ;)

I took a ride in my colleagues Lotus today. It's sportier than my other colleague's BMW. I really need a new toy!

LoL One dorm at one college must account for 1/4 of the PA submissives on this site!

LoL. I've been told that some of my ideas are too important to national security. Just great.

Rats! I had 7 free flights on AirTrans, and ATA went bankrupt yesterday! Grrrr

Wait! Send cash instead of viewing my page! Or at least write!

I'm surprised at all my page views...especially when I am just hanging out.

Looking forward to a road trip soon...anyone game? ND, SD, MI, WI, MO would leave me with Alaska and New Mexico!

Laugh...it has been brought to my attention that people wanting to meet should PUSH for meeting....I tend to be very busy and reluctant to meet people after meeting so many "Ms Wrongs." LoL

I've realized now that my true calling was as a tour guide...maybe that should be my next series of books. I've realized that I've shown people from as far away as Bangkok the City of Philadelphia.

YEAAAAAAA! One of my (many) alma maters won!

I wonder if I can get a flight to the NCAA tournement next weekend? Probably not one of my freq flyer flights...but anyone want to watch Temple?

I'm starting to think that my lady friends on here are married and not saying so...interesting...

Have you watched "The Simpsons" movie:

Oooooooh! Why does everything I whip leave me????

Laugh... it's been a long time since I've seen a real pain-slut!

How dumb can people be?

So someone was telling me about being assaulted by a Dom in MD - in the DC area. A near-penniless abussive Dom.

So of course now a 19yo is helpnig him pay rent - and appearing at his latest felony trial in MD. Dumb. Dumb. Dumb.

hmmmm....my conversation now includes a new word: semi-hottie. Laugh

Choices, choices, choices. I was planning to take off most of 2008, then a client wanted to throw a lot of money at me making it look like I'd be flying to Canada every week. Now the client has problems and a few other things are going wrong, so less travel. Where should I head for fun now!?!?!?

A landmark! I'm pretty sure we've reached the point where over HALF of the profiles on the system are scammers! Yipeeee! ;)

An ode for HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!

It's been my pleasure to chat
Thinking this cold wintry day that
While violets blue and roses red
Nothing beats whips and good head

Be well!

Laugh....my life has entered a new phase of seeming constant mentoring. It's hillarious - my BANK MANAGER is asking ME for financial advice.

Heading to SLC later this weekend...work calls. A little late to enjoy their party, but am planning to teach a Domme a few things.

Imminent Judgement Day! Remarkable World Record! Global Warming Ends!

I've realized that I've lately found genuine, long, thought-provoking letters from submissives! I am told that, as a result, global warming has ended, Jesus has declared victory, and ice has begun to form in Hades.

Sarcasm note: if you are offended by the religious comment here, you really need to re-read the word "sarcasm"! ;)

LoL I didn't get the chance to cancel my laptop order - so now I have 4 laptops!

I'm in Utah intermitently on business. Wow! What a pretty place - but the people are all blonde-haired and blue-eyed. Some of my clients have more than a dozen kids!

Too funny: been trying to track down my (client's) business laptop; hours after I buy a new laptop they tell me: you have to use our laptop.

Last night was remarkable! I've been on my broker's list of high-net-worth clients for years and went to a sales pitch last night: at The Pyramid Club. 52nd floor downtown.

I think I was the youngest person there, although - amazingly - I ran into someone a year older than me from my high school. He's now an executive VP of a Fortune 100 firm. Small world!

New laptop...yum! Will it get here before my trip!

I'll be posting Halloween pictures on my blog.

LoL....this is a quote from an email from an old client that is re-hiring me - a good description of my level of driven:

"...asked me to make you promise to make no more calls from the gurney heading into surgery! ;-0"

Does anyone know a way to associate a picture with a journal entry?

About 70% of my friends are 18-25, some are going out trick-or-treating tomorrow night and I want to post some costumes.

You should have seen the knife in mine!

This weekend I visited Baltimore, Rockville, DC and Bethesda. An interesting facet of the trip was the Takoma Park Street Festival. Nice festival - better than Rockville's Octobefest.

People call Takoma Park the Berkeley of the east... Yea...just like Waco Junior College is "The Harvard of I35 between Ft Worth and Austin".

LoL

A new scam on the site: webcam slaves!

Went to a lifestyle meeting tonight in the Philly area: can anyone recommend groups? I've been to meetings in GSO, RDU, DC, Dayton, SA, Richmond, and ... and... I want those hours of my life back!

Rats! If you had asked for my pictures of Half Dome, I accidentally sent out the one on my desktop which I am NOT in...feel free to ask for the ones with me IN them. LoL

The bears must have moved the mouse!

A blog post from 2 months ago....just a favorite of mine on 360...

You know you travel too much...
I've been trying to update my account lately - and have ran out of places to list where I live on the 360 form! My San Antonio apartment is "ok" - it does have a jacuzzi, but could be nicer...

Last night I went to First Friday. I've been to these events in so many cities that I can now compare them. Too often. Laugh... I have been to places in Brazil that the Brazilian vendor selling Brazilian art never had been to!

Alcatraz from the Wave Organ

The wave organ is an art piece that buried pipes in the water of the San Francisco Bay. Listening to the pipes, the ocean sounds caress your ears. From this vantage point you can see Alcatraz in the distance

The blog system here isn't that good since you can't add pics: for pics see my 360 entries.

Hmmm...it accepted the pasting - let's try pics!

Incidentally, anyone going to the Fremont? Good times!

Here are recent entries:

Wine tastings in Livermore and Pleasanton Heritage Days

Sunday was nice. I visited several vineyards on the way back in Livermore as well as Pleasanton's Heritage Festival. I'm thinking of buying some property in Sacramento now!

Half Dome at Yosemite - 10,000 or so feet up

(Picture omited for the benefit of my client)

This weekend was my last weekend in CA for the immediate future of my client. With a flight Sunday, I opted to climb Half Dome - one of the great peaks in the US that can be done without mountain climbing dear. With the freak storm, part of Yosemite had 18" of snow - so my trip had rain, hail and snow!

The funny thing was that I was trying to fast (i.e., not eat) for spiritual reasons. After 6 miles of backpacking my heart was pounding, my legs like lead weights, and I was hallucinating. People passed by and gave me "Power Bars". So I'm posting some pictures of the trip.

Note that at times the background is pure white - from being IN and ABOVE the clouds (at about 2 miles up!)

I've been in the hospital for a bit over a week, hence not on the system.

Much has happened recently, so this will be a fairly long post to describe a few exciting things. Last week I went to Las Vegas to visit a childhood friend, a slave, to meet some lifestyle people, to enjoy gambling and to see the Grand Canyon. On gambling, Las Vegas sure has changed since I had last been (10 years ago.) The gambling advertisement have been replaced by show advertisements and sex advertisements. Advice in The Philadelphia Inquirer seemed nearly dead wrong - it was quite difficult to find anything approximating "deals." But signifciant research on The Strip led to some interesting times. The show at The Rio was amazing, and nearly worth dropping about 1K at blackjack. The show at The House of Blues would could have been missed. I tried craps for the first time - what a rush! On the BDSM community, I enjoyed my time with Slave Robbie and Sir Carl. Slave Robbie looked so pretty with the violet wand marks up and down her butt. I have been involved in BDSM for 10+ years, never had used a violet wand, and now really must get one. I like the near surgical precision afforded by the instrument. The Grand Canyon was nice, but the "touristy" level presented by the Indian tribe was pretty aggravating, maybe even insulting. I have to say driving thru Joshua Tree National Forest with slave as chauffeur was the highlight. Having a convertible for the desert trip didn't hurt either!

A few interesting discussions have happened lately that should be illuminating to most readers... People often ask me why I am not married, why I haven't taken a permanent submissive, why I don't train people more often, etc. Then, in talking with a smart kinkster from abroad, we discuss how Americans are so casual with their relationships. An intricacy of my personality is that I will chat forever to know someone: it can be hard to keep passion and sponteneity under control, so it's important to understand people's history. As my kinky friend pointed out, people in America are generally "unsafe". We talk about safe words, safe sex, etc., but I think I have met one person as safe and cautious as mywself (in 20+ years of dating). Why is this important? I recognize that we all enjoy intense, passionate, mind-blowing play. But I don't play with people after days of conversation (whih seems VERY common here) and play safe, sane and consensually - not just talk about it.

How can anything excite me more than: I am not worthy of you Master. The joy this brings to my heart...

Since people have started to ask, it's not so much that I am not on the site, but rather that I am not spending as much time with people from here after a very, very, very bad experience that is causing me more than a little grief.

I've had a few requests to expand more on my interests, life, fantasies, etc. so here are some tastes.

First, I've had a remarkably diverse life and - properly motivated - I can spend and enjoy my time with anyone.? My acquaintances have included politicians, CEO's - and murderers and prostitutes.? So I often ask about what interests OTHER people the most, since my interests are very varied.

What makes me tick?? Intelligence.? Bright people tend to think I am very, very funny and others often wonder (a) what planet I'm from or (b) if I'm gay.? You don't have to be brilliant, but if you can't understand my explanation of something you need to learn a new skill - READING.

My biggest flaw is probably patience.? Properly motivated I have the patience of a saint.? Othertimes, I am milliseconds away from eploding.? Similarly, first dates are a particular difficulty for me.? Many first dates orgasm from my mental stimulation and deliberate, sadistic play - while clothed and in public.? And cum a lot.? So it's easy for my dates to go "too far" (for my own enjoyment) or "not far enough" (to make my date cum times #6, 7, 8...)

So what's going on lately with me?? I'm spending weekends in Philly and my weeks in Baltimore/DC.? I may get a place in York PA and may resume travelling more, but I travel a LOT already.? I've been going to a lot of concerts, gaming (D&D) often, and getting better at kareoke.? I seem to go out to eat EVERY night....so I always enjoy a good, slave-cooked meal ;)

Now THIS is FUNNY!

Having been in the lifestyle for 10+ years, I've been involved with a number of BDSM groups..? So here I am at my hotel on business, in the lobby, using the Intenet, when all of a sudden it hits me... Baltimore Education (something)? Society....voluptuous women ... scraggly beards.... OH....THAT BESS!

Now hear this. Now hear this. I do not LIVE on CollarMe and have more to do than Instant Messaging. Really now: businesses spend a LOT fopr my executive advice. If we haven't met, realize that I have to treat you with a lower priorirty than my work. Sheeesh!

As a? significant update,? I am no longer flying to "work" each week (my client cut the scope of the project), so my travel will be more limited.? I have a trip to FL planned for the first week in November, to DC the second week, and to Beijing (China) the third week (if my visa comes in time).

Ya know, if people only didn't bruise so easily... or orgasm so easily when they bruise....

Please note that I am straight, and generally do not take on single, submissive men.

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