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| Note : if you have a snotty little attitude toward people, you will be blocked. People who lack a sense of humor need not waste my time!
Polygamy is something I've always believed enhances life, since there is more sharing and support to go around.
I am interested in finding a male human being who is over the age of 21 for friendship and possibly more. This person should have self respect, the ability to communicate efficiently, and the drive to succeed in life. Someone who is goal oriented is a plus, but he must also be able to go with the flow and understand that life isn't always straight black and white lines.
My preferred age is over 21 and under 50, but I will consider an individual based on just that - who you are, and not just the number. There are 18 year olds who are capable of many things 40 year olds are not, but even I know that's the exception and not the rule! I've also known a few 50+ people who were able to show me things I would have never known were there, and who were able to do things I still can't do despite my best efforts!
Ideally the person I find will be physically fit, into outdoor adventures, and always have his eyes open for the next fun thing to do. I do not mean you have to have a six pack, but if you're unable to walk a few miles without taking a 10 minute break, I'm not interested. It's not uncommon for us to pack up and foot hike 20+ miles in a day.
I am not looking for a specific orientation. You can be dominant, submissive, switch, unknown, and even highly confused. The best part about all of this is that I care about who you are, and not what the label calls you. Everything else can be worked out.
Couples that involve another female partner will have to understand that I am not interested in her at all. I am friendly, but I'm never going to accept a relationship beyond friendship with another woman. The male side of the m/f couple is more than welcome to talk with me and see how things work out.
Couples involving two males has always interested me, but I'm not really sure what to make of my interest. Obviously two gay men aren't the icing on my cake, but I'm not shutting them out completely. I also understand that a m/m couple does not have to be gay.
I am not looking for a sex partner. I am looking for someone who isn't completely focused on his own needs, but rather the greater whole. Do I want there to be intimacy? Yes, ideally. I'm very focused on a set pattern, though, and I can't stand someone who thinks he can jump from A to M because he's much more interested in getting off or being 'dommed'. ps - Don't ask about the pattern. :P It's very female and it's easy to figure out.
I am interested in attractive people. Your attitude and personality account for a lot, but so does the fact that every adult should take some time to make themselves look neat, clean, and healthy every day.
I am married to a heterosexual man. That means that the person I find will not be having sex with him, end of story. My husband will be an active figure in our lives, since this is a group relationship, and not just an off-on 'thing'. He is a switch, and will define his role with you himself.
I have pets (dogs, cats, and horses) and love them like furry children. If you're allergic to animal dander you need to consider getting treatment (I live with it) or regretfully move along. Vacuuming twice a day is a way of life here. If you have pets, the more the merrier, as our living situation allows. I do not allow animal abuse of any kind to happen under my roof, and I do not associate with people who abuse animals.
We currently live in New Orleans, Louisiana. We both dislike living here because it does not fit our active, outdoor lifestyle at all. We do have plans to move out of state in five years, or until I finish school.
We both work, and expect you to do the same. No free loaders here, and none wanted.
We are unable to accept a live-in situation at the moment because of a very small apartment, but have talked extensively about moving into a single family home after July.
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