People never cease to amaze me.  How could anyone not get to know someone and let them do anything and everything to them?  How can you love a Master, serve a Master and not know him? How can someone truly submit without the solid foundation, that you must have for any relationship, the same applys here.  To be a part of the a family you have to know the family, you have to trust the family, and be able to love and grow in that family.  Once those things are in place the rest of the story opens up and takes shape.

  I have read many profiles of those who want to be poly, but want it in a minute not thinking about everything that it means to be a part of a family and belonging too the others in the relationalship.  Others demand money and sex right away or even direct cruelty.  Submission true submission is given in love not in fear.....serving ONE Master is done out of love and being able to share love between three is a beautiful thing only to be done in love and trust.

Stop thinking from your needs because once you have reached this point we look to serve something greater than ourselves to make someone elses life better and the beauty that surrounds us from that is ecstasy.

 This is worth reading........

 Submission is not about sex. Submission is not something one can learn. It is not sex. It is not dirty. Submission is beauty. It is a beauty that comes from the very soul of a submissive woman. It is a breaking down of the walls built up in her lifetime, allowing the beautiful, sensual woman to come through.